Pride
by Ibi Zoboi

Family Theme Analysis

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In Pride, love of family is a virtue that crosses class boundaries. Teenage protagonist Zuri Benitez is immediately and positively characterized as protective of her family, especially her sisters. For example, when the rich Darcys move into the renovated “mini-mansion” across the street from the Benitez’s apartment building in Bushwick, Brooklyn, Zuri is almost immediately suspicious of the two teenage Darcy brothers, Ainsley and Darius, due to their interactions with her sisters. When Zuri’s older sister Janae is smitten with Ainsley at first sight, Zuri worries that Ainsley will break her heart. When Darius rebuffs Zuri’s younger sister Layla after Layla tries to dance with him at a block party, by contrast, Zuri pulls Layla away and criticizes Darius’s rudeness to his face. Zuri’s only goal is protecting her family from people who might hurt them, highlighting her immense loyalty and her family’s close, supportive bonds with one another. It’s these supportive bonds that help Zuri to see that her family’s later move to a different Brooklyn neighborhood isn’t the end of the world: she’ll still have her family, and this means she’ll have support as she weathers various life changes.

Major positive breakthroughs occur in Zuri and Darius’s relationship when Zuri realizes that Darius is just as protective of his family as she is of hers. Zuri originally thinks that Darius is pathetic compared to smooth Bushwick native Warren, whom she believes has “swag”—until she discovers that Warren spread “sexy pictures” of Darius’s 15-year-old sister Georgia all around their school. After that, Zuri cuts off contact with Warren and becomes open to dating Darius. Similarly, a fight between Zuri and Darius at a house party resolves when Zuri realizes that Warren has been flirting with her drunk 13-year-old sister Layla—and Darius starts a fistfight with Warren to prevent what happened to Georgia from happening to Layla. In other words, while Zuri and Darius come from radically different class backgrounds and have quite different personalities, their shared love of and protectiveness toward their respective sisters helps them bond and ultimately date, showing how love of family can be a source of solidarity despite other differences.

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Family Quotes in Pride

Below you will find the important quotes in Pride related to the theme of Family.

Chapters 1–5 Quotes

“Career before family? Como una gringa?”

“No, Madrina,” I say. “Not like a white girl! Like . . . a woman! Any woman.”

Related Characters: Zuri Benitez (speaker), Madrina (speaker), Ainsley Darcy, Janae Benitez, Darius Darcy
Page Number and Citation: 19
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Sometimes love is not enough to keep a community together. There needs to be something more tangible, like fair housing, opportunities, and access to resources.

Related Characters: Zuri Benitez (speaker), Ainsley Darcy, Darius Darcy
Related Symbols: Zuri’s Poems and College Essay
Page Number and Citation: 33
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“That whole family might as well be white.”

Related Characters: Zuri Benitez (speaker), Layla Benitez, Darius Darcy, Charlise
Page Number and Citation: 42
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Chapters 11–15 Quotes

I recognize that look. It’s that same look people used to give us when Mama would get on a crowded train with a double stroller holding the twins, me, Marisol, and Janae with our messy hair, runny noses, and each with a bag of chips to keep us occupied while Mama quieted down the babies. It’s the look that assumes Mama is a single mother, that she’s on government assistance, that she beats us when she’s tired, that we all have different fathers, that we live in the projects, and that we’re ghetto. Everybody used to look at us like that—white, black, other mothers with kids who thought they were being responsible by only having two or three. I’d look back at them with defiance and a little pride; a look that says that I love my family and we may be messy and loud, but we’re all together and we love each other.

Related Characters: Zuri Benitez (speaker), Darius Darcy, Janae Benitez, Layla Benitez, Ainsley Darcy, Mama, Papi
Page Number and Citation: 113
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Chapters 16–20 Quotes

“I can’t believe you would ask me out after what you did to both my sister and Warren. In fact, we shouldn’t have kissed at all. Now that was a mistake.”

“So you think I’m a bad person?”

“Yes! You judged them, and you turned your nose up at them. And me.”

Related Characters: Zuri Benitez (speaker), Darius Darcy (speaker), Ainsley Darcy, Janae Benitez, Warren, Layla Benitez, Georgia Darcy
Page Number and Citation: 196
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Chapters 21–25 Quotes

I hold Mama’s EBT card in my fist. I really don’t want to pull it out in front of Darius.

Related Characters: Zuri Benitez (speaker), Darius Darcy (speaker), Mama, Carrie
Page Number and Citation: 225
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You’ve got this whole white audience

Watching this fight like some sport

So to whom do I pledge allegiance

To my heart or to this war?

Related Characters: Zuri Benitez (speaker), Darius Darcy, Layla Benitez, Warren, Carrie
Related Symbols: Zuri’s Poems and College Essay
Page Number and Citation: 244
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Chapters 26–30 Quotes

“You treated my sisters like shit, and I needed to call you out on it. And I can’t help that or change that.”

“But I wasn’t . . .” He pulls my hand toward him a little bit.

“Darius.”

“You judged me too. You treated me and my brother like shit too.”

Related Characters: Zuri Benitez (speaker), Darius Darcy (speaker), Carrie, Warren, Ainsley Darcy, Layla Benitez
Page Number and Citation: 256
Explanation and Analysis:

I have always thought of Bushwick as home, but in that moment, I realize that home is where the people I love are, wherever that is.

Related Characters: Zuri Benitez (speaker), Papi, Madrina, Colin
Page Number and Citation: 270
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