Counting by 7s
by Holly Goldberg Sloan

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Counting by 7s is very interested in exploring what makes a family. Willow’s adoptive mom and dad die in a car crash early in the novel, but their love for Willow (and its absence after their death) hangs over the remainder of the novel. Willow’s new family becomes the Nguyens—Pattie, Mai, and Quang-ha—who were total strangers to Willow until Mai’s short but intense friendship with Willow motivated them to help Willow during her time of need. Rounding out Willow’s unconventional found family are her school counselor, Dell, and her hired taxi driver, Jairo, who each find their lives changing in profound and unexpected ways after meeting Willow.

In addition to being unconventional, Willow’s new family is also full of people who are flawed. Dell in particular seems unready for a family, with a messy house and such a strong lack of responsibility that he can’t even take care of his cat, Cheddar. Jairo, meanwhile, feels that he has failed to live up to his own potential, getting stuck in a taxi-driving job that he never intended to do forever. But in spite of these characters’ real and perceived shortcomings, they end up being invaluable to Willow, with Dell providing her with the home she needs and with Jairo eventually stepping up to be Willow’s new guardian. These interactions also aren’t one-sided; Willow helps Dell become more motivated and fit while also helping Jairo take care of his health and return to school for the education he dreams of. Ultimately, Counting by 7s portrays that the most important aspect of a family is that everyone comes together—no matter their background, their blood or legal relationship, or their flaws—in order to help other family members succeed and to receive support in return.

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Chosen Family Quotes in Counting by 7s

Below you will find the important quotes in Counting by 7s related to the theme of Chosen Family.

Chapter 1 Quotes

We sit together outside the Fosters Freeze at a sea-green, metal picnic table.

All four of us.

Related Characters: Willow Chance (speaker), Dell Duke, Mom, Dad, Mai, Quang-ha
Page Number and Citation: 1
Explanation and Analysis:
This quote is the first line of the novel. It’s narrated by Willow Chance, the book’s 12-year-old protagonist. The “four of us” Willow references are Willow herself, Willow’s friend Mai and her brother Quang-ha, and their school counselor Dell Duke, who together seem to make up something like an unconventional family. Initially, the significance of these opening lines isn’t clear—this quote seems to describe a mundane trip to an ice cream shop. But by the end of this first chapter, a big twist changes everything: today is the day that Willow’s parents die in a car crash. With this information, Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperiores. Ut aliquam officiis. Unde enim nesciunt. Commodi necessitatibus voluptas. Accusamus eaque omnis. V

Chapter 13 Quotes

When he started driving a cab, it was only supposed to be a temporary job.

And now years had passed.

Related Characters: Jairo, Willow Chance, Dell Duke
Page Number and Citation: 94
Explanation and Analysis:
This quote introduces Jairo, a character who initially seems to have only a minor role in the story (as Willow’s cab driver) but who goes on to have his life changed by Willow and to change her life in return. As this quote establishes, Jairo is like Dell: he has become stuck in his ways and is still looking for a sense of purpose. Jairo has been stuck for many years in a “temporary” job, and like so many of the other characters in the novel, he longs for permanence. Jairo’s Mexican heritage once again demonstrates what an ethnically diverse Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperiores. Ut aliquam officiis. Unde enim nesciunt. Commodi necessitatibus voluptas. Accusamus eaque omnis. Velit eaque error. Possimus corrup

Chapter 15 Quotes

Ordinarily he would have looked to see if anyone was entering the intersection.

But not today.

Not now.

Related Characters: Mom, Willow Chance, Dad
Page Number and Citation: 103
Explanation and Analysis:
This quote describes the moments leading up to the death of Willow’s parents, when her father is distracted while driving because he’s just learned of Willow’s mother’s cancer diagnosis. As all of Chapter 15 illustrates, the death of Willow’s parents was not a foregone conclusion or the result of a long history of bad decisions—it was truly an incident of bad luck that would have been difficult to predict. Appropriately, given that Willow’s last name is “Chance,” the novel explores the role that chance can play in human lives. In this chapter, a chance accident between two vehicles ends up Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperiores. Ut aliquam officiis. Unde enim nesciunt. Commodi necessitatibus voluptas. Accusamus e

Chapter 19 Quotes

Pattie saw grief.

