Patron Saints of Nothing

Patron Saints of Nothing

by

Randy Ribay

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Jay Reguero Character Analysis

Jay Reguero is a seventeen-year-old high school senior who was born in the Philippines, moved to Michigan when he was one, and was Jun’s cousin. Jay was recently accepted into the University of Michigan but feels conflicted about going to college at the start of the novel; he doesn’t know what he wants to study or do as a career. His grief over Jun’s death exacerbates his feelings of helplessness and alienation, especially because his mom and dad insist that he doesn’t understand the circumstances of Jun’s murder, which had something to do with the Philippine drug war. Meanwhile, Jay feels guilty because he stopped responding to Jun’s letters years earlier and believes that this might have put Jun on the path that led to his death. When Jay learns that Jun could have been wrongfully murdered, he travels to the Philippines to figure out what happened. Everyone in Jay’s family seems content to forget about Jun, especially Jay’s police chief uncle, Tito Maning, but Jay is uniquely determined to discover the truth. Part of Jay’s determination stems from his genuine empathy and kindness. He’s a curious, caring person and doesn’t think that Jun deserved to die. But Jay is also figuring out his own identity in the process of learning more about Jun—he wants to discover where he belongs, since he feels caught between his American and Filipino heritages and doesn’t know much about the Philippines. In the Philippines, with the help of his cousin Grace and Grace’s journalist friend Mia, Jay eventually learns that Jun was selling drugs, which means that he wasn’t as innocent as Jay believed him to be. At the end of the novel, Jay must come to terms with the fact that no one is just good or bad, and that Jun’s death was a tragedy regardless of the circumstances that led to it. Jay ends up choosing to take a gap year and return to the Philippines before going to college. He also begins to open up to his dad about his feelings and about Jun, which suggests that he wants to avoid the alienation Jun felt prior to his death.

Jay Reguero Quotes in Patron Saints of Nothing

The Patron Saints of Nothing quotes below are all either spoken by Jay Reguero or refer to Jay Reguero. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
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Prologue Quotes

At that point in my life, I had encountered death only in fiction. I had heard about other people’s relatives dying. But I had never seen death up close. I had never held it.

“Listen,” Mom said in that moment, hugging me closer. So I did. Baby birds chirped just outside the window. “One thing dies, and another is born. Maybe the puppy’s soul now has wings.”

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Jay’s Mom (speaker)
Page Number: XV-XVI
Explanation and Analysis:
An Improvement to Society Quotes

“Do you lie to your patients?” I ask.

She raises her eyebrows. “Not to my patients, but sometimes to their families, yes.”

“You serious?”

She nods. “Sometimes my patients want me to lie for them. Nothing out of line. Mostly they want me to say something in a way that will give their loved ones relief. Or at least, something that won't leave them with too much despair.”

I shake my head. Unbelievable.

“If I have a patient who is dying slowly and painfully, and he asks me to tell his family that he won't suffer in his final moments, what am I supposed to do?”

“If they ask, tell the truth.”

“Even if the truth does nothing but cause the family anguish?”

“They deserve to know.”

“Or do they deserve peace?”

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Jay’s Mom (speaker)
Page Number: 22
Explanation and Analysis:

She takes a deep breath. “Jay, it's easy for us to pass judgment. But we don't live there anymore, so we can't grasp the extent to which drugs have affected the country.”

[…]

“So I'm not allowed to have an opinion? To say it's wrong or inhumane?”

[…]

“That's not what I'm saying, Jay.”

“What are you saying?”

“That you need to make sure that opinion is an informed one.”

There's obviously no way to argue that point without sounding like an idiot, but knowing that doesn't dissolve my newfound anger. “So what's your informed opinion?”

“That it's not my place to say what's right or wrong in a country that's not mine.”

“But you lived there. You're married to a Filipino. You have Filipino children.”

“Filipino American children,” she corrects. “And it's not the same.”

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Jay’s Mom (speaker), Jay’s Dad
Page Number: 25-26
Explanation and Analysis:
A Narrower Country Than Expected Quotes

“Man,” he says, shaking his head, “I forgot you're Filipino.”

“Huh?”

“You're basically white.”

