Libby Quotes in Nine Days
Chapter 8: Alec Quotes
When me and Libby were little, Grandpa [Kip] was in charge of all the dad stuff. He took photos of us, hundreds of them. He still has them over at their apartment at the retirement village. He was the one who taught us to play poker and took us to the football.
Alec recalls how, in lieu of a conventional father figure, Kip stepped up to fulfill the fatherly duties, even when it required him to take time away from his own work. Although Alec previously lamented the fact that neither he nor Libby truly knows their fathers, his remembrance of Kip operating as their effective father figure suggests that he now appreciates his grandfather’s love just as well. Although unconventional, and in Alec’s eyes perhaps not ideal, Kip’s role as Alec and Libby’s father figure demonstrates that in an unconventional family structure, individuals can adapt and take on new roles and responsibilities to fulfill other family members physical or emotional needs. Although Kip is their grandfather and not their father, Alec and Libby still are able to have a fatherly figure in their lives to provide the sort of paternal guidance and affirmation that their mother may not know how to give. Furthermore, the love that Kip obviously has for his family, and Alec’s stated love for Kip, suggest that although unconventional, their family is no less loving or valuable.