A blonde-haired, “dazzlingly white” singer who meets the narrator when he is already living as a white man but still playing ragtime. He loves her voice, she loves his piano playing, and they soon begin a relationship—but the narrator realizes he has to tell her about his original racial identity, and she leaves New York for a summer when he does so, only to return and agree to marry him anyway. In this phase of the narrator’s life, his wife is the only person who knows his secret; they have a relatively happy marriage and she dies giving birth to their second child.
The Narrator’s Wife / The Singer Quotes in Autobiography of an Ex-Colored Man
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Chapter 11
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“I understand, understand even better than you, and so I suffer even more than you. But why should either of us suffer for what neither of us is to blame for? If there is any blame, it belongs to me and I can only make the old, yet strongest plea that can be offered, I love you; and I know that my love, my great love, infinitely overbalances that blame and blots it out. What is it that stands in the way of our happiness? It is not what you feel or what I feel; it is not what you are or what I am. It is what others feel and are. But, oh! is that a fair price? In all the endeavors and struggles of life, in all our strivings and longings, there is only one thing worth seeking, only one thing worth winning, and that is love. It is not always found; but when it is, there is nothing in all the world for which it can be profitably exchanged.”
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107
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After meeting and beginning a relationship with the white woman who later becomes his wife, the narrator finally decides to reveal his true racial heritage to her before proposing marriage—but, horrified, she leaves in tears and disappears to visit relatives in another state for the summer. He writes her this letter in an attempt to win her back but gets little more than a formal acknowledgment in response. Her reaction is, he realizes, more akin to the shame that led him to give up his race than a product of her own racism. In fact, this is the only instance Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperiores. Ut aliquam officiis. Unde enim nesciunt. Commodi necessitatibus voluptas. Accusamus eaque omnis. Velit eaque error. Possimus corrupti soluta. Qui aut a. Rerum voluptas debitis. Voluptatem accusantium est. Mollitia eaque ipsa. Perferendis consectetur et. Dicta impedit ut. Ducimus possimus quo. Non inventore in. Eligendi atque placeat. Molestiae earum eum. Libero sit beatae. At a deserunt.
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The Narrator’s Wife / The Singer Character Timeline in Autobiography of an Ex-Colored Man
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Chapter 11
One night, at a musical party, the narrator fell in love with a singer , “the most dazzlingly white thing I had ever seen.” He mainly loved her voice...
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...him “and let drop no word that would have aroused suspicion as to the truth.” The singer joined in the chatter, and the ex-colored man “was surprised at the amount of interest...
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As the narrator played Faure’s 13th Nocturne for the singer one night, he was overcome with “a wave of exaltation” and proclaimed his love for...
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The whole summer, the singer did not write to the narrator; he began to despair and lose all energy. Even...
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The narrator and the singer married the next spring and spent a few months in France. They had a daughter...
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