I stop, stung. “What do you mean by that?”

[…]

He lets out an exasperated sigh. “I just meant you act like everyone else at school.”

“You mean like all the white kids?”

“Dude, our school's all white kids, so, yeah.”

Except it's not. The majority are, for sure, but his generalization—spoken with such confidence, such ease—makes me feel like he's erasing the rest of us.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Seth (speaker)
Page Number: 37-38
Explanation and Analysis:
Let Me Go Quotes

The article included the fact that four low-level officers were eventually charged for killing that seventeen-year-old, but their punishments were minimal and only happened after massive protests. But what about the other victims who never got a hashtag? What about Jun?

Would there be justice?

Definitely not if nobody even knows what truly happened.

So maybe that's it—maybe I can find out. If his friend is right, maybe there are witnesses; maybe there's video; maybe there's a flawed report.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Jun
Page Number: 43
Explanation and Analysis:
Things Inside Quotes

“It's easy to romanticize a place when it's far away […] Filipino Americans have a tendency to do that. Even me. Sometimes I miss it so much. The beaches. The water. The rice paddies. The carabao. The food. Most of all, my family.” He closes his eyes, and I wonder if he's imagining himself there right now. After a few moments, he opens them again, but he stares at his hands. “But as many good things as there are, there are many bad things, things not so easy to see from far away. When you are close, though, they are sometimes all you see.”

Related Characters: Jay’s Dad (speaker), Jay Reguero
Page Number: 53-54
Explanation and Analysis:
The Strength of My Conviction Quotes

I feel like I should have taken her baby and given it to an orphanage or something. I told Grace this later, but she said there was nothing could do, that I am too young to take care of a child. She also said that there are probably millions of children that need to be taken care of and even if I was old enough I could not take care of them all. Even though she is young, I know she is right. And that makes me feel like my chest is hollow.

But, it seems to me that there are so many older than us who are able to take care of those in need. If everyone did a little bit, then everybody would be okay, I think. Instead, most people do nothing. And that is the problem. Does that make sense, Kuya?

Related Characters: Jun (speaker), Jay Reguero, Grace
Related Symbols: The Letters
Page Number: 64
Explanation and Analysis:

But adults lie, I guess. That's what they do.

Sure, there are a bunch of reasons they do it, and people would probably say most of them are pretty good. When you're a kid, they lie and say you did a great job in a game even if you sucked. Then you grow up a bit and your mom and dad lie to you about how strong their relationship is and how much they love each other after they have a big fight.

[…]

Sometimes I feel like growing up is slowly peeling back these layers of lies.

[…]

I imagine the moment when Tito Maning will pick me up from the airport. Standing straight, I'll greet him, look him in the eye, and then ask him point-blank how his son died. […] I will hold his gaze until he gives me an answer, and if he lies, I will demand the truth.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Jun, Tito Maning
Page Number: 65-66
Explanation and Analysis:
Every Single Surviving Word Quotes

He sighs. “It is a shame. When your kuya was first starting to speak, I said to your tatay, ‘You must teach him Tagalog and Bikol,’ and do you know what your tatay said to me?”

“No,” I respond, not wanting to know.

“‘The boy does not need to be confused,’” he says in a feminine, mock-American accent meant to imitate my dad. “‘Christian will be going to America, so he needs only good English.’” He lets out a sarcastic laugh. “And what is the result? None of his children knows their mother tongue. And if you do not know your mother tongue, you cannot know your mother. And if you do not know your mother, you do not understand who you are.”

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Tito Maning (speaker), Jay’s Dad, Chris
Page Number: 95-96
Explanation and Analysis:
Not an Answer to the Question Quotes

The next drawer, much to my surprise, is crammed full of Toblerone bars and packages of those Ferrero Rocher chocolates that are wrapped in gold foil.

[…]

The last two drawers, one on each side of the desk, are the kind that contain hanging file folders. I pull out the one on the left, and it's so light that I already know it's empty. Sure enough, there's only dust and stray folder tabs. I try the one on the right—but it won't budge.

There's a small keyhole, so I search through the other drawers for a key. I don't find one, but there are plenty of paper clips. I straighten one out and then poke the thin metal into the keyhole. I have no idea what I'm doing, of course, but it always looks so easy in the movies. Maybe if I keep poking it will hit a release?

