Girl, Woman, Other

by Bernardine Evaristo
Grace is Hattie’s mother and Joseph Rydendale’s wife. She grows up not knowing her father, Wolde’s, identity, and this haunts her for her entire life. After Grace’s mother dies of tuberculosis when she is still young, Grace is later shipped off to a home for girls where she’s educated by people who teach her that she must tone down her Blackness if she wants to succeed in white society. Grace always remembers how her mother taught her to never be ashamed of her Ethiopian roots, though, so Grace holds tight to that cultural identity regardless. Racism prevents Grace from working at a local department store like she dreams, and instead she’s offered a job as a maid. Her life changes one day when she meets Joseph Rydendale, a white man, who sings her praises but also objectifies and exoticizes her due to her Ethiopian roots. When she and Joseph marry, she moves onto his family farm, Greenfields. Joseph is determined to have a boy who will inherit the farm, but Grace bears two children who die shortly after birth. Impatient, Joseph doesn’t allow her to recover before making her try again, and soon Harriet is born. She sinks into a deep, postpartum depression that leaves her completely uninterested in Harriet, though she later recovers and strives to raise Harriet to be a strong, independent woman.

Grace Quotes in Girl, Woman, Other

The Girl, Woman, Other quotes below are all either spoken by Grace or refer to Grace . For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
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Chapter 4: Grace Quotes

nights

they made love with the gas lamp dimmed

she was his expedition into Africa, he said, he was Dr Livingstone sailing downriver in Africa to discover her at the source of the Nile

Abyssinia, she corrected him

whatever you say, Gracie

Related Characters: Grace (speaker), Joseph Rydendale (speaker)
Page Number and Citation: 393-394
Explanation and Analysis:
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Grace Character Timeline in Girl, Woman, Other

The timeline below shows where the character Grace appears in Girl, Woman, Other. The colored dots and icons indicate which themes are associated with that appearance.
Chapter 4: Megan/Morgan
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GG’s mother, Grace, never knew her father, Wolde. All she knew was that he was an Ethiopian seaman... (full context)
Chapter 4: Hattie 
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...like the “wife” and the other who dressed like the “husband”—were kind to Hattie’s mother, Grace, when she first arrived in town. The town accepted the two as a couple though... (full context)
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Hattie was always close with her mother, Grace. They were like best friends, and Hattie loved the time that they all—her, Slim, the... (full context)
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...for falling for Bobby. Her parents decide to keep her hidden until she gives birth. Grace delivers the baby, loves her, and wants to keep her. Hattie is unsure how she... (full context)
Chapter 4: Grace
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Grace’s mother, Daisy, tells her that her father, Wolde, was an Abyssinian seaman who she met... (full context)
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...another young woman who has a child. Daisy has little money but takes care of Grace the best she can. She promises to move to the countryside where Grace can run... (full context)
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Daisy is diagnosed with tuberculosis when Grace is eight. She’s put into quarantine, leaving Grace with the other young mother they live... (full context)
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Grace has nightmares that wake the others, who tell her she’ll adjust soon. She curls up... (full context)
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At the home, Grace learns how to cook, clean, sew, and garden alongside reading and math. They have the... (full context)
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Grace hoped to become an assistant at a department store, and breaks into tears when, instead,... (full context)
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Grace finds the material she needs for her dress. She and the other maids are making... (full context)
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...the street, tells her he’s just left the bank where he made a large deposit. Grace guesses he’s trying to impress her, something a man has never tried to do with... (full context)
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...years spent abroad, however, none of the girls back home attract him until he sees Grace on the street. Grace soon starts to fall in love with Joseph, who visits her... (full context)
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...relationship. The day he brings her home on his horse cart, the townspeople stare at Grace, never having seen a Black person before and shocked that she was able to “steal”... (full context)
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Greenfields farmhouse was dirty and dark compared to the estate Grace had grown used to living on. Joseph had a maid who he said would do... (full context)
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The house starts to come back to life and Grace convinces Joseph to refurbish the house in preparation for their future children. They fill the... (full context)
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 When they have sex, Joseph calls Grace “his expedition into Africa.” He compares himself to Dr. Livingstone heading down the Nile. Grace... (full context)
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Joseph doesn’t give Grace any time to grieve because he’s desperate for an heir to the 120-year-old family farm.... (full context)
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Grace gives birth to another daughter. After three brutal days of labor, Grace refuses to name... (full context)
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Grace becomes suicidal and one night Joseph catches her looking at the kitchen knives. He snatches... (full context)
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Grace feels as alone as she did when her mother was taken from her, and wishes... (full context)
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Grace carries out a conversation with her mother in her head. She tells her how she... (full context)
Epilogue
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...for their great-grandmother, Hattie Jackson. They’d been hoping to find out more about her mother, Grace, who they’d thought was half Ethiopian but discovered she had ancestry spread across Africa. Morgan... (full context)