Breath, Eyes, Memory

by

Edwidge Danticat

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In Breath, Eyes, Memory, Sophie Caco leaves her home in Haiti at the age of 12 to join her mother in New York. “Home” becomes a complicated concept in the novel as the overwhelmed, disoriented Sophie struggles to adjust to life in Brooklyn, all the while missing the family and friends she left behind. As the novel progresses and a return to Haiti becomes more and more vital, necessary, and inevitable for Sophie, Edwidge Danticat argues that perhaps a real, physical sense of “home” doesn’t exist—instead, home consists of the metaphorical, existential places one can never return to, try as one might.

Throughout the novel, as Sophie—reluctantly, at first, and later restlessly—roams around in search of a place to call home, Danticat shows how the “homes” people long to return to are often less about a physical place and more about a feeling or a state of mind. For Sophie, home is the innocence and peace of her childhood—a time before she encountered the trauma, violence, and despair of womanhood. Early in the novel, Sophie’s childhood in Haiti is presented as relatively idyllic—even in the face of poverty and violence in her own village and the country more largely, Sophie has a close and loving relationship with her Tante Atie, a sense of gratitude for their relative economic stability, and pleasurable, comforting small moments throughout each of her days. When Sophie moves to New York to be with her mother, Martine—who has been there, saving money and working, since Sophie’s infancy—Sophie’s life is uprooted swiftly and unceremoniously, and her arrival in a gritty, dingy neighborhood of Brooklyn overwhelms and disorients her. Sophie’s notion of “home” is disrupted early on in the novel, and Haiti—her first home—becomes a place from which she is stripped away without her consent. This inspires an intense longing in Sophie that never goes away, no matter how she tries to tamp it down and move forward with greeting the “challenge” of her new life—a longing which comes to shape her fractured definition of what it means to feel at home somewhere.

In the second part of the novel, Sophie is 18 and well-adjusted to life in Brooklyn—she is not as happy as she could be, and often feels constrained by her mother’s expectations of her, but New York is more or less her home. After Sophie falls in love with Joseph, an older musician who lives next door, things at home go from tenable to miserable as Martine begins “testing” Sophie’s virginity each night. Sophie, realizing that she does not feel safe in her mother’s house anymore, violently severs herself from her mother by mutilating her own vagina with a pestle from the kitchen. She flees next door to Joseph, accepts his longstanding marriage proposal, and moves with him to Providence, Rhode Island. When she was brought to New York from Haiti, Sophie was told that her true home was with her mother, because daughters always belong with their mothers. For a while, this seemed true enough, and Sophie grew to accept her mother as a proxy for home. Wherever Martine was, home was there, too. However, as Martine turns suspicious and violent towards Sophie and begins sexually violating her on a regular basis, Sophie realizes that this definition of home doesn’t work, either, and seeks to make a new home with Joseph far away from her mother.

Toward the end of the novel, Sophie is dissatisfied in her marriage with Joseph—who insists on having regular sex with her even though she dissociates during the act due to physical and emotional trauma. She decides to take a spontaneous trip to Haiti to visit Tante Atie and Granmè Ifé, bringing her infant daughter, Brigitte, along with her. Sophie is only in Haiti for a few short days, but the time she spends there feels vital, grounding, and informative. Sophie learns about the generational trauma the women within her family suffer, and she even reconnects with Martine—the two resolve to begin their relationship fresh. When Sophie returns home to a worried Joseph, who asks her about the trip, she refers to Haiti as “home”—a word choice that perturbs Joseph. Joseph reminds Sophie that she has never called Haiti home in the time he’s known her—home for Sophie, he reminds her, has always been her mother’s house, the one place she “could never go back to.” This final twist in Sophie’s journey to find “home” shows that home, for Sophie—and, Danticat suggests, for many—is not defined by any one physical place. When Sophie was a teenager, Haiti was her home because it was the place she could never return to; as an adult, that place has become her mother’s house, because she was similarly barred from returning there. Now that Sophie has reconnected with Martine and spent a night in her childhood home in Brooklyn, she has realized—perhaps unconsciously—that “home” is constantly in flux, and the places people think of as the homes where they belong are often the places where they feel most forbidden from going, or where they’re most acutely unable to recapture the security of their youth. 