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Tito Maning
Related Symbols: The Letters
Page Number: 105-106
Explanation and Analysis:
A Visit Quotes

He stops. Reaches up and pulls the sack off his head.

It's Jun. His hair's a mess, tangled with sticks and dirt, and the lower half of his jaw is missing, a gory mess in its place. His eyes meet mine. Two stars in a clear winter sky.

“What happened to you?” I ask.

The exposed muscle and sinew where his lower jaw used to be twitches as he continues moving toward me.

“I'm sorry for what they did to you. I'm sorry I lost your letters. I’m sorry I was too afraid to speak to Tito Maning again tonight. But please tell me, what happened to you?”

He doesn’t answer. He can't. Instead, he stops a step away. Then he reaches out and places his palm against my chest.

I wake.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Jun, Tito Maning
Related Symbols: The Letters
Page Number: 139-140
Explanation and Analysis:
That Last Part Aloud Quotes

Since he already knows, I may as well ask about the contents of the note on the back of the list I found in his desk, about how he told his subordinate who located Jun to proceed. But I feel drained, lost. A compass missing its needle. What would be the point when I can't sense whether anything he says is truthful or not?

Tito Maning reaches the car and turns to me. “I am disappointed my brother did not teach you to respect your elders.”

He expects an apology. I stay quiet.

“You do not live here. You do not speak any of our languages. You do not know our history. Your mother is a white American. Yet, you presume to speak to me as if you knew anything about me, as if you knew anything about my son, as if you knew anything about this country.”

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Tito Maning (speaker), Jun, Jay’s Mom
Page Number: 159-160
Explanation and Analysis:
Fail Him in Death Quotes

Tita Chato puts out her cigarette. “What happened to Jun is a tragedy, whether or not he was a drug pusher.” She pauses, gathering her thoughts, then continues. “But he is dead. We cannot bring him back to life. You need to accept that. There is nothing we can do about it except mourn.”

I clench my jaw.

She's not all that different from Tito Maning. Though her words were delivered with more compassion, they were the same: I am not truly Filipino, so I don’t understand the Philippines. But isn't this deeper than that, doesn’t this transcend nationality? Isn’t there some sense of right and wrong about how human beings should be treated that applies no matter where you live, no matter what language you speak?

I'm alone in this. Somebody needs to clear Jun’s name even if nothing comes of it. We failed him in life. We should not fail him in death.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Tita Chato (speaker), Jun, Tito Maning
Page Number: 173-174
Explanation and Analysis:
Let’s Do It Quotes

She shakes her head. “I think it's good that you finally talked to him about your cousin. I think you were brave.”

I drop my eyes to the edge of the table. That's not the word I'd use to describe how I felt during that conversation. It's not the word I'd use to describe how I feel when I think about the calls and texts from Dad, still unanswered. “Don't you think it's sometimes better not to say anything, not to dredge up those feelings for no reason?”

“No,” she answers immediately. “If you have something to say, you should say it. If you are to figure things out, you can't hide from them. Silence will not save you.”

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Mia (speaker), Tito Maning, Jay’s Dad
Page Number: 186
Explanation and Analysis:
The Wide Eyes of the Lost Quotes

“Tell me, Jason Reguero, are you willing to die to find out what happened to your cousin?”

I clench my jaw as I consider my answer. Part of me wonders if this is all that serious. It's not like I'm writing some investigative piece that will be published for millions to read. Finding out the truth about Jun isn't going to change the world.

But then again, this feels important and part of me is sick of never doing anything of significance in my life. I go to school. I do homework. I play video games. I'll be going to college in the fall, where I'll pretty much do four more years of the same—and for what? If I died right now I will have died having done nothing and having helped nobody.

“Yes,” I finally say, trying to imbue the word with the heaviness of the conviction I feel in my soul.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Brian Santos (speaker), Jun
Page Number: 195
Explanation and Analysis:
A Universe Where People Do Not Die for Doing What is Right Quotes

I knew it. I fucking knew it.

