A Monster Calls

by Patrick Ness

Conor’s Father Character Analysis

Conor’s father and the ex-husband of Conor’s mother. Conor’s mother and father divorced when Conor was seven years old, and Conor explains that he barely remembers what it’s like to have a father in the house. Conor’s father now lives in America with his new wife, Stephanie, and a new baby. Conor’s father comes to visit when Conor’s mother ends up in the hospital. Conor is happy to see him—he enjoys being with his father and is comforted to have a parental figure to help take care of him and relieve him of some of his responsibility. However, even though it is clear that Conor’s father has good intentions, he is rather flaky. When Conor asks if he could live with his father in America instead of living with his grandmother, Conor’s father quickly makes excuses as to why Conor can’t live with him. Instead of trying to make his son’s life easier, he repeats several times that Conor will have to “be brave” in the coming weeks. Thus, in contrast to Conor’s grandmother, who insists on treating him like a child, Conor’s father’s lack of taking responsibility forces Conor to be even more of an adult.

Conor’s Father Quotes in A Monster Calls

The A Monster Calls quotes below are all either spoken by Conor’s Father or refer to Conor’s Father. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
Death, Denial, and Acceptance Theme Icon
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A Monster Calls Quotes

He’d told no one about the nightmare. Not his mum, obviously, but no one else either, not his dad in their fortnightly (or so) phone call, definitely not his grandma, and no one at school. Absolutely not.

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley, Conor’s Mother, Conor’s Father, Conor’s Grandmother, The Monster
Page Number and Citation: 1
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Champ Quotes

“We barely have room for the three of us, Con. Your grandma has a lot more money and space than we do. Plus, you’re in school here, your friends are here, your whole life is here. It would be unfair to just take you out of all that.”

“Unfair to who?” Conor asked.

His father sighed. “This is what I meant,” he said. “This is what I meant when I said you were going to have to be brave.”

Related Characters: Conor’s Father (speaker), Conor O’Malley (speaker), Conor’s Grandmother, Conor’s Mother
Page Number and Citation: 88
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Invisible Quotes

His classmates kept their distance from him, too, like he was giving off a bad smell. He tried to remember if he’d talked to any of them since he’d arrived this morning. He didn’t think he had. Which meant he hadn’t actually spoken to anyone since his father that morning.

How could something like that happen?

But, finally, here was Harry. And that, at least, felt normal.

Related Characters: Conor O’Malley, Conor’s Father, Conor’s Mother, Conor’s Grandmother, Harry, Anton, Sully
Page Number and Citation: 125
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Could It Be? Quotes

“Son,” his father said, leaning forward. “Stories don’t always have happy endings.”

This stopped him. Because they didn’t, did they? That’s one thing the monster had definitely taught him. Stories were wild, wild animals and went off in directions you couldn’t expect.

Related Characters: Conor’s Father (speaker), Conor O’Malley, Conor’s Mother, The Monster
Related Symbols: The Yew Tree
Page Number and Citation: 134
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Conor’s Father Character Timeline in A Monster Calls

The timeline below shows where the character Conor’s Father appears in A Monster Calls. The colored dots and icons indicate which themes are associated with that appearance.
A Monster Calls
Death, Denial, and Acceptance Theme Icon
...too afraid to tell anyone about it—certainly not his mother, and not his grandmother or father either, and no one at school. He hears someone calling his name, a quiet whisper... (full context)
Life Writing
Death, Denial, and Acceptance Theme Icon
Storytelling Theme Icon
Family and Growing Up Theme Icon
Conor thinks about a few important events that had happened in his life: his father leaving, the cat wandering off, the afternoon his mother said they needed to have a... (full context)
Family and Growing Up Theme Icon
...arrives home to the house that he has always lived in. After his mother and father had divorced, and his father had moved to America, his mother only asked to keep... (full context)
Little Talk
Death, Denial, and Acceptance Theme Icon
...grandmother tells him sternly that the treatments aren’t working. She also tells Conor that his father is flying in on Sunday to visit. Conor’s father hadn’t visited from America since last... (full context)
Grandma’s House
Family and Growing Up Theme Icon
...away from his house for the monster to visit. It is Sunday, the day his father is arriving. Conor’s grandmother has been driving Conor the 45 minutes to school every day,... (full context)
Death, Denial, and Acceptance Theme Icon
Conor’s grandmother leaves to go to the hospital while Conor waits for his father. He goes up to the “guest room,” which his grandmother insists on calling “his room.”... (full context)
Family and Growing Up Theme Icon
...sitting room, but he settles in there to read his book while waiting for his father. He marvels at the pristine antiques that no one is allowed to touch. He realizes... (full context)
Champ
Death, Denial, and Acceptance Theme Icon
Family and Growing Up Theme Icon
Conor and his father go out for pizza, and Conor’s notes that his father sounds more and more American... (full context)
Storytelling Theme Icon
Family and Growing Up Theme Icon
Conor’s father invites Conor to visit him and his family in America for Christmas. Conor asks why... (full context)
Death, Denial, and Acceptance Theme Icon
Family and Growing Up Theme Icon
Conor’s father argues that Conor’s grandmother has more money and space, and that it wouldn’t be fair... (full context)
Americans Don’t Get Much Holiday
Family and Growing Up Theme Icon
Conor’s father drives Conor home after dinner. When Conor asks how long he’s staying, Conor’s father tells... (full context)
Storytelling Theme Icon
...“only of himself,” and who gets punished “very, very badly indeed.” Conor thinks of his father, and says that he is listening. (full context)
Invisible
Death, Denial, and Acceptance Theme Icon
...have the nightmare, and woke up screaming. When he came downstairs in the morning, his father was making breakfast for him. His father said then that Conor’s mother has “taken a... (full context)
Death, Denial, and Acceptance Theme Icon
Isolation Theme Icon
Family and Growing Up Theme Icon
Conor had asked to go to the hospital too, but his father assured him that he would pick him up from school if he needed to. He... (full context)
Could It Be?
Family and Growing Up Theme Icon
...to cure his mother. Conor walks down the corridor and sees his grandmother and his father arguing. Conor asks what’s going on; his father says that he has to fly back... (full context)
Death, Denial, and Acceptance Theme Icon
Conor’s father takes Conor to a park across from the hospital. He tells Conor that the new... (full context)
Storytelling Theme Icon
Conor’s father says that “stories don’t always have happy endings,” which stops Conor in his tracks. Conor’s... (full context)
A Note
Isolation Theme Icon
...either. Whenever he visits his mother, she’s often too tired to talk to him. His father calls occasionally, but he never has anything to say. The monster hasn’t returned since the... (full context)