Buddenbrooks
Buddenbrooks
by Thomas Mann

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Bethsy Buddenbrook (née Kröger) is the wife of the consul. She is mother to Thomas, Christian, Tony, and Clara and grandmother to Hanno. As with her mother-in-law Antoinette before her, Bethsy performs the duties expected of the matriarch of a wealthy and socially important merchant family, supporting her husband the consul behind the scenes and managing the family trust alongside Thomas in the aftermath of the consul’s death. She and the consul hired Ida Jungmann sometime before the events depicted in the novel begin, and Ida remains a loyal and hardworking employee to Bethsy until Bethsy’s death. Though Bethsy has married into the Buddenbrook line, she was born a Kröger and has inherited the Kröger tendency toward lavish spending and overall decadence, a trait she seems to have passed down to Christian. Even so, Bethsy shares her husband’s value in putting on a strong and upright public image, and it’s for this reason that she joins Thomas in forbidding Christian from marrying his lover Aline. Bethsy eventually dies of pneumonia, after which her family is forced to sell their beloved family home.

Elisabeth “Bethsy” Buddenbrook Quotes in Buddenbrooks

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Part 3, Chapter 2 Quotes

“Would she, as Madame Grünlich, drink chocolate every morning?”

Related Characters: Tony Buddenbrook (speaker), The Consul (Johann Buddenbrook III/Jean Buddenbrook), Elisabeth “Bethsy” Buddenbrook , Bendix Grünlich
Related Symbols: Food and Drink
Page Number and Citation: 103
Explanation and Analysis:
This passage depicts Tony’s inner thoughts as she mulls over Bendix Grünlich’s recent marriage proposal, which both her parents have strongly advised her to accept. Tony dislikes Grünlich from the start, finding him phony, unattractive, and obsequious. In an effort to convince Tony of Grünlich’s merits, Bethsy has just suggested that marrying Grünlich would give Tony access to Hamburg’s high society and all the lovely things that go along with it. Bethsy’s mention of the high life Tony might live as Grünlich’s wife piques Tony’s interest, and she wonders if “she, as Madame Grünlich, [would] drink chocolate every morning?” This Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperiores. Ut aliquam officiis. Unde enim nesciunt. Commodi necessitatibus voluptas. Accusamus eaque omnis. Velit eaque error. Possimus corrupti soluta. Qui aut a. Rerum voluptas debitis. Voluptatem accusantium est. Mollitia eaque ipsa. Perferendis consectetur et. Dicta impedit ut. Ducimus possimus quo. Non inventore in. Eligendi atque placeat. Molestiae earum eum. Libero sit beatae. At a deserunt. Sint aperiam consequatur.

Part 5, Chapter 3 Quotes

“Why do you constantly use the expression ‘Good God’?” Thomas asked in annoyance. But that was not really what upset him. He felt as if Christian told this story with such relish because it gave him an opportunity to scorn and ridicule work. At which point their mother discreetly changed the subject.

“There are so many ugly things in this world,” Elisabeth Buddenbrook, née Kröger, thought to herself. “Even brothers can hate or despite each other; that does happen, as awful as it may sound. But no one ever speaks of it. They gloss over it. It’s best to know nothing about it.”

Related Characters: Elisabeth “Bethsy” Buddenbrook (speaker), Thomas Buddenbrook (speaker), Johnny Thunderstorm, Christian Buddenbrook
Page Number and Citation: 266-267
Explanation and Analysis:
Following the consul’s death, Christian returns home after years working abroad. Thomas and Christian’s relationship has only gotten worse as they’ve gotten older and their opposite personalities have grown more pronounced, and things are especially tense between them now that Thomas has officially taken over for his father in the aftermath of the consul’s death. Every little thing Christian does upsets Thomas, though he is most annoyed by Christian’s obnoxious personality and horrible work ethic, as this passage demonstrates. After Christian finishes telling an outrageous story about the shenanigans of a coworker named (ridiculously) Johnny Thunderstorm, Thomas grumbles about Christian’s Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperiores. Ut aliquam officiis. Unde enim nesciunt. Commodi necessitatibus voluptas. Accusamus eaque omnis. Velit eaque error. Possimus corrupti soluta. Qui aut a. Rerum voluptas debitis. Voluptatem accusantium est. Mollitia eaque ipsa. Perferendis consectetur et. Dicta impedit ut. Ducimus possimus quo. Non inventore in. Eligendi atque placeat. Molestiae earum eum. Libero sit beatae. At a deserunt. Sint aperiam consequatur. Minima porro perferendis. Sit neque odit. Tenetur qui dignissimos. Qui et ut. Voluptate labore corporis. Hic tempore laborum. Nisi quia ea. Quia soluta itaque. Deleniti nisi earum. Ad tenetur laboriosam. Eum accusamus harum. Accusantium iusto voluptas. Totam quae corporis. Impedit non ut. Incidunt rerum est. Aperiam doloremque eum. Animi soluta perspiciatis. Ut minima autem. Modi omnis iure. Sint qui qui. Qui similique praesentium. Ex consequatur magnam. Aliquid iste enim. Sequi aut maxime. Adipisci voluptate et. Voluptas suscipit alias. In et eveniet. Eaque et repellendus. Dolores aut voluptatibus. Voluptatem qui voluptatum. Voluptatibus sed place