The Jun who hugged me after that puppy died, who became a best friend more than a cousin, who wrote me letters for years, whose heart was bigger than anyone else's I've ever known—there was no way he would have sold drugs. He was too good. He was the best of us. He wouldn't have been able to live with himself knowing and feeling the pain and destruction those drugs would have caused.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Jun
Related Symbols: The Letters
Page Number: 212
Explanation and Analysis:
To Flood Quotes

But standing here with my feet in the water, listening to the sound of Tagalog and maybe other languages mixed with laughter and the crashing of the waves, smelling the chicken inasal or pork inihaw grilling behind me as swallows flit past overhead to their nests high in the surrounding cliffs, I feel like that first year mattered in a way I've never felt it did before.

[…]

It strikes me that I cannot claim this country's serene coves and sun-soaked beaches without also claiming its poverty, its problems, its history. To say that any aspect of it is part of me is to say that all of it is part of me.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker)
Page Number: 226-228
Explanation and Analysis:
Another Day in the Minefield Quotes

A man holds a photo of himself kissing another man on the beach.

A large family posing together beneath a cross together holds a photo standing in for the father.

All of these people, dead—yet alive again in these images thanks to my cousin. In all of this, there is both beauty and sadness, light and darkness, pain and something that might be healing.

Maybe Grace is right. Maybe it is worth it.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Jun, Grace
Page Number: 242
Explanation and Analysis:
Bravery As if It Were My Own Quotes

She laughs at the memory and I laugh with her. “Kuya Jun had a way of making people pay attention, of making them realize that others existed outside of themselves and getting them to care. But I don't…and I failed him. I stayed quiet whenever Tatay yelled. I left the room whenever they argued. I never asked Nanay to let him live with us again. I never even protested when they told us there would be no novenas, no vigil, no lamay, no funeral.”

[…]

I'm not sure what to say. Maybe I should tell her it's not her fault, maybe that it's all okay because he's with God now? I try to channel Jun because I think he always spoke the truth as he felt it, but I don't have that ability. I offer no reassurance, no wisdom. I only hug her tighter and start to cry with her.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Grace (speaker), Jun, Tito Maning, Tita Ami
Page Number: 262
Explanation and Analysis:
New Life Quotes

Tito Danilo continues. “And later, he started selling.”

“But why?” Grace asks, desperate.

“Shabu is a hunger suppressant. You see, it is cheaper than food, so many of the poor start for this reason, and then they become addicted. As for why he started selling? Your guess is as good as mine. Maybe to make money to keep feeding his addiction.”

I close my eyes, as if doing so will rewind the story erasing everything Tito Danilo has just told us. As if it will stop the warping truth. I can't reconcile this version of Jun with the one I had come to know to love, to admire.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Grace (speaker), Tito Danilo (speaker), Jun
Page Number: 281
Explanation and Analysis:

I nod and let my graze drift upward. A bird flits across the rafters to a nest high in the corner. It reminds me of when I heard the baby birds chirping outside the window the day that the puppy died in my hands. What was it Mom told me in that moment? Something about death making way for new life. But what new life has come from Jun's death? I don’t know.

I imagine souls trapped overhead, bouncing against the steepled ceiling like invisible balloons whose strings have slipped from careless hands.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Jun, Jay’s Mom
Page Number: 284-285
Explanation and Analysis:
To Resurrect Quotes

In the car with Tito Danilo and Grace on the way back to Lolo and Lola's, I think about how there's a new grief in remembering Jun now, knowing what eventually happened, knowing that he was more than my idea of him in ways I do not like, knowing that there's probably so much more I'll never know.

I was determined to find the truth. And I did—at least a piece of it. But was it worth it? What do I even do now?

This didn't play out how I thought it would.

I expected the truth to illuminate, to resurrect.

Not to ruin.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Jun, Grace, Tito Danilo, Lolo, Lola
Page Number: 288
Explanation and Analysis:
All the Darkness in the World Quotes

I don't want to believe there was another side to you. But I don't have any choice, do I? I will try not to judge because I have no idea what you were struggling with in your heart, what complicated your soul. None of us are just one thing, I guess. None of us. We all have the terrible and amazing power to hurt and help, to harm and heal. We all do both throughout our lives. That's the way it is.

