Counting by 7s is very interested in exploring what makes a family. Willow’s adoptive mom and dad die in a car crash early in the novel, but their love for Willow (and its absence after their death) hangs over the remainder of the novel. Willow’s new family becomes the Nguyens—Pattie, Mai, and Quang-ha—who were total strangers to Willow until Mai’s short but intense friendship with Willow motivated them to help Willow during her time of need. Rounding out Willow’s unconventional found family are her school counselor, Dell, and her hired taxi driver, Jairo, who each find their lives changing in profound and unexpected ways after meeting Willow.
In addition to being unconventional, Willow’s new family is also full of people who are flawed. Dell in particular seems unready for a family, with a messy house and such a strong lack of responsibility that he can’t even take care of his cat, Cheddar. Jairo, meanwhile, feels that he has failed to live up to his own potential, getting stuck in a taxi-driving job that he never intended to do forever. But in spite of these characters’ real and perceived shortcomings, they end up being invaluable to Willow, with Dell providing her with the home she needs and with Jairo eventually stepping up to be Willow’s new guardian. These interactions also aren’t one-sided; Willow helps Dell become more motivated and fit while also helping Jairo take care of his health and return to school for the education he dreams of. Ultimately, Counting by 7s portrays that the most important aspect of a family is that everyone comes together—no matter their background, their blood or legal relationship, or their flaws—in order to help other family members succeed and to receive support in return.
Chosen Family ThemeTracker
Chosen Family Quotes in Counting by 7s
Chapter 1 Quotes
We sit together outside the Fosters Freeze at a sea-green, metal picnic table.
All four of us.
Chapter 13 Quotes
When he started driving a cab, it was only supposed to be a temporary job.
And now years had passed.
Chapter 15 Quotes
Ordinarily he would have looked to see if anyone was entering the intersection.
But not today.
Not now.
Chapter 19 Quotes
Pattie saw grief.
Her eyes focused on a version of her own young self, and so many other children in Vietnam who grew up without parents, some abandoned because of their ethnicity, others because of tragedy.
And her arms reached out wide.
Chapter 28 Quotes
Decisions are made.
I will officially be turned over to my old family friends: the Nguyens.
Temporarily. Just for now.
Is there anything anymore but Now? There was Then. But that world was blown up in an intersection.
Chapter 29 Quotes
I watch in horror.
I know for a fact that the latex lumps will end up tangled in electrical wires.
They will find their way into rivers and streams, and even travel for miles out into oceans, where they will choke fish and endanger marine mammals.
But I cannot find my voice to do anything about these future calamities, because it is someone’s idea of inspirational to release the bobbing weapons.
Chapter 31 Quotes
They don’t know that what I hear is hurtful. Because even as they complain about bad men or lazy kids, the pain for me is seeing how they are so connected.
To one another.
And to their families.
And to the world.
Chapter 34 Quotes
Standing over the skylight, I see that three glass pieces have caught the sun. They send small spots of color down into the room below.
I glance over at Quang-ha. He sees it too. I say:
“It’s like a stained-glass window.”
Chapter 35 Quotes
Mai kicked the acorn and it flew across the sidewalk out onto the street. She watched as a passing car ran right over the still-green nut.
Mai moved to the curb to get a better look.
The acorn hadn’t flattened. It rested on its side in the middle of the road, unharmed.
Chapter 37 Quotes
“Spicy food gives me indigestion.”
Chapter 40 Quotes
He has two dozen packets of sunflower seeds spread out on the counter.
I could grow a field of sunflowers.
Chapter 41 Quotes
And that money would pay for all the college classes he ever wanted to take.
Chapter 51 Quotes
He had not made a single attempt to rescue him.
Dell stared into the eyes of the frightened feline, and something clicked.
He had to take more responsibility for his actions.
He’d start with the cat.
Chapter 60 Quotes
But the important thing is that for today, they are granted, jointly, the guardianship, which is on track to not be temporary, of a person named Willow Chance.
That’s now legal.
Chapter 61 Quotes
I get up and pick a spot off to the side where I know there might be space for something of size to grow. I punch my finger into the dirt to make a small hole, and I drop in the brown nut.
I return to the stairs, and as I sit here in a slice of winter sunlight, two small birds find their way down to the honeysuckle planted next to the bamboo.
They speak to me, not in words, but in action.
They tell me that life goes on.