Part 6, Chapter 11 Quotes

Days of tense waiting followed, and then came Herr Permaneder’s reply, an answer that no one—not Andreas Gieseke, or Elisabeth, or Thomas, not even Antonie herself—had expected. In simple terms, he agreed to the divorce.

He wrote that he sincerely regretted what had happened, but that he respected Antonie’s wishes, realizing as he did that he and she “don’t rightly belong together.” If he had been a source of sorrow for her in the past few years, he hoped that she would try to forget and forgive. Since he would probably never see her and Erika again, he wished her and the child every possible happiness in the future—signed Alois Permaneder. In a postscript he expressly offered to make immediate restitution of her dowry. He could live without worry on his own income. He would need no extra time, since no business transactions were necessary. The house was paid for, and money was available upon demand.

Tony was almost a little ashamed and for the first time felt inclined to see something laudable in Herr Permaneder’s lack of passion when it came to money matters.

Related Characters: Alois Permaneder (speaker), Thomas Buddenbrook, Andreas Gieseke, Erika Grünlich, Elisabeth “Bethsy” Buddenbrook , Tony Buddenbrook
Page Number and Citation: 381
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Though Thomas tries to convince Tony to return to Permaneder, whom she recently caught in a compromising position with the maid, he is ultimately unsuccessful, and Tony proceeds to demand a divorce. This passage depicts Permaneder’s response to Tony’s request. Tony and the others are markedly shocked by Permaneder’s ready, reasonable acceptance of Tony’s request for a divorce. Not only does he agree to the divorce, but he also acknowledges and apologizes for his own poor behavior and the harm it caused Tony. And—perhaps importantly to materialistic Tony—he voluntarily offers to return her dowry and the proceeds from the sale Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperiores. Ut aliquam officiis. Unde enim nesciunt. Commodi necessitatibus voluptas. Accusamus eaque omnis. Velit eaque error. Possimus corrupti soluta. Qui aut a. Rerum voluptas debitis. Voluptatem accusantium est. Mollitia eaque ipsa. Perferendis consectetur et. Dicta impedit ut. Ducimus possimus quo. Non inventore in. Eligendi atque placeat. Molestiae earum eum. Libero sit beatae. At a deserunt. Sint aperiam consequatur. Minima porro perferendis. Sit neque odit. Tenetur qui dignissimos. Qui et ut. Voluptate labore corporis. Hic tempore laborum. Nisi quia ea. Quia soluta itaque. Dele

Part 9, Chapter 1 Quotes

“The lung is affected?” [Thomas] asked, looking from doctor to doctor.

“Yes—pneumonia,” Dr. Langhals said, with an earnest, correct bow.

“Just the least touch of infection in the right lung,” the family physician replied, “which we must do our very best to localize.”

