LitCharts assigns a color and icon to each theme in An American Marriage, which you can use to track the themes throughout the work.
Love and Marriage in Crisis
Parenthood as a Choice
Appearances vs. Reality
The Effects of Incarceration
Race and Class
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Roy believes he falls into the category of people who have left home, as opposed to those who have not. Though his wife Celestial refers to him as a country boy, he sees his home of Eloe, Louisiana as a small town. Celestial, meanwhile, is from Atlanta and thinks of herself as cosmopolitan, though she still lives in the house she grew up in.
Roy and Celestial come from very different backgrounds. These differences highlight the way that Roy wants to rise above his lower-class roots, while Celestial is content to remain in the upper-class world in which she was raised.
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Roy attended Morehouse College, becoming the first of his family to get an undergraduate education. He thinks of home as the place one launches from, not where one lands. His parents worked hard so that they were never poor, but they did struggle. He reflects that, ten years after arriving in Atlanta, the city had become his home and Celestial his family. At that point, they’d been happily married for a year and a half. Celestial was an artist—a “shooting star” woman—and Roy was “on the come-up” in business.
Roy’s ambition is evidenced by his attending a historically black college and establishing a life with Celestial in urban Atlanta. Their success in their respective careers is a point of pride for Roy, as is their happy marriage. These details underscore the promise and potential of the young couple.
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Roy recalls, in flashback, how his girlfriend before Celestial was also a “proper” girl from Atlanta yet pulled a gun on him at a gala, accusing him of cheating on her. After breaking up, Roy went to visit his parents, Big Roy and Olive, in Eloe. There, Olive told him that his girlfriend was probably already with someone else because no one would dump him without an alternative in place. Roy confirmed that his ex immediately began dating a lawyer after they broke up. Olive then told him that he should be with someone from their hometown, rather than attempting to romance light-skinned women in Atlanta.
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Roy believes that Olive should have liked Celestial from the beginning because they had so much in common, but Olive has always believed Celestial is from another world. Celestial says that the only thing that might make Olive love her would be a baby. Roy is ready to start a family and thinks about how, unlike his own parents did, he won’t constantly remind his children of the slaves who lost their lives so that they could live the way they do. Celestial vows to never tell their children they have to be “twice as good to have half as much.” Celestial is a refined woman who bears her height as if she chose to be tall. Roy considers asking if they can name their child Future.
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At their wedding, Celestial makes it clear to Roy that all of the pomp and circumstance are just for show. In Bali on their honeymoon, Roy suggests they make a baby, but Celestial tells him it’s not time yet. On their first wedding anniversary, they agree it’s time to start trying, but Celestial discovers a woman’s phone number in Roy’s wallet. Though he says that nothing happened, Celestial is angry. They make love, but Celestial insists he wear a condom.
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Roy is Celestial’s muse. Her first award-winning sculpture is a work in glass that looks like a large marble with Roy’s face swirled inside. Roy’s goal is to work hard so that Celestial can stay home making her art, primarily dolls. Roy has a plan for making a wholesale business of the dolls, and he notes that the plan works out in the end.
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Something terrible happens when the couple visits Roy’s parents in Eloe over Labor Day weekend. Roy has just made some big sales, and he hopes to buy a new home because their current home was deeded from Celestial’s parents to her alone. As they approach Eloe, Celestial tells Roy she has a bad feeling about the visit, adding that she gets nervous around his parents. To Roy, however, it’s Celestial’s parents who are wealthy and unapproachable, having earned a considerable fortune a decade before when her father invented a compound to keep orange juice from separating.
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Roy tries to calm Celestial’s nerves, but she suggests they return home, encouraging Roy to blame their absence on her. Roy notes that, looking back, he wishes he would have paid attention to the danger signs, but, in the moment, he hoped that Celestial was being overemotional because maybe she was pregnant—something that would have “locked up” their relationship.
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Upon arriving at his parents’ home, Roy bounds out of the car and Olive is elated to see him. Celestial remains in the car at first, until Roy returns to help her out. After ushering her inside, Roy hangs back with Big Roy who tells him that the dynamic between Celestial, Roy and Olive is a “triangle.” Roy says that the women will eventually warm up to one another.
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When the women join them in the kitchen, Olive tells Celestial that she hears her daughter-in-law is famous; Roy had sent his mother a copy of Celestial’s college alumni bulletin featuring an article about her dolls. Olive asks if people really pay $5,000 for the dolls and Celestial demurs, but Roy proudly confirms that this is true. Olive conjectures that it must be white folks who are willing to pay that much. Celestial steps up to defend herself, saying the dolls are intricately made works of art. Big Roy says perhaps they need to see one in person and Celestial goes to the car to get one.
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Celestial brings in a doll swaddled like a baby, a commission for the mayor of Atlanta. Olive gasps when she sees the doll, recognizing its likeness to Roy. With Olive rendered speechless, Celestial describes the care she put into the doll’s construction. Olive asks if she can have it, but Roy tells her it’s already sold for $10,000. Celestial says Olive can have it and that she will simply make another one for the mayor. Thinking Celestial is rubbing in her success in her face by mentioning the mayor, Olive refuses the doll.
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The groups eats dinner together quietly. Roy sips his iced tea and realizes Olive was so angry she mistakenly seasoned it with salt instead of sugar. His diploma then falls off the wall and the glass of the frame cracks. In hindsight, Roy wonders whether these were signs.
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After dinner, Big Roy offers to bring their bags into the house, but Roy says he’s booked them a room at the Piney Woods. Olive asks if this was Celestial’s idea, but Roy takes full credit. It takes them a long while to leave the house for the hotel. Olive tells Celestial she would accept another doll that Celestial might make especially for Olive and Big Roy notes that a live grandchild would be even better.
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On their way to the hotel, Roy pulls over near a bridge. He carries Celestial down the embankment, grateful to be stronger than her. As they sit near the bank of the stream, Roy tells her about fishing here with Big Roy when he was younger. He says that the cars passing on the bridge overhead sound like a song. Roy admires his wife’s scent and beauty and calls her “Georgia,” her pet name, and they kiss passionately.
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The hotel where they stay is not particularly nice. Roy tells Celestial that Olive worked there as a cleaner when the place was called The Rebel’s Roost and a Confederate flag hung in each room. Olive went into labor while working but refused to let Roy be born under that flag, so the motel owner drove her to Alexandria.
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When Celestial asks if his father was working at the time, Roy reveals that Big Roy is not his biological father. Instead, he adopted Roy when he was a baby and changed his name. Celestial asks why Roy is only telling her this now, a year after they’ve been married. Roy asks what difference it makes who his father is, but Celestial is hurt at the deception rather than the news itself. He says he knows who his father is, he just doesn’t know him.
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Roy stops Celestial from saying more by speaking the words “November 17.” They use this code, the anniversary of their first date, as a way to stop fighting They agree to take a break from arguing for fifteen minutes and Roy goes to fill the ice bucket. He knows that in the meantime Celestial will call her childhood friend Andre, who introduced Roy to Celestial in college.
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At the ice machine, Roy meets a woman about Olive’s age, heavyset, with her arm in a sling. In an attempt to be courteous, he carries her ice to her room for her and then props her window open with a bible. The woman asks if he can look at the runny toilet and he fixes it, leaving with a warning that she should double-check the lock on her room’s loose doorknob. He leaves the room at exactly 8:48 p.m. and at taps on the door to his own room at 8:53 p.m. Celestial makes them drinks and Roy notes that this is the last happy evening he’d experience for a long time.
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