Dear America

Dear America

by

Jose Antonio Vargas

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Dear America: Part 3, Chapter 11: Cycle of Loss Summary & Analysis

Summary
Analysis
When he was in the jail cell with all the boys, Vargas wondered what their parents were thinking when they sent their children away. He also wondered what his own mother was thinking when she sent him to the U.S. It’s something they’ve never found the courage to discuss. In fact, Mama also lost her mother: she has only seen Lola a handful of times since 1984, and their relationship revolves around sending money and goods from the U.S. to the Philippines. Vargas wonders whether his Mama would have made the same decision back in 1993 if, back then, she knew everything that she knows today.
Vargas connects his personal immigration trauma to his mother’s, his grandmother’s, and that of millions of other immigrants and families. In doing so, he again underlines how policy choices create patterns of profound human suffering across the U.S. and the world. In the case of immigration, U.S. policy forces people to choose between their families and their livelihood—but it doesn’t have to be this way. Different policies could let immigrants choose both. Despite succeeding in the U.S., Vargas still wonders if sacrificing his family was worth it.
Themes
Citizenship, Belonging, and Identity Theme Icon
Family, Love, and Intimacy Theme Icon
Immigration Politics and Policy Theme Icon
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