Father Comes Home from the Wars
by Suzan-Lori Parks

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The idea of an intact family haunts Father Comes Home from the War. Hero’s father was lynched for attempting to run away. Hero and Penny cannot conceive children. Even Boss-Master and Missus lost a son. The number of characters in the play who yearn for or make appeals to the idea of family suggest that it’s a deeply human thing to want to be with the people you love—that’s why Old Man adopts Hero, and Penny and Hero initially consider themselves spouses even though they’ve not had an official ceremony.

But the play illustrates how the institution of slavery perverted and undermined this very human desire to build close connections. In its world, the destruction of families can be read as a metaphor for the horrors of slavery itself. One sign of Boss-Master’s moral baseness is that he thinks that having to free his enslaved workers would be more painful than the death of his biological son. And none of the Black characters seems to have fully intact families. In addition to the examples above, each member of the chorus of Runaways specifically names people they have lost. Only when all people are free, the play suggests, can families flourish. Hero/Ulysses legally marries a wife and Penny becomes pregnant with Homer’s child only after the Emancipation Proclamation (which legally freed enslaved people) has been issued. In this way, the play uses families as a window into the horrors of slavery—and the promises of freedom and human dignity.

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Family Quotes in Father Comes Home from the Wars

Below you will find the important quotes in Father Comes Home from the Wars related to the theme of Family .

Part 1 Quotes

OLD MAN
What father in his right mind wants his son going off to the War?
I mean, yes, well, maybe real fathers.
Lucky men who had their sons shot out into life through their own balls.
Maybe they figure easy come easy go.
You’re my son but as you know
I didn’t make you from my spit.
Which makes me, I guess, a fake-father.
But you, Hero, make no mistake, you’re a real son through and through.
No, we don’t got the luxury of blood between us,
And your arrival was a happenstance, but all that makes me
Double-bless the day you came here and looked up to me.
And here I am now. Looking up to you.
Oh, I wish I was your real daddy.

Related Characters: Old Man (speaker), Hero (Ulysses)
Page Number and Citation: 20
Explanation and Analysis:
When Hero presses Old Man to give him advice on whether to go to war or to stay, Old Man reveals that their relationship isn’t one of blood, although their bond is as strong as any biological family. This passage speaks to the respect Old Man has for who Hero is, and it tends to confirm the others’ high opinions of Hero. However, this passage also gives voice to one of the tragic historical realities of the American chattel slavery system. Prior to the ratification of the Thirteenth Amendment, which formally ended slavery as a legal institution in the United Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperiores. Ut aliquam officiis. Unde enim nesciunt. Commodi necessitatibus voluptas. Accusamus eaque omnis. Velit eaque error. Possimus corrupti soluta. Qui aut a. Rerum voluptas debitis. Voluptatem accusantium est. Mollitia eaque ipsa. Perferendis consectetur et. Dicta impedit ut. Ducimus possimus quo. Non inventore in. Eligendi atque placeat. Molestiae earum eum. Libero sit beatae. At a deserunt

Part 3 Quotes

PENNY
What’s that scratching say?

HOMER
It says everything.

PENNY
“Everything.” Is that how you write it? Looks pretty.

HOMER
PENNY

HOMER
Kiss?

PENNY
Homer.

HOMER
No harm in asking.

PENNY
Because you like the sound of no.

HOMER
There’s a yes in that no. Curled up inside somewhere. Kiss.

Related Characters: Penny (speaker), Homer (speaker), Hero (Ulysses), First Runaway, Second Runaway, Third Runaway
Page Number and Citation: 118-119
Explanation and Analysis:
Back on the farm, in Hero’s absence, Homer and Penny have become lovers. Or, at least, they’ve started having sex; Penny is still devoted to Hero. In this moment, the love-anguished Homer has written Penny’s name in the dirt, thanks to the letters the Runaways have taught him. Penny’s inability to read it offers a quiet but emphatic reminder of the many ways in which enslavers dehumanized and oppressed enslaved people, such as systematically denying them (and legally forbidding them) from receiving any education. But the emphasis in these lines is on the fraught relationship between Homer and Penny. Penny Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperiores. Ut aliquam officiis. Unde enim nesciunt. Commodi necessitatibus voluptas. Accusamus eaque omnis. Velit eaque error. Possimus corrupti soluta. Qui aut a. Rerum voluptas d