[…]

When I turn around to rejoin the others, I stop short—Tito Maning is standing in the shadows just outside the back door. At first, I wonder if he's about to come over and put an end to the memorial. But his arms are crossed and he's posted up against the house like he's been there for a while. Then I remember how Tito Danilo said that Tito Maning called to ask for his help to save Jun. Truly, none of us is one thing.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Jun, Tito Maning
Page Number: 299-300
Explanation and Analysis:
Patron Saints of Nothing Quotes

But I keep talking because I'm determined to resist falling into the same pattern as always. This is my life, and I want my family to understand it in a way none of us truly understood Jun's. If we are to be more than what we have been, there's so much that we need to say. Salvation through honesty, I guess.

[…]

We are not doomed to suffer things as they are, silent and alone. We do not have to leave questions and letters and lives unanswered. We have more power and potential than we know if we would only speak, if we would only listen.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Jay’s Dad
Related Symbols: The Letters
Page Number: 317-318
Explanation and Analysis:
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Jay Reguero Quotes in Patron Saints of Nothing

The Patron Saints of Nothing quotes below are all either spoken by Jay Reguero or refer to Jay Reguero. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
Truth, Adolescence, and Justice Theme Icon
).
Prologue Quotes

At that point in my life, I had encountered death only in fiction. I had heard about other people’s relatives dying. But I had never seen death up close. I had never held it.

“Listen,” Mom said in that moment, hugging me closer. So I did. Baby birds chirped just outside the window. “One thing dies, and another is born. Maybe the puppy’s soul now has wings.”

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Jay’s Mom (speaker)
Page Number: XV-XVI
Explanation and Analysis:
An Improvement to Society Quotes

“Do you lie to your patients?” I ask.

She raises her eyebrows. “Not to my patients, but sometimes to their families, yes.”

“You serious?”

She nods. “Sometimes my patients want me to lie for them. Nothing out of line. Mostly they want me to say something in a way that will give their loved ones relief. Or at least, something that won't leave them with too much despair.”

I shake my head. Unbelievable.

“If I have a patient who is dying slowly and painfully, and he asks me to tell his family that he won't suffer in his final moments, what am I supposed to do?”

“If they ask, tell the truth.”

“Even if the truth does nothing but cause the family anguish?”

“They deserve to know.”

“Or do they deserve peace?”

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Jay’s Mom (speaker)
Page Number: 22
Explanation and Analysis:

She takes a deep breath. “Jay, it's easy for us to pass judgment. But we don't live there anymore, so we can't grasp the extent to which drugs have affected the country.”

[…]

“So I'm not allowed to have an opinion? To say it's wrong or inhumane?”

[…]

“That's not what I'm saying, Jay.”

“What are you saying?”

“That you need to make sure that opinion is an informed one.”

There's obviously no way to argue that point without sounding like an idiot, but knowing that doesn't dissolve my newfound anger. “So what's your informed opinion?”

“That it's not my place to say what's right or wrong in a country that's not mine.”

“But you lived there. You're married to a Filipino. You have Filipino children.”

“Filipino American children,” she corrects. “And it's not the same.”

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Jay’s Mom (speaker), Jay’s Dad
Page Number: 25-26
Explanation and Analysis:
A Narrower Country Than Expected Quotes

“Man,” he says, shaking his head, “I forgot you're Filipino.”

“Huh?”

“You're basically white.”

I stop, stung. “What do you mean by that?”

[…]

He lets out an exasperated sigh. “I just meant you act like everyone else at school.”

“You mean like all the white kids?”

“Dude, our school's all white kids, so, yeah.”

Except it's not. The majority are, for sure, but his generalization—spoken with such confidence, such ease—makes me feel like he's erasing the rest of us.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Seth (speaker)
Page Number: 37-38
Explanation and Analysis:
Let Me Go Quotes

The article included the fact that four low-level officers were eventually charged for killing that seventeen-year-old, but their punishments were minimal and only happened after massive protests. But what about the other victims who never got a hashtag? What about Jun?

Would there be justice?

Definitely not if nobody even knows what truly happened.

