Buddenbrooks

Buddenbrooks

by Thomas Mann
Bendix Grünlich is Tony Buddenbrook’s first husband. Tony despises Grünlich from the first time she meets him, though it’s not clear which she finds more unattractive: his obvious obsequiousness around the Buddenbrook family, or his prominent golden muttonchops. She is horrified when the consul and Bethsy inform her that they have selected Grünlich to be her husband and treats Grünlich with open disdain, to no avail: Grünlich remains desperate as ever to win Tony over. In the end, Tony’s sense of duty to her family overpowers her disdain for Grünlich, and she agrees to marry him. The marriage is a disaster from the start, however. Grünlich finds a villa on the outskirts of town for the couple to live in, completely disregarding Tony’s wish to live in Hamburg’s city center. After the couple have a daughter together, Erika, Grünlich refuses to hire a governess to help Tony with childcare, claiming he doesn’t have enough money to pay for additional help. The last straw is when Grünlich goes bankrupt and Consul Buddenbrook learns that Grünlich has played him for a fool from the start. Grünlich was never the successful businessman he claimed to be: he was falsifying his financial papers in order to appear wealthier than he was. He only married Tony to gain access to her family wealth. When the consul becomes aware of this, he angrily refuses to grant Grünlich any additional loans, and he gives Tony permission to divorce Grünlich.

Bendix Grünlich Quotes in Buddenbrooks

The Buddenbrooks quotes below are all either spoken by Bendix Grünlich or refer to Bendix Grünlich. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
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Part 3, Chapter 2 Quotes

“Would she, as Madame Grünlich, drink chocolate every morning?”

Related Characters: Tony Buddenbrook (speaker), The Consul (Johann Buddenbrook III/Jean Buddenbrook), Elisabeth “Bethsy” Buddenbrook , Bendix Grünlich
Related Symbols: Food and Drink
Page Number and Citation: 103
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Part 3, Chapter 8 Quotes

Tony followed the gesture with her eyes, and they gazed together into the same distance—it would not have taken much for their two hands, lying side by side on the beach, to have joined. They said nothing for a long time. And while the sea murmured ponderously and peacefully below, Tony suddenly felt herself united with Morten in a great, vague, yearning, intuitive understanding of what “freedom” meant.

Related Characters: Morten Schwarzkopf/Young Schwarzkopf, Bendix Grünlich, Tony Buddenbrook
Page Number and Citation: 137
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Part 3, Chapter 10 Quotes

We are not born, my dear daughter, to pursue our own small personal happiness, for we are not separate, independent, self-subsisting individuals, but links in a chain; and it is inconceivable that we would be what we are without those who have preceded us and shown us the path that they themselves have scrupulously trod, looking neither to the left nor the right, but, rather, following a venerable and trustworthy tradition.

Related Characters: The Consul (Johann Buddenbrook III/Jean Buddenbrook) (speaker), Bendix Grünlich, Morten Schwarzkopf/Young Schwarzkopf, Tony Buddenbrook
Page Number and Citation: 144
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Part 3, Chapter 13 Quotes

Tony gazed for a long time at her own name and the open space after it. And then, suddenly she flinched and swallowed hard, her whole face a play of nervous, eager movement, her lips quickly touching for just a moment—and now she grabbed the pen, plunged rather than dipped it into the ink well, and, crooking her index finger any laying her flushed head on her shoulder, wrote in her own clumsy hand, slanting upward from left to right: “Engaged on 22 September 1845 to Herr Bendix Grünlich, merchant from Hamburg.”