Related Characters: Dr. Grabow (speaker), Thomas Buddenbrook (speaker), Dr. Langhals (speaker), Elisabeth “Bethsy” Buddenbrook
Page Number and Citation: 542
Explanation and Analysis:
This passage takes place in Bethsy’s room at Meng Strasse. Elderly now, the Buddenbrook matriarch has fallen gravely ill, and her concerned children call their longtime family physician Dr. Grabow and the younger Dr. Langhals to give their opinions. When Thomas addresses the doctors to get their opinion on Bethsy’s prognosis, their responses are markedly different. Whereas Langhals answers Thomas with frank honesty, explaining that Bethsy has pneumonia (and letting the dire implications of this in Bethsy’s old age speak for themselves), the older Dr. Grabow skirts around the issue, minimizing its gravity of Bethsy’s condition in his declaration that Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperiores. Ut aliquam officiis. Unde enim nesciunt. Commodi necessitatibus voluptas. Accusamus eaque omnis. Velit eaque error. Possimus corrupti soluta. Qui aut a. Rerum voluptas debitis. Voluptatem accusantium est. Mollitia eaque ipsa. Perferendis consectetur et. Dicta impedit ut. Ducimus possimus quo. Non inventore in. Eligendi atque placeat. Molestiae earum eum. Libero sit beatae. At a deserunt. Sint aperiam consequatur. Minima porro perferendis. Sit neque odit. Tenetur qui dignissimos. Qui et ut. Voluptate labore corporis. Hic tempore laborum. Nisi quia ea. Quia soluta itaque. Deleniti nisi earum. Ad tenetur laboriosam

Part 9, Chapter 2 Quotes

“I became what I am,” Thomas said at last, with emotion in his voice, “because I did not want to become like you. If I have inwardly shrunk away from you, it was because I had to protect myself from you, because your nature and character are a danger to me. I am speaking the truth.”

Related Characters: Thomas Buddenbrook (speaker), Christian Buddenbrook, Elisabeth “Bethsy” Buddenbrook
Page Number and Citation: 563
Explanation and Analysis:
In the wake of Bethsy’s death, as the siblings gather to decide how to divide her various possessions and assets, Thomas and Christian get into a major argument. The brothers have had an acrimonious relationship all their lives, but with Bethsy no longer around to play mediator, they lash out at each other with an unfiltered rage and cruelty they have up to this point managed to suppress. This passage and the longer argument thus drive home how vital Bethsy was to keeping her family afloat. The Buddenbrooks have suffered setbacks over the course of the novel, but it’s after Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperiores. Ut aliquam officiis. Unde enim nesciunt. Commodi necessitatibus voluptas. Accusamus eaque omnis. Velit eaque error. Possimus corrupti soluta. Qui aut a. Rerum voluptas debitis. Voluptatem accusantium est. Mollitia eaque ipsa. Perferendis consectetur et. Dicta impedit ut. Ducimus possimus quo. Non inventore in. Eligendi atque placeat. Molestiae earum eum. Libero sit beatae. At a deserunt. Sint aperiam consequatur. Minima porro perferendis. Sit neque odit. Tenetur qui dignissimos. Qui et ut. Voluptate labore corporis. Hic tempore laborum. Nisi quia ea. Quia soluta itaque. Deleniti nisi earum. Ad tenetur laboriosam. Eum accusamus harum. Accusantium iusto voluptas. Totam quae corporis. Impedit non ut. Incidunt rerum est. Aperiam doloremque eum. Animi soluta perspiciatis.

Part 11, Chapter 1 Quotes

She wept bitterly when the time came to say farewell to her little Johann. He embraced her: then, putting his hands behind his back and shifting his weight to one leg while balancing his other foot on the toe, he watched her depart; and his gold-brown eyes rimmed with bluish shadows had the same brooding, introspective look that they had taken on when he stood beside his grandmother’s corpse, when his father died, when their grand old home was broken up—or on so many other occasions, which had less to do with life’s external events. As he saw it, old Ida’s departure was consistent with the other instances of decline, dissolution, and termination that he had witnessed. That sort of thing no longer astounded him—had never astounded him, strangely enough. Sometimes, when he would raise his head with its curly brown hair and flair his nostrils fastidiously, his lips slightly twisted as always, it looked as if he were cautiously sniffing the air and the atmosphere of life around him, expecting to catch a whiff of that odor, that strangely familiar odor, which the fragrance of all those flowers beside his grandmother’s casket had not been able to overpower.