So maybe that's it—maybe I can find out. If his friend is right, maybe there are witnesses; maybe there's video; maybe there's a flawed report.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Jun
Page Number: 43
Explanation and Analysis:
Things Inside Quotes

“It's easy to romanticize a place when it's far away […] Filipino Americans have a tendency to do that. Even me. Sometimes I miss it so much. The beaches. The water. The rice paddies. The carabao. The food. Most of all, my family.” He closes his eyes, and I wonder if he's imagining himself there right now. After a few moments, he opens them again, but he stares at his hands. “But as many good things as there are, there are many bad things, things not so easy to see from far away. When you are close, though, they are sometimes all you see.”

Related Characters: Jay’s Dad (speaker), Jay Reguero
Page Number: 53-54
Explanation and Analysis:
The Strength of My Conviction Quotes

I feel like I should have taken her baby and given it to an orphanage or something. I told Grace this later, but she said there was nothing could do, that I am too young to take care of a child. She also said that there are probably millions of children that need to be taken care of and even if I was old enough I could not take care of them all. Even though she is young, I know she is right. And that makes me feel like my chest is hollow.

But, it seems to me that there are so many older than us who are able to take care of those in need. If everyone did a little bit, then everybody would be okay, I think. Instead, most people do nothing. And that is the problem. Does that make sense, Kuya?

Related Characters: Jun (speaker), Jay Reguero, Grace
Related Symbols: The Letters
Page Number: 64
Explanation and Analysis:

But adults lie, I guess. That's what they do.

Sure, there are a bunch of reasons they do it, and people would probably say most of them are pretty good. When you're a kid, they lie and say you did a great job in a game even if you sucked. Then you grow up a bit and your mom and dad lie to you about how strong their relationship is and how much they love each other after they have a big fight.

[…]

Sometimes I feel like growing up is slowly peeling back these layers of lies.

[…]

I imagine the moment when Tito Maning will pick me up from the airport. Standing straight, I'll greet him, look him in the eye, and then ask him point-blank how his son died. […] I will hold his gaze until he gives me an answer, and if he lies, I will demand the truth.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Jun, Tito Maning
Page Number: 65-66
Explanation and Analysis:
Every Single Surviving Word Quotes

He sighs. “It is a shame. When your kuya was first starting to speak, I said to your tatay, ‘You must teach him Tagalog and Bikol,’ and do you know what your tatay said to me?”

“No,” I respond, not wanting to know.

“‘The boy does not need to be confused,’” he says in a feminine, mock-American accent meant to imitate my dad. “‘Christian will be going to America, so he needs only good English.’” He lets out a sarcastic laugh. “And what is the result? None of his children knows their mother tongue. And if you do not know your mother tongue, you cannot know your mother. And if you do not know your mother, you do not understand who you are.”

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Tito Maning (speaker), Jay’s Dad, Chris
Page Number: 95-96
Explanation and Analysis:
Not an Answer to the Question Quotes

The next drawer, much to my surprise, is crammed full of Toblerone bars and packages of those Ferrero Rocher chocolates that are wrapped in gold foil.

[…]

The last two drawers, one on each side of the desk, are the kind that contain hanging file folders. I pull out the one on the left, and it's so light that I already know it's empty. Sure enough, there's only dust and stray folder tabs. I try the one on the right—but it won't budge.

There's a small keyhole, so I search through the other drawers for a key. I don't find one, but there are plenty of paper clips. I straighten one out and then poke the thin metal into the keyhole. I have no idea what I'm doing, of course, but it always looks so easy in the movies. Maybe if I keep poking it will hit a release?

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Tito Maning
Related Symbols: The Letters
Page Number: 105-106
Explanation and Analysis:
A Visit Quotes

He stops. Reaches up and pulls the sack off his head.

It's Jun. His hair's a mess, tangled with sticks and dirt, and the lower half of his jaw is missing, a gory mess in its place. His eyes meet mine. Two stars in a clear winter sky.

“What happened to you?” I ask.

The exposed muscle and sinew where his lower jaw used to be twitches as he continues moving toward me.

“I'm sorry for what they did to you. I'm sorry I lost your letters. I’m sorry I was too afraid to speak to Tito Maning again tonight. But please tell me, what happened to you?”

