Mrs. Norris Quotes in Mansfield Park
Chapter 1 Quotes
There will be some difficulty in our way, Mrs. Norris…as to the distinction proper to be made between the girls as they grow up… how, without depressing her spirits too far, to make her remember that she is not a Miss Bertram… they cannot be equals. Their rank, fortune, rights, and expectations will always be different.
In this quote, Sir Thomas discusses with Mrs. Norris the possibility of adopting Fanny. They air the potential problems that might arise from such an arrangement, and Sir Thomas expresses his concern that Fanny or Maria and Julia might forget her status and think that Fanny is as high-class as Sir Thomas’s own daughters.
Sir Thomas’s insistence that his daughters and Fanny “cannot be equals” speaks to his anxiety about maintaining class distinctions. Sir Thomas insists that “their rank, fortune, rights, and expectations will always be different,” showing how he believes the class system to be static, and without the potential for change or upward mobility. Sir Thomas and Mrs. Norris’s obsession with class distinctions is part of why Fanny goes unloved and neglected for so much of the book—it’s merely what’s “proper” to treat her as less valuable than the Bertram girls, in an early sign of how good manners can hide (or even encourage) cruelty. For despite Sir Thomas’s concern not to “depress her spirits too far,” Mrs. Norris verbally abuses Fanny, constantly reminding her of her lower class, and Fanny can never feel totally comfortable in the house. Sir Thomas’s early preoccupation with ensuring that they maintain a difference between his daughters and Fanny wears away over the course of the book, however, as Sir Thomas begins to value Fanny’s good character above her class, and the class system itself is revealed to be arbitrary and unfair.
Chapter 15 Quotes
“I am quite ashamed of you, Fanny, to make such a difficulty of obliging your cousins in a trifle of this sort— so kind as they are to you! Take the part with a good grace, and let us hear no more of the matter, I entreat.”
“Do not urge her, madam,” said Edmund…
“I am not going to urge her,” replied Mrs. Norris sharply; “but I shall think her a very obstinate, ungrateful girl, if she does not do what her aunt and cousins wish her— very ungrateful, indeed, considering who and what she is.”