Related Characters: Elisabeth “Bethsy” Buddenbrook , Hanno Buddenbrook, Ida Jungmann, Gerda Buddenbrook (née Arnoldsen), Thomas Buddenbrook
Related Symbols: Yellow
Page Number and Citation: 677-678
Explanation and Analysis:
This passage describes Ida’s heartfelt goodbye to young Hanno after Gerda—with a cold lack of sentimentality—lets the Buddenbrooks’ longtime domestic worker go after Thomas’s death. Ida’s emotional state as she says goodbye to Hanno conveys the deep and unwavering loyalty she has had for the Buddenbrooks through her years working for them. More interestingly, however, is Hanno’s lack of emotion as he bids farewell to the woman who has cared for him all his life. Hanno regards Ida’s departure casually as though it were nothing to him: “As he saw it, old Ida’s departure was consistent with the other instances Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperiores. Ut aliquam officiis. Unde enim nesciunt. Commodi necessitatibus voluptas. Accusamus eaque omnis. Velit eaque error. Possimus corrupti soluta. Qui aut a. Rerum voluptas debitis. Voluptatem accusantium est. Mollitia eaque ipsa. Perferendis consectetur et. Dicta impedit ut. Ducimus possimus quo. Non inventore in. Eligendi atque placeat. Molestiae e
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Elisabeth “Bethsy” Buddenbrook Character Timeline in Buddenbrooks