At the end of the novel, when Sophie returns to Haiti a second time to bury her mother, villagers and neighbors in La Nouvelle Dame Marie greet her as though she has “lived there all [her] life.” Sophie has returned physically to the “home” she’s been longing to get back to since her girlhood—but Sophie, now a wife and a mother with “very American” thoughts and tendencies, is forced to realize that her idea of home is unfixed and unmoored. Sophie, whose “homes” have now encompassed Haiti, Brooklyn, and Providence, realizes that there is no physical place that will make her feel the security she felt in her youth: she must learn to make a new home, within—and for—herself.

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Home Quotes in Breath, Eyes, Memory

Below you will find the important quotes in Breath, Eyes, Memory related to the theme of Home.
Chapter 1 Quotes

[Tante Atie] took the card from my hand. The flower nearly fell off. She pressed the tape against the short stem, forced the baby daffodil back in its place, and handed the card back to me. She did not even look inside.

“Not this year,” she said. […] “It is not mine. It is your mother’s. We must send it to your mother.

Related Characters: Sophie Caco (speaker), Tante Atie (speaker), Martine Caco
Related Symbols: Daffodils
Page Number: 7
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Chapter 2 Quotes

Tante Atie told me that my mother loved daffodils because they grew in a place that they were not supposed to. They were really European flowers […] meant for colder climates. A long time ago, a French woman had brought them to Croix-des-Rosets. […] A strain of daffodils had grown that could withstand the heat, but they were the color of pumpkins, […] as though they had acquired a bronze tinge from the skin of the natives who had adopted them.

Related Characters: Sophie Caco (speaker), Martine Caco , Tante Atie
Related Symbols: Daffodils
Page Number: 20
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Chapter 11 Quotes

As she tested me, to distract me, she told me, “The Marasas were two inseparable lovers. They were the same person, duplicated in two. […] What vail lovers they were, those Marasas. Admiring one another for being so much alike… When you love someone, you want him to be closer to you than your Marasa. Closer than your shadow. […] You would leave me for an old man who you didn’t know the year before. You and I we could be like Marasas. You are giving up a lifetime with me. Do you understand? There are secrets you cannot keep.”

Related Characters: Martine Caco (speaker), Sophie Caco, Joseph
Page Number: 83-84
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Chapter 13 Quotes

“Some people need to forget. […] I need to remember.”

Related Characters: Sophie Caco (speaker)
Page Number: 93
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Chapter 18 Quotes

“Your husband? Is he a good man?”

“He is a very good man, but I have no desire. I feel like it is an evil thing to do.”

“Your mother? Did she ever test you?”

“You can call it that.”

“That is what we have always called it.”

“I call it humiliation,” I said. “I hate my body. I am ashamed to show it to anybody, including my husband. Sometimes I feel like I should be off somewhere by myself. That is why I am here.”

Related Characters: Sophie Caco (speaker), Granmè Ifé (speaker), Joseph
Page Number: 121-122
Explanation and Analysis:
Chapter 26 Quotes

“The new lady,” [Eliab] said, “does she belong to you?”

“Sometimes I claim her,” I said, “sometimes I do not.”

Related Characters: Sophie Caco (speaker), Eliab (speaker), Martine Caco , Joseph
Page Number: 169
Explanation and Analysis:
Chapter 30 Quotes

“My grandmother was preparing her funeral,” I said. “It’s a thing at home.” […]

“You called it home?” [Joseph] said. “Haiti.”

“What else would I call it?”

“You have never called it that since we’ve been together. Home has always been your mother’s house, that you could never go back to.”

Related Characters: Sophie Caco (speaker), Joseph (speaker), Martine Caco , Granmè Ifé
Page Number: 198
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Chapter 32 Quotes

“Your mother never gave him a face. That’s why he’s a shadow. That’s why he can control her. I’m not surprised she’s having nightmares. […] You and your mother should both go there again and see that you can walk away from it. Even if you can never face the man who is your father, there are things that you can say to the spot where it happened. I think you’ll be free once you have your confrontation. There will be no more ghosts.”

Related Characters: Rena (speaker), Sophie Caco, Martine Caco
Related Symbols: Dreams and Night Terrors
Page Number: 214-215
Explanation and Analysis:
Chapter 35 Quotes

“There is a place […] where the daughter is never fully a woman until her mother has passed on before her. There is always a place where, if you listen closely in the night, you will hear your mother telling a story and at the end of the tale, she will ask you this question: ‘Ou libere?’ Are you free, my daughter?”

My grandmother quickly pressed her fingers over my lips.

“Now,” she said, “you will know how to answer.”

Related Characters: Sophie Caco (speaker), Granmè Ifé (speaker), Martine Caco
Page Number: 239
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