He doesn’t answer. He can't. Instead, he stops a step away. Then he reaches out and places his palm against my chest.

I wake.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Jun, Tito Maning
Related Symbols: The Letters
Page Number: 139-140
Explanation and Analysis:
That Last Part Aloud Quotes

Since he already knows, I may as well ask about the contents of the note on the back of the list I found in his desk, about how he told his subordinate who located Jun to proceed. But I feel drained, lost. A compass missing its needle. What would be the point when I can't sense whether anything he says is truthful or not?

Tito Maning reaches the car and turns to me. “I am disappointed my brother did not teach you to respect your elders.”

He expects an apology. I stay quiet.

“You do not live here. You do not speak any of our languages. You do not know our history. Your mother is a white American. Yet, you presume to speak to me as if you knew anything about me, as if you knew anything about my son, as if you knew anything about this country.”

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Tito Maning (speaker), Jun, Jay’s Mom
Page Number: 159-160
Explanation and Analysis:
Fail Him in Death Quotes

Tita Chato puts out her cigarette. “What happened to Jun is a tragedy, whether or not he was a drug pusher.” She pauses, gathering her thoughts, then continues. “But he is dead. We cannot bring him back to life. You need to accept that. There is nothing we can do about it except mourn.”

I clench my jaw.

She's not all that different from Tito Maning. Though her words were delivered with more compassion, they were the same: I am not truly Filipino, so I don’t understand the Philippines. But isn't this deeper than that, doesn’t this transcend nationality? Isn’t there some sense of right and wrong about how human beings should be treated that applies no matter where you live, no matter what language you speak?

I'm alone in this. Somebody needs to clear Jun’s name even if nothing comes of it. We failed him in life. We should not fail him in death.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Tita Chato (speaker), Jun, Tito Maning
Page Number: 173-174
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Let’s Do It Quotes

She shakes her head. “I think it's good that you finally talked to him about your cousin. I think you were brave.”

I drop my eyes to the edge of the table. That's not the word I'd use to describe how I felt during that conversation. It's not the word I'd use to describe how I feel when I think about the calls and texts from Dad, still unanswered. “Don't you think it's sometimes better not to say anything, not to dredge up those feelings for no reason?”

“No,” she answers immediately. “If you have something to say, you should say it. If you are to figure things out, you can't hide from them. Silence will not save you.”

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Mia (speaker), Tito Maning, Jay’s Dad
Page Number: 186
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The Wide Eyes of the Lost Quotes

“Tell me, Jason Reguero, are you willing to die to find out what happened to your cousin?”

I clench my jaw as I consider my answer. Part of me wonders if this is all that serious. It's not like I'm writing some investigative piece that will be published for millions to read. Finding out the truth about Jun isn't going to change the world.

But then again, this feels important and part of me is sick of never doing anything of significance in my life. I go to school. I do homework. I play video games. I'll be going to college in the fall, where I'll pretty much do four more years of the same—and for what? If I died right now I will have died having done nothing and having helped nobody.

“Yes,” I finally say, trying to imbue the word with the heaviness of the conviction I feel in my soul.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Brian Santos (speaker), Jun
Page Number: 195
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A Universe Where People Do Not Die for Doing What is Right Quotes

I knew it. I fucking knew it.

The Jun who hugged me after that puppy died, who became a best friend more than a cousin, who wrote me letters for years, whose heart was bigger than anyone else's I've ever known—there was no way he would have sold drugs. He was too good. He was the best of us. He wouldn't have been able to live with himself knowing and feeling the pain and destruction those drugs would have caused.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Jun
Related Symbols: The Letters
Page Number: 212
Explanation and Analysis:
To Flood Quotes

But standing here with my feet in the water, listening to the sound of Tagalog and maybe other languages mixed with laughter and the crashing of the waves, smelling the chicken inasal or pork inihaw grilling behind me as swallows flit past overhead to their nests high in the surrounding cliffs, I feel like that first year mattered in a way I've never felt it did before.

[…]

It strikes me that I cannot claim this country's serene coves and sun-soaked beaches without also claiming its poverty, its problems, its history. To say that any aspect of it is part of me is to say that all of it is part of me.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker)
Page Number: 226-228
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Another Day in the Minefield Quotes

A man holds a photo of himself kissing another man on the beach.