Related Characters: The Consul (Johann Buddenbrook III/Jean Buddenbrook) (speaker), Tony Buddenbrook, Morten Schwarzkopf/Young Schwarzkopf, Bendix Grünlich
Related Symbols: Family Records
Page Number and Citation: 155-156
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Part 4, Chapter 7 Quotes

It would be difficult to describe the play of emotions on Johann Buddenbrook’s face. There was shock and sadness in his eyes, but he pressed his lips together hard, creating folds along his cheeks and at the corners of his mouth, an expression he usually reserved for the completion of a profitable business deal. He said softly, “Four years…”

Related Characters: The Consul (Johann Buddenbrook III/Jean Buddenbrook) (speaker), Tony Buddenbrook, Bendix Grünlich
Page Number and Citation: 214
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Bendix Grünlich Character Timeline in Buddenbrooks

The timeline below shows where the character Bendix Grünlich appears in Buddenbrooks. The colored dots and icons indicate which themes are associated with that appearance.
Part 3, Chapter 1
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...and places a calling card on the tea tray. The consul reads the card  aloud: “Grünlich, Commercial Agent.” The consul explains that he has business to discuss with Grünlich—apparently a nice... (full context)
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Grünlich appears grateful as Tom approaches with a chair for him. Then he tells the family... (full context)
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Grünlich shifts his focus to Tony and asks what she’s reading. Tony answers with a scowl.... (full context)
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At last, Grünlich says he must leave to attend to some business matters. Bethsy offers Grünlich a room... (full context)
Part 3, Chapter 2
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A few days later, Tony runs into Herr Grünlich on the street. He exclaims how happy he is to see her. Tony replies, “The... (full context)
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...and Bethsy have something important to tell her. At last, the consul confirms Tony’s fears: Grünlich has written the consul and Bethsy a letter asking for Tony’s hand in marriage. (full context)
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Tony begins to cry. The consul smiles affectionately and assures Tony that they will handle Grünlich’s proposal “calmly, because it is a serious matter.” In light of this, he'll neither accept... (full context)
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...firm”—but the new and strange situation is difficult for her to get used to. And Grünlich is so “bland” and unattractive. She asks Bethsy for her advice. Bethsy echoes the consul’s... (full context)
Part 3, Chapter 3
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The summer drags on, and Tony still refuses to accept Grünlich’s proposal. Though she used to call the consul “Papa,” now she will only call him... (full context)
Part 3, Chapter 4
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Consul Buddenbrook confides in Bethsy about how puzzled he is by Tony’s rejection of Grünlich. Tony is young and inexperienced, and marriage to someone as respectable as Grünlich would instantly... (full context)
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Everyone who has heard about Grünlich’s proposal thinks Tony is foolish to say no. Finally, Consul Buddenbrook takes pity on Tony.... (full context)
Part 3, Chapter 5
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...young Schwarzkopf chat about school. Tony joins in, though she becomes enraged when Tom mentions Grünlich in passing. (full context)
Part 3, Chapter 9
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...the question he’s been wanting to ask since Tony’s first day here: “who is Herr Grünlich?” Tony looks pained. In a serious tone, she explains that Grünlich is a business acquaintance... (full context)
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Morten thinks Tony’s treatment of Grünlich is rather cold and unfeeling. He also tells her there’s nothing wrong about a man... (full context)
Part 3, Chapter 10
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In a letter to Tony, Grünlich laments how long it’s been since he last saw her beautiful face. He has anguished... (full context)
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Tony writes to the consul to complain about Grünlich. She pleads with her father to pass this along to Grünlich. Then she informs Consul... (full context)
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In his response to Tony’s letter, the consul says he passed along her rejection to Grünlich, who responded poorly and vowed to take his own life. The consul urges Tony to... (full context)
Part 3, Chapter 11
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Morten leads Grünlich inside and into Captain Schwarzkopf’s small office. Schwarzkopf enters and greets Grünlich, who responds with... (full context)
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Captain Schwarzkopf congratulates Grünlich, who coldly alludes to some “difficulties” that have gotten in the way of his proposal—and... (full context)
Part 3, Chapter 14
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Herr Grünlich and Consul Buddenbrook meet to discuss Tony’s dowry. Herr Grünlich negotiates the consul’s offer of... (full context)