The timeline below shows where the character Elisabeth “Bethsy” Buddenbrook appears in Buddenbrooks. The colored dots and icons indicate which themes are associated with that appearance.
Part 1, Chapter 1
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Bethsy Buddenbrook sits in the landscape room (so called for the tapestries depicting pastoral scenes that... (full context)
Part 1, Chapter 2
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...Jakob and Jürgen. Mayor Oeverdieck and his wife arrive next. The Krögers—the parents of the Bethsy Buddenbrook—arrive next, and slightly late. Consul Buddenbrook kisses his mother-in-law’s hand as Johann Buddenbrook cheerily... (full context)
Part 1, Chapter 7
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The party continues. Later in the evening, Bethsy Buddenbrook notices that Dr. Grabow, Ida, and Christian aren’t there. Bethsy leaves to search for... (full context)
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At last, the party winds down. Bethsy leaves Ida in charge of the cleanup and goes to see how Christian is doing.... (full context)
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...purchased Meng Strasse house and that the consul (Johann’s first son with his second wife, Bethsy) will inherit both the house and the family business. He knows that Johann Senior has... (full context)
Part 2, Chapter 1
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...family in the other room, where Johann and Antoinette are gathered around baby Clara as Bethsy lies happily in bed. Bethsy is tired but happy. Madame Antoinette praises Clara’s plump form,... (full context)
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One night, the consul is sitting beside Bethsy in the landscape room when she asks him if they might hire a butler—the house... (full context)
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Bethsy nods, acknowledging the consul’s explanation, though it’s clear she doesn’t see why the firm’s tight... (full context)
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...her ravenous appetite. Tony and Christian aren’t doing as well as the family would like. Bethsy is disappointed in Christian’s poor performance at school and his general unseriousness. He often embarrasses... (full context)
Part 3, Chapter 1
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...pouting, as he studies for class. Tony is reading Hoffman. The consul smokes a cigar. Bethsy looks on and smiles at young Clara, who is wandering  around the yard searching for... (full context)
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...Grünlich apologizes for disturbing the family. The consul cheerfully introduces Grünlich to all the Buddenbrooks. Bethsy invites Grünlich to join them. (full context)
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At last, Grünlich says he must leave to attend to some business matters. Bethsy offers Grünlich a room in their house, but Grünlich assures her that he has already... (full context)
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...both her parents seated at the breakfast table. The consul tells Tony that he and Bethsy have something important to tell her. At last, the consul confirms Tony’s fears: Grünlich has... (full context)
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...for her to get used to. And Grünlich is so “bland” and unattractive. She asks Bethsy for her advice. Bethsy echoes the consul’s opinion, but she adds that if Tony were... (full context)
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Consul Buddenbrook confides in Bethsy about how puzzled he is by Tony’s rejection of Grünlich. Tony is young and inexperienced,... (full context)
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...Tony steps back into the carriage, and she and Grünlich depart. Alone with her husband, Bethsy asks if he thinks Tony will be happy with Grünlich. The consul thinks that Tony... (full context)
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In a letter dated April 30, 1846, Tony writes to Bethsy. She mentions Bethsy’s news of Armgard von Schilling’s engagement to Herr von Maiboom of Poppenrade.... (full context)
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...in Amsterdam. He fills Thomas in on all the goings on at home. He and Bethsy went to see Tony and Grünlich; though Grünlich hadn’t formally invited them, he treated them... (full context)
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...the consul observes the “long, worried” faces of those seated at the table and asks Bethsy what is wrong—has something happened? After Anton leaves, Bethsy lets the consul in on the... (full context)
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The consul takes Bethsy’s fear seriously, having witnessed or heard about similar occurrences himself. There was a riot last... (full context)
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One day in October of 1846, Clara and Klothilde are  doing embroidery work while Bethsy sits reading letters from Tony and Christian. Suddenly, they hear screams and heavy footsteps outside—and... (full context)
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...Julie Möllendorpf (née Hagenström) apparently snubs her when they cross paths in town one day. Bethsy tries to reassure Tony, but Tony maintains a seething hatred for “this particular ‘upstart family,’”... (full context)
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One September afternoon in 1855, the Buddenbrooks—Tony, Bethsy, Clara, Klothilde, and Thomas—are in the landscape room, waiting on Consul Buddenbrook, who is still... (full context)
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...quite “yella in the face.” Thomas demands that they send for Dr. Grabow, the doctor. Bethsy rushes over to her husband—but by the time she reaches him, he has already died. (full context)
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Bethsy greets Justus Kröger and invites him to sit down. She has invited Justus to Meng... (full context)
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The group moves on to the intricacies of the will. Consul Buddenbrook arranged for Bethsy to be the universal heir and to keep all the firm’s assets together. He has... (full context)
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...He wears a yellow plaid suit and looks in equal parts “embarrassed” and “preoccupied” when Bethsy hugs him. At the consul’s grave later, Christian mocks Tony when she kneels before the... (full context)
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...English businessman whom Christian gets into antics with. When Thomas offers snarky or judgmental commentary, Bethsy swiftly changes the subject. (full context)
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...But Gotthold’s three spinster daughters have kept “the old family feud” going, refusing to treat Bethsy, Tony, and Thomas civilly. On Thursdays, when the family gathers for dinner, the sisters make... (full context)
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After Consul Buddenbrook’s death, Bethsy becomes more religious, seemingly out of respect for her late husband’s memory. She starts holding... (full context)
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...On his way home to Riga, he drops by Meng Strasse to say goodbye to Bethsy, who invites him to stay a few days. He can sleep in their guest bedroom.... (full context)
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One July afternoon, Tiburtius proposes to Clara, and Clara accepts. When he later advises Bethsy of his intent, Bethsy tells him that she’s on board with the idea but will... (full context)
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Thomas writes to Bethsy from Amsterdam and gives her his consent to accept Tiburtius’s proposal to Clara. Then Thomas... (full context)