A large family posing together beneath a cross together holds a photo standing in for the father.

All of these people, dead—yet alive again in these images thanks to my cousin. In all of this, there is both beauty and sadness, light and darkness, pain and something that might be healing.

Maybe Grace is right. Maybe it is worth it.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Jun, Grace
Page Number: 242
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Bravery As if It Were My Own Quotes

She laughs at the memory and I laugh with her. “Kuya Jun had a way of making people pay attention, of making them realize that others existed outside of themselves and getting them to care. But I don't…and I failed him. I stayed quiet whenever Tatay yelled. I left the room whenever they argued. I never asked Nanay to let him live with us again. I never even protested when they told us there would be no novenas, no vigil, no lamay, no funeral.”

[…]

I'm not sure what to say. Maybe I should tell her it's not her fault, maybe that it's all okay because he's with God now? I try to channel Jun because I think he always spoke the truth as he felt it, but I don't have that ability. I offer no reassurance, no wisdom. I only hug her tighter and start to cry with her.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Grace (speaker), Jun, Tito Maning, Tita Ami
Page Number: 262
Explanation and Analysis:
New Life Quotes

Tito Danilo continues. “And later, he started selling.”

“But why?” Grace asks, desperate.

“Shabu is a hunger suppressant. You see, it is cheaper than food, so many of the poor start for this reason, and then they become addicted. As for why he started selling? Your guess is as good as mine. Maybe to make money to keep feeding his addiction.”

I close my eyes, as if doing so will rewind the story erasing everything Tito Danilo has just told us. As if it will stop the warping truth. I can't reconcile this version of Jun with the one I had come to know to love, to admire.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Grace (speaker), Tito Danilo (speaker), Jun
Page Number: 281
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I nod and let my graze drift upward. A bird flits across the rafters to a nest high in the corner. It reminds me of when I heard the baby birds chirping outside the window the day that the puppy died in my hands. What was it Mom told me in that moment? Something about death making way for new life. But what new life has come from Jun's death? I don’t know.

I imagine souls trapped overhead, bouncing against the steepled ceiling like invisible balloons whose strings have slipped from careless hands.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Jun, Jay’s Mom
Page Number: 284-285
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To Resurrect Quotes

In the car with Tito Danilo and Grace on the way back to Lolo and Lola's, I think about how there's a new grief in remembering Jun now, knowing what eventually happened, knowing that he was more than my idea of him in ways I do not like, knowing that there's probably so much more I'll never know.

I was determined to find the truth. And I did—at least a piece of it. But was it worth it? What do I even do now?

This didn't play out how I thought it would.

I expected the truth to illuminate, to resurrect.

Not to ruin.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Jun, Grace, Tito Danilo, Lolo, Lola
Page Number: 288
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All the Darkness in the World Quotes

I don't want to believe there was another side to you. But I don't have any choice, do I? I will try not to judge because I have no idea what you were struggling with in your heart, what complicated your soul. None of us are just one thing, I guess. None of us. We all have the terrible and amazing power to hurt and help, to harm and heal. We all do both throughout our lives. That's the way it is.

[…]

When I turn around to rejoin the others, I stop short—Tito Maning is standing in the shadows just outside the back door. At first, I wonder if he's about to come over and put an end to the memorial. But his arms are crossed and he's posted up against the house like he's been there for a while. Then I remember how Tito Danilo said that Tito Maning called to ask for his help to save Jun. Truly, none of us is one thing.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Jun, Tito Maning
Page Number: 299-300
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Patron Saints of Nothing Quotes

But I keep talking because I'm determined to resist falling into the same pattern as always. This is my life, and I want my family to understand it in a way none of us truly understood Jun's. If we are to be more than what we have been, there's so much that we need to say. Salvation through honesty, I guess.

[…]

We are not doomed to suffer things as they are, silent and alone. We do not have to leave questions and letters and lives unanswered. We have more power and potential than we know if we would only speak, if we would only listen.

Related Characters: Jay Reguero (speaker), Jay’s Dad
Related Symbols: The Letters
Page Number: 317-318
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