Henry is a classic Hemingway man: a stoic man of action with a personal code of honor who also enjoys the pleasures of life. For instance, the three doctors who fail to treat Henry's leg are the antithesis of Hemingway men. Besides being timid and unsure, they fail the test of manhood by refusing to drink with Henry when he offers.
While Henry has many attributes of a Hemingway man at the start of the novel, he nonetheless evolves over the course of the novel. He gives up the macho posturing and womanizing of his fellow officers in favor of a life of commitment to Catherine. He also asserts his individualism by refusing to participate in what he sees as a corrupt and pointless war.
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Manhood Quotes in A Farewell to Arms
Below you will find the important quotes in A Farewell to Arms related to the theme of Manhood.
Chapter 3
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I had gone to no place where the roads were frozen and hard as iron, where it was clear cold and dry and the snow was dry and powdery and hare-tracks in the snow and the peasants took off their hats and called you Lord and there was good hunting. I had gone to no such place but to the smoke of cafes and nights when the room whirled and you needed to look at the wall to make it stop, nights in bed, drunk, when you knew that that was all there was.
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Lieutenant Frederic Henry (speaker)
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Chapter 11
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"You do not love Him at all?" he asked.
"I am afraid of Him in the night sometimes."
"You should love Him."
"I don't love much."
"I am afraid of Him in the night sometimes."
"You should love Him."
"I don't love much."
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Lieutenant Frederic Henry (speaker), The Priest (speaker)
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Chapter 15
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I have noticed that doctors who fail in the practice of medicine have a tendency to seek one another's company and aid in consultation. A doctor who cannot take out your appendix properly will recommend to you a doctor who will be unable to remove your tonsils with success. These were three such doctors.
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Lieutenant Frederic Henry (speaker)
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Chapter 27
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I was always embarrassed by the words sacred, glorious and sacrifice and the expression in vain. We had heard them, sometimes standing in the rain almost out of earshot, so that only the shouted words came through, and had read them on proclamations that were slapped up by billposters over other proclamations, now for a long time, and I had seen nothing sacred, and the things that were glorious had no glory and the sacrifices were like the stockyards at Chicago if nothing was done with the meat except to bury it.
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Lieutenant Frederic Henry (speaker)
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Chapter 30
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The questioners had that beautiful detachment and devotion to stern justice of men dealing in death without being in any danger of it.
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Lieutenant Frederic Henry (speaker)
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Chapter 34
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I had the paper but I did not read it because I did not want to read about the war. I was going to forget the war. I had made a separate peace.
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Lieutenant Frederic Henry (speaker)
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The world breaks every one and afterward many are strong at the broken places. But those that will not break it kills. It kills the very good and the very gentle and the very brave impartially. If you are none of these you can be sure it will kill you too but there will be no special hurry.
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Lieutenant Frederic Henry (speaker)
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Chapter 41
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God please make her not die. I'll do anything you say if you don't let her die. You took the baby but don't let her die. That was all right but don't let her die. Please, please, dear God, don't let her die.
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Lieutenant Frederic Henry (speaker), Catherine Barkley
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