Melanie Wilkes (Hamilton) Quotes in Gone with the Wind
Chapter 2 Quotes
“Only when like marries like can there be happiness.”
This quote appears in the conversation between Gerald and Scarlett as they discuss Ashley’s engagement to Melanie. Gerald warns Scarlett that she’ll never be happy with Ashley because he’s too different from her. The Wilkeses are dreamy and cerebral, whereas Scarlett is earthy and practical. For this reason, Gerald suggests she marry an athletic, enthusiastic County boy instead. Scarlett insists that she loves Ashley even though he proves to indeed be very different from her. After the war ends, Ashley thinks only of the past whereas Scarlett looks only to the future. Also, Ashley is too conscientious to be a good businessman whereas Scarlett will stop at nothing to make money. Whenever Ashley and Scarlett converse, they seem to be speaking different languages, and Scarlett never understands what Ashley’s thinking. This mystery keeps her obsession with Ashley alive through the whole novel. However, when Scarlett finally understands what Ashley is thinking, she sees that they are different, and she doesn’t love him anymore.
However, Scarlett meets Rhett Butler and finds her equal. Neither Rhett nor Scarlett are sentimental about the Cause, they think realistically, and they love money. At first, Scarlett tries to pretend she’s different from Rhett, but she eventually realizes he’s the only person she can tell everything to. However, she doesn’t recognize their ease and comfort together as love, even when they get married. By the time she realizes that she loves Rhett because he is “passionate and earthy” just like herself, he has become different from her—sentimental about the past, just like Ashley. Their divergence emotionally ends their marriage, showing that, as Gerald had forewarned, love only succeeds between like minds. The lack of successful love for Scarlett suggests that, in the end, there is no one like her, for everyone except her has turned back towards the old days.
Chapter 26 Quotes
Now, struggling against hatred for Ashley’s wife, there surged a feeling of admiration and comradeship. She saw in a flash of clarity untouched by any petty emotion that beneath the gentle voice and dovelike eyes of Melanie there was a thin flashing blade of unbreakable steel, felt too that there were banners and bugles of courage in Melanie’s quiet blood.
Chapter 31 Quotes
“[before the war] there was a real beauty to living. […] And now it is gone and I am out of place in this new life, and I am afraid. Now, I know that in the old days, it was a shadow show I watched. I avoided everything which was not shadowy, people and situations which were too real, too vital. […] I tried to avoid you too, Scarlett. You were too full of living and too real and I was cowardly enough to prefer shadows and dreams.”
Chapter 61 Quotes
[Scarlett] could see so clearly now that he was only a childish fancy, no more important really than her spoiled desire for the aquamarine earbobs she had coaxed out of Gerald. For, once she owned the earbobs, they had lost their value, as everything except money lost its value once it was hers. And so he, too, would have become cheap if, in those first far-away days, she had ever had the satisfaction of refusing to marry him.