Her eyes focused on a version of her own young self, and so many other children in Vietnam who grew up without parents, some abandoned because of their ethnicity, others because of tragedy.

And her arms reached out wide.

Related Characters: Willow Chance, Dung/Pattie
Page Number and Citation: 120
Explanation and Analysis:
In this quote, Pattie, who was originally named Dung but who changed her name after immigrating from Vietnam to the United States, decides that she will shoulder some of the responsibility of helping Willow during her time of need after the death of her parents. Although Willow remains the main character, as the novel goes on, it often shifts focus to explore the perspective of other characters, including Pattie. Although Pattie is a different generation than Willow and comes from a different background, the two of them share several things in common. Pattie’s own experience in Vietnam, where she and Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperiores. Ut aliquam officiis. Unde enim nesciunt. Commodi necessitatibus voluptas. Accusamus

Chapter 28 Quotes

Decisions are made.

I will officially be turned over to my old family friends: the Nguyens.

Temporarily. Just for now.

Is there anything anymore but Now? There was Then. But that world was blown up in an intersection.

Related Characters: Willow Chance (speaker), Dung/Pattie, Mai, Quang-ha, Dell Duke
Page Number and Citation: 166
Explanation and Analysis:
In this quote, Willow has run away from the foster care facility she was at (after being taken to the hospital), and so finally, Pattie signs a document to take temporary custody. This means Willow doesn’t have to go back to the facility and can instead stay with Pattie’s family until the court date that decides Willow’s future home. As is the case with many characters in the story, Willow finds herself stuck in a “temporary” position with no idea how to transition into something more permanent that will satisfy her. This passage explores how Willow’s grief leaves her unable Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperiores. Ut aliquam officiis. Unde enim nesciunt. Commodi necessitatibus voluptas. Accusamus eaque omnis. Velit eaque error. Possimus corrupti soluta. Qui aut a. Rerum voluptas debitis. Voluptatem accusantium est. Mollitia eaque ipsa. Perfe

Chapter 29 Quotes

I watch in horror.

I know for a fact that the latex lumps will end up tangled in electrical wires.

They will find their way into rivers and streams, and even travel for miles out into oceans, where they will choke fish and endanger marine mammals.

But I cannot find my voice to do anything about these future calamities, because it is someone’s idea of inspirational to release the bobbing weapons.

Related Characters: Willow Chance (speaker), Dad, Mom
Page Number and Citation: 171
Explanation and Analysis:
In this quote, Willow reacts to the balloons at her parents’ memorial service. While releasing balloons is often a symbolic part of such services, Willow can only think on the literal level of how once those balloons pop, they will contribute to pollution as “latex lumps” that can kill animals. Willow’s thoughts, while unusual, show independent thinking as she questions why memorializing her parents must also involve potentially damaging the environment (which, as an enthusiastic gardener, Willow is very concerned about). On the other hand, Willow’s wandering thoughts during the memorial also seem to suggest her inability to confront the Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Ex

Chapter 31 Quotes

They don’t know that what I hear is hurtful. Because even as they complain about bad men or lazy kids, the pain for me is seeing how they are so connected.

To one another.

And to their families.

And to the world.

Related Characters: Willow Chance (speaker), Dung/Pattie, Mom, Dad
Page Number and Citation: 183
Explanation and Analysis:
In this quote, Willow reflects on her experience spending her days in the nail salon that Pattie owns and works at. The customers who visit the salon are primarily Vietnamese women who talk to one another about their families. Although these women mostly complain about their various family members, Willow still envies them because of the family connections that they have. Willow is still dealing with her grief after the death of her mom and dad. As this this quote illustrates, for Willow, being without a family is like being disconnected from the world itself. Although Willow always loved her Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperiores. Ut aliquam officiis. Unde enim nesciunt. Commodi necessitatibus voluptas. Accusamus eaque omnis. Velit eaque error. Possimus corrupti soluta. Qui aut a. Rerum voluptas debitis. Voluptatem accusantium est. Mollitia eaque ipsa. Perferendis consectetur et. Dicta im

Chapter 34 Quotes

Standing over the skylight, I see that three glass pieces have caught the sun. They send small spots of color down into the room below.

