Recitatif

Mary (Twyla’s Mother) Character Analysis

Mary is Twyla’s mother, who is introduced in the first sentence of the story when Twyla explains she is in St. Bonny’s because “my mother danced all night.” Throughout the story, Twyla uses this same phrase—childlike in its vague simplicity—to describe the reason why Mary can’t take care of her. Its true meaning remains unclear; it is possible that Mary simply does not want to be a mother, but it’s also plausible that she is a sex worker. Mary’s name is ironic, as she is the opposite of the pure, self-sacrificing, morally perfect figure based on the mother of Jesus. Instead, she neglects Twyla, who at one point mentions that “Mary’s idea of supper was popcorn and a can of Yoo-Hoo,” and fidgets throughout the church service when she comes to visit St. Bonny’s. The fact that Twyla calls her mother “Mary” as opposed to something like “Mom” indicates the skewed nature of their relationship. Even at eight, Twyla is arguably more responsible than her mother, a fact revealed when Mary visits and “smiled and waved like she was the little girl looking for her mother, not me.” Twyla’s feelings about her mother are decidedly mixed; she is ashamed and resentful of Mary’s inappropriate outfit and the fact that she didn’t bring her any food, but experiences a moment of bliss when Mary embraces her. In the latter part of the story, Twyla repeats the refrain that Mary “never did stop dancing,” even as Twyla became a decidedly serious and responsible wife and mother herself.

Mary (Twyla’s Mother) Quotes in Recitatif

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My mother danced all night and Roberta’s was sick. That’s why we were taken to St. Bonny’s.

Related Characters: Twyla (speaker), Roberta, Mary (Twyla’s Mother), Roberta’s Mother
Related Symbols: Dance
Page Number: 203
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I thought if my dancing mother met her sick mother it might be good for her. And Roberta thought her sick mother would get a big bang out of a dancing one. We got excited about it and curled each other's hair.

Related Characters: Twyla (speaker), Roberta, Mary (Twyla’s Mother), Roberta’s Mother
Related Symbols: Dance
Page Number: 207
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I saw Mary right away. She had on those green slacks I hated and hated even more now because didn't she know we were going to chapel? And that fur jacket with the pocket linings so ripped she had to pull to get her hands out of them. But her face was pretty––like always––and she smiled and waved like she was the little girl looking for her mother, not me.

Related Characters: Twyla (speaker), Mary (Twyla’s Mother)
Page Number: 208
Explanation and Analysis:

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"Did I tell you? My mother, she never did stop dancing."
"Yes. You told me. And mine, she never got well." Roberta lifted her hands from the tabletop and covered her face with her palms. When she took them away she really was crying. "Oh, shit, Twyla. Shit, shit, shit. What the hell happened to Maggie?"

Related Characters: Twyla (speaker), Roberta (speaker), Maggie, Mary (Twyla’s Mother), Roberta’s Mother
Related Symbols: Dance
Page Number: 227
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Mary (Twyla’s Mother) Character Timeline in Recitatif

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...the narrator, explains that she and Roberta were in a shelter called St. Bonny’s because Twyla’s mother “danced all night” and Roberta’s mother was “sick.” Twyla says that people often feel pity... (full context)
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...“a girl from a whole different race,” she felt “sick to my stomach.” Her mother, Mary, had told her that people of Roberta’s race never washed their hair and “smelled funny.”... (full context)
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...leaves, Roberta asks Twyla if her mother is sick too; Twyla responds that her mother (Mary) isn’t sick, but “just likes to dance all night.” Twyla likes the way that Roberta... (full context)
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...of them, “they wouldn’t be real orphans.” Twyla is upset upon seeing that her mother, Mary, is wearing a pair of green slacks that Twyla dislikes and considers inappropriate for the... (full context)
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Twyla is so happy to see Mary that she briefly forgets about Roberta, until Roberta comes to introduce her mother to Twyla... (full context)
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Mary hasn’t brought anything to eat for lunch, and Twyla again thinks, “I could have killed... (full context)
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...and Twyla asks after Roberta’s mother. Roberta says she is “fine” and Twyla says that Mary is “pretty as a picture.” Roberta leaves and Twyla again thinks about how ugly the... (full context)
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...and as they are saying goodbye once again ask about each other’s mothers. Twyla says Mary never stopped dancing, and Roberta sadly admits that Roberta’s mother never got well. After Roberta... (full context)
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...and that both women had “nobody inside.” She draws a parallel between Maggie’s disabilities and Mary’s inability to perform her duties as a mother; she then compares Maggie’s silence and helplessness... (full context)
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...agree that they were both “lonely” and “scared.” Twyla asks if she told Roberta that Mary “never did stop dancing.” Roberta responds that her own mother never got better. Suddenly she... (full context)