My Brilliant Friend

My Brilliant Friend

by Elena Ferrante

My Brilliant Friend: Adolescence: Chapter 43 Summary & Analysis

Summary
Analysis
Lenù begins to feel more and more depressed about Lila’s good fortune. She tries to convince herself that school is her “wealth” and begins clinging to her every success in class, large or small. In spite of her attempts to make herself feel better, she realizes, at the end of the day, she has no one to talk to about the books she’s reading or the topics she’s learning. She takes issues with the idea of the Holy Spirit as it’s taught to her in religion class—and she wishes she could discuss and debate it with Nino or Lila.
Lenù knows that she and Lila have chosen different paths. Lila has found wealth and the opportunity to elevate her social position through marriage—Lenù, though, knows that her only option right now is to continue in school in hopes of achieving the same end through different means. However, Lenù’s self-confidence has taken a decisive hit—she feels she has chosen the wrong path.
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Every time Lenù tries to talk about school with Lila, though, Lila interrupts her or changes the subject. Lila accuses Lenù of “wast[ing her] time” with silly thoughts and quickly tries to redirect Lenù’s attention to the beautiful gifts of dresses and jewelry she’s gotten from Stefano. Lenù tries to get excited about Lila’s new life, but when Lila encourages her to try on the beautiful things, Lenù becomes “depressed” to realize they don’t suit her as they do her friend.
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