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Grünlich spends the holidays with the Buddenbrooks and regards Tony with “the air of a satisfied... (full context)
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The wedding takes place in January of 1846. After, Tony and Grünlich make their way to their carriage, and the family assembles outside to bid Tony goodbye.... (full context)
Part 4, Chapter 1
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...describe the neighbor ladies she socializes with, and the couples who visit with Tony and Grünlich at their home. Grünlich himself is quite busy, leaving in their “little yellow buggy” for... (full context)
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...on all the goings on at home. He and Bethsy went to see Tony and Grünlich; though Grünlich hadn’t formally invited them, he treated them cordially. He laments Thomas’s mention of... (full context)
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In a letter dated October 8, 1846, Grünlich writes to the Buddenbrooks to inform them of the birth of his and Tony’s baby,... (full context)
Part 4, Chapter 5
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On a January morning in 1850, Grünlich and Tony are eating breakfast with three-year-old Erika. A decadent, “English style” feast sits upon... (full context)
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When Tony won’t stop badgering Grünlich, he accuses Tony of being spoiled and high-maintenance. She retorts that she’s worked hard to... (full context)
Part 4, Chapter 6
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Grünlich and Kesselmeyer leave the room to go speak in private. When Tony hears the men’s... (full context)
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Kesselmeyer leaves. Grünlich exits the smoking room to find Tony standing in the adjacent room, staring baldly at... (full context)
Part 4, Chapter 7
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Consul Buddenbrook arrives at the Grünlich villa in the afternoon. It’s been an exhausting past several days. Thomas has recently fallen... (full context)
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...already here, in the pensée room. Sighing, Consul Buddenbrook asks if Tony is aware of Grünlich’s situation. Tony admits to overhearing the last bit of Grünlich and Kesselmeyer’s conversation the other... (full context)
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Stroking his daughter’s hair, Consul Buddenbrook asks if it’s true that Tony loves Grünlich and can’t live without him. Tony, acting suddenly “childlike,” assures her father that she loves... (full context)
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Tony is horrified when the consul informs her of Grünlich’s money problems. The consul assures Tony she doesn’t have to stand by Grünlich if she... (full context)
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...she can finish the thought. Consul Buddenbrook admits that he regrets pushing Tony to marry Grünlich. He thought it was the right thing to do at the time, but it’s clear... (full context)
Part 4, Chapter 8
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Grünlich’s face is red when he at last greets Consul Buddenbrook. The consul only “bow[s] coldly”... (full context)
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At last, the consul speaks. He declares Grünlich’s ledgers to be those not only of “an unfortunate man”—but also “of a very guilty... (full context)
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Grünlich pleads with Consul Buddenbrook to reconsider, urging him to think of Tony and Erika. To... (full context)
Part 4, Chapter 9
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...tells her to gather her things—she and Erika are leaving with the consul at once. Grünlich barges in and throws himself at Tony’s feet and pleads with her not to leave... (full context)
Part 4, Chapter 10
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...when they first arrive. Though upset, Tony enjoys being seen as “an innocent victim” of Grünlich’s deceit and manipulation. She also feels closer to Consul Buddenbrook since “he had shown her... (full context)
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Grünlich files for bankruptcy, and the consul initiates divorce proceedings for Tony. The divorce is finalized... (full context)
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...Sesame Weichbrodt remains a compassionate and supportive friend to Tony. In time, Tony’s marriage to Grünlich seems like a distant dream, and she grows increasingly bored of her monotonous existence at... (full context)
Part 5, Chapter 9
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...right? Tony admits that while she loves Erika, the child reminds her too much of Grünlich, and it bothers her. She also hates how society seems to judge her for being... (full context)
Part 6, Chapter 5
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...Kistenmakers. Still, Tony reasons that she must marry. It's been 10 years since she married Grünlich, and she’s not getting any younger. (full context)
Part 6, Chapter 6
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...much like Tony. Tony scowls and explains that Erika looks a lot like her father (Grünlich)—“a wicked man.” They chat clumsily, and at last Permaneder awkwardly, indirectly asks Tony whether she’d... (full context)