I glance over at Quang-ha. He sees it too. I say:

“It’s like a stained-glass window.”

Related Characters: Willow Chance (speaker), Quang-ha, Dell Duke, Mom, Dad
Page Number and Citation: 206
Explanation and Analysis:
In this quote, Willow and Quang-ha try to remove a tarp from the over the skylight of Dell’s apartment, but because Quang-ha is also holding bottles to throw out, he accidentally drops them and causes a mess. Quang-ha’s initial reaction is anger and frustration, but Willow points out to him that in fact, the broken glass has created a beautiful lighting effect in the room below. The passage is a crucial moment in the bond between Willow and Quang-ha, since initially, Quang-ha resisted the idea of a new person living with his family. Quang-ha’s dropping of the glass illustrates how Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperiores. Ut aliquam officiis. Unde enim nesciunt. Commodi necessitatibus voluptas. Accusamus eaque omnis. Velit eaque error. Possimus corrupti soluta. Qui aut a. Rerum voluptas debitis. Voluptatem accus

Chapter 35 Quotes

Mai kicked the acorn and it flew across the sidewalk out onto the street. She watched as a passing car ran right over the still-green nut.

Mai moved to the curb to get a better look.

The acorn hadn’t flattened. It rested on its side in the middle of the road, unharmed.

Related Characters: Mai, Willow Chance
Related Symbols: Acorn
Page Number and Citation: 211
Explanation and Analysis:
This quote is the first appearance of an important symbol in the story: the acorn that goes on to become Willow’s lucky acorn. Initially, it’s just like any other acorn, and Mai kicks it carelessly, without any particular concern for what happens to it. But when Mai realizes that this acorn has somehow managed to survive both her kick and getting run over by a car, she realizes that this small, unimpressive-looking nut is actually extremely resilient. The acorn has clear parallels to Willow: for all her struggles after the deaths of her parents, she has nevertheless shown impressive resilience, Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperiores. Ut aliquam officiis. Unde enim nesciunt. Commodi necessitatibus voluptas. Accusamus eaque

Chapter 37 Quotes

“Spicy food gives me indigestion.”

Related Characters: Dell Duke (speaker), Dung/Pattie, Willow Chance, Sadhu
Page Number and Citation: 222
Explanation and Analysis:
In this quote, Dell reacts to learning that his new roommate, Sadhu, is a vegetarian who likes spicy food. Dell is himself a big meat eater who gets “indigestion” from spicy food, so living with Sadhu will be well outside Dell’s comfort zone. Although Dell seems reluctant about going to live with Sadhu, at the same time he demonstrates a certain amount of bravery and selflessness (qualities he didn’t show before) simply by leaving his home to Pattie and her family so that they can convince Social Services that they live in a place suitable for Willow. Dell’s indigestion from Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperiores. Ut aliquam officiis. Unde enim nesciunt. Commodi necessitatibus voluptas. Accusamus eaque omnis. Velit eaque error. Possimus corrupti soluta. Qui

Chapter 40 Quotes

He has two dozen packets of sunflower seeds spread out on the counter.

I could grow a field of sunflowers.