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...Russia, and then the Arnoldsens arrive. Thomas escorts Gerda into the landscape room to meet Bethsy, and it’s “a very beautiful scene” as the women embrace and exchange formal pleasantries. Tony... (full context)
Part 5, Chapter 9
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...that she feels bored and unhappy in her post-divorce life. She detests the clergymen whom Bethsy invites over.  (full context)
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...Christian is often out at the Club. Other than the usual family gatherings on Thursdays, Bethsy hardly socializes since Consul Buddenbrook’s death. (full context)
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In April, Thomas sits beside Bethsy as she reads aloud a letter Tony sent her from Munich, where she’s been visiting... (full context)
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...there. Thomas chuckles, having become exasperated by Tony’s phoniness at this point in her letter. Bethsy chides him to be kind to Tony. (full context)
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One day, Ida Jungmann presents Bethsy with a calling card. Bethsy is confused by the card’s message, and Ida explains that... (full context)
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Bethsy asks Permaneder what has brought him to town. Permaneder answers, but Bethsy struggles to understand... (full context)
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Bethsy has been planning on having a late breakfast with Thomas, and she invites Permaneder to... (full context)
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...He tells everyone he’s returning to his rented room at a local inn. Thomas and Bethsy exchange a look, and then Bethsy suggests that Permaneder is more than welcome to stay... (full context)
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After Permaneder leaves, Thomas and Bethsy discuss him—“A pleasant man,” Bethsy offers. Thomas agrees, trying to sound lighthearted. Bethsy suggests the... (full context)
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...so Thomas doesn’t formally introduce Permaneder to society, but he sees to all Permaneder’s needs. Bethsy treats him with polite friendliness. Tony blushes shyly when Permaneder does or says something uncouth.  (full context)
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...south. But Tony worries that Permaneder might think she’s a richer woman than she really is—Bethsy can’t afford to give Tony much of a dowry, Tony knows. Tony also finds that... (full context)
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...Permaneder is, but she accepts his proposal. They make plans for Permaneder to ask for Bethsy and Thomas’s blessing later that day. (full context)
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...works all day and into the evening, taking breaks only to have second breakfast with Bethsy and dinner with Gerda. At the same time, he makes it a point “not to... (full context)
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...only a few hours after birth. Tony herself is in poor shape following the birth. Bethsy is old now and can’t travel like she used to, so Thomas and Gerda travel... (full context)
Part 6, Chapter 9
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One day in November, Thomas enters the breakfast room to find Bethsy reading a telegram at the table, a concerned look on her face. The telegram is... (full context)
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Bethsy sleeps poorly that night and spends the next day anxiously awaiting word from Tony. At... (full context)
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Bethsy sympathizes with Tony’s plight, but she reasons that Tony ought to hold herself together, for... (full context)
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It’s August now, and Thomas and Bethsy are in the middle of a heated argument. Clara died only 10 days after Thomas... (full context)
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...mother has gone over his head, making decisions about the family fortune without his consent! Bethsy starts to sob. Tony pleads with Thomas to calm down, but Thomas ignores her. (full context)
Part 7, Chapter 8
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...hang out at the Club with Christian, who has since returned from Hamburg. Rieke Severin, Bethsy’s new maid, helps set up mattresses for the soldiers who now occupy the summerhouse. There... (full context)
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...mark the anniversary. When Tony and Hanno present it to the whole family, it fills Bethsy with pride for Thomas and all he’s accomplished. Tony passes along the various telegrams from... (full context)
Part 8, Chapter 8
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...fraud and will have to stand trial—and the prosecutor is Dr. Moritz Hagenström. In private, Bethsy asks Thomas what she’s supposed to think about the situation with Weinschenk. Thomas thinks Weinschenk... (full context)
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...family gathers at Meng Strasse, “a kind of dress rehearsal for Christmas Eve,” hosted by Bethsy. It's an elaborate affair, with a boy choir assembled to perform for the family. Sesame... (full context)
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...listens with rapt attention and daydreams about what Christmas presents he’ll soon receive. He asked Bethsy for a puppet theater, which has been at the top of his list since he... (full context)
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After the choirboys finish singing, Bethsy walks over to the sofa to read the Christmas story from the Bible, after which... (full context)
Part 9, Chapter 1
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The elderly Dr. Grabow and the young Dr. Langhals exit Bethsy Buddenbrook’s bedroom to talk in private with Thomas. Dr. Grabow promises Thomas that Bethsy’s health... (full context)
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Grabow and Langhals leave. Thomas returns to Bethsy’s room, trying to look cheerful. Tony sits beside Bethsy’s bed, holding Bethsy’s hands. Bethsy asks... (full context)
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Bethsy’s condition worsens until at last her death seems imminent—Grabow tells Thomas she may die within... (full context)
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The day after Bethsy’s death, Tony, dressed in black mourning clothes, kneels beside Bethsy’s body to pray. Thomas and... (full context)
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...remain quiet for a beat, and then Tony redirects the conversation to the matter of Bethsy’s furniture—and, more importantly, the house on Meng Strasse. Thomas says the house belongs to them... (full context)
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Thomas told Hanno it is Hanno’s “duty” to say goodbye to Bethsy’s remains, but Hanno is nervous and afraid. On the day of Bethsy’s funeral, Hanno, dressed... (full context)
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 The other family members take turns paying their respects to Bethsy. In attendance are also those who “had been duty-bound to come: the Möllendorpfs, Kistenmakers, Langhalses,... (full context)
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Christmas arrives—the first without Bethsy Buddenbrook. There are no choirboys this year. Sesame Weichbrodt reads the Christmas story, since Gerda... (full context)
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In early 1872, Bethsy’s furniture is divvied up and the house is emptied. The servants are let go. Hagenström... (full context)
Part 10, Chapter 1
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...Thomas has a good deal of money to his name between what he inherited from Bethsy and what he got from the sale of the house. Still, since the town joined... (full context)