Related Characters: Willow Chance (speaker), Dell Duke, Sadhu
Page Number and Citation: 240
Explanation and Analysis:
In this quote, Dell enthusiastically answers Willow’s request for sunflower seeds by buying her an extravagant number of seeds. Although Dell has at times been reluctant to do what he needs to do to help Willow (such as in the earlier quote where he complained about Sadhu’s spicy food), this quote now shows his enthusiastic determination to help Willow. And so, just as Dell took selfishness and his lack of concern for others to an extreme in his old, possession-stuffed apartment, he now arguably goes overboard in the opposite direction by helping Willow with too many seeds for her to Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperior

Chapter 41 Quotes

And that money would pay for all the college classes he ever wanted to take.

Related Characters: Jairo, Willow Chance
Page Number and Citation: 249
Explanation and Analysis:
In this quote, Jairo considers what to do next after suddenly winning a $20,000 sweepstakes, which happened because he was the millionth customer at the school store of a college that he’s considering attending. Initially, Jairo was afraid of spending the money to buy a textbook, believing that it was too expensive for him. In fact, Jairo’s greater fear was about his own self-esteem—he didn’t want to invest so much money in education because he didn’t believe that he was worthy of it. Still, Jairo’s encounters with Willow have given him encouragement, leading to the fateful purchase that wins him Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperiores. Ut aliquam officiis. Unde enim nesciunt. Commodi necessitatibus voluptas. Accusa

Chapter 51 Quotes

He had not made a single attempt to rescue him.

Dell stared into the eyes of the frightened feline, and something clicked.

He had to take more responsibility for his actions.

He’d start with the cat.

Related Characters: Dell Duke
Related Symbols: Cheddar
Page Number and Citation: 313
Explanation and Analysis:
In this passage, Dell finally rescues his cat Cheddar, who has been on the loose for the majority of the novel—all because when Dell had a chance to rescue Cheddar earlier, he decided to keep driving instead. This quote features a revelation for Dell, since previously he had forgotten that he ever even used to have a cat named Cheddar—just as Dell has conveniently forgotten about many of his other past failings. Seeing Cheddar in person forces Dell to confront his past failings in a way that he hasn’t had to very often. With Cheddar, Dell can’t ignore the fact Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperiores. Ut aliquam officiis. Unde enim nesciunt. Commodi necessitatibus voluptas. Accusamus eaque omnis. Velit eaque error.

Chapter 60 Quotes

But the important thing is that for today, they are granted, jointly, the guardianship, which is on track to not be temporary, of a person named Willow Chance.

That’s now legal.

Related Characters: Willow Chance (speaker), Dung/Pattie, Jairo
Page Number and Citation: 373
Explanation and Analysis:
In this quote, Willow learns the shocking information that Pattie and Jairo have decided to work together to become Willow’s new legal guardians. The moment is triumphant because it suggests that all three of these characters have found a way to move beyond the “temporary” positions they were all stuck in and finally start to build something more permanent: a new family. Interestingly, Willow has been able to turn one of her biggest obstacles in the novel—the legal system—into a new ally. She, Pattie, Jairo have learned that as powerful as the government bureaucracy is, there are also ways to Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperiores. Ut aliquam officiis. Unde enim nesciunt. Commodi necessitatibus

Chapter 61 Quotes

I get up and pick a spot off to the side where I know there might be space for something of size to grow. I punch my finger into the dirt to make a small hole, and I drop in the brown nut.

I return to the stairs, and as I sit here in a slice of winter sunlight, two small birds find their way down to the honeysuckle planted next to the bamboo.

They speak to me, not in words, but in action.

They tell me that life goes on.

Related Characters: Willow Chance (speaker), Mom, Dad
Related Symbols: Acorn
Page Number and Citation: 376
Explanation and Analysis:
This quote ends the novel. In it, Willow goes out to the garden she oversaw, which has bloomed very successfully, going beyond her initial dream of just planting sunflowers. Willow’s lucky acorn, which has been a symbol of Willow’s own resilience in the face of tragedy, is now something that Willow no longer feels she needs now that she has resolved her major problem of finding a new permanent home for herself. And so, true to her selfless nature, Willow decides to return the acorn that she no longer needs back to the earth. Just as Willow has survived and Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperiores. Ut aliquam officiis. Unde enim nesciunt. Commodi n