Despite showcasing some of what it clearly considers the failures of early 21st-century America (cruelty, injustice, and xenophobia toward immigrants), Return to Sender clearly believes in the ideal of democracy, or rule by the common agreement of the people. On the familial level, Mom, Dad, Ben, Sara, and Tyler vote on possible names for their farm. Likewise, when there’s conflict over whether they should put Mamá’s photograph on the altar honoring the dead, Papá lets each of his three daughters, Mari, Ofie, and Luby, have a say in the matter. On an intermediate level, democracy plays out in the Vermont tradition of annual meeting to settle town business. And, of course, on the national level, the citizens of democracies like America and Mexico participate by voting in general elections (as the Cruz adults do in the 2006 Mexican presidential election) and by voicing their opinions in public forums (as Mari does when she writes a letter to the American president for a class project).
Throughout, the book emphasizes democracy not as a political system but as an active process, a set of concrete actions rather than a set of abstract beliefs. This idea comes into focus during the town meeting, especially Mr. Bicknell’s comments in response to Mr. Rossetti’s drive to rid the community of its undocumented immigrants. The point for Mr. Bicknell is not that he and Mr. Rossetti agree on everything (in fact, he takes it for granted that they will disagree) but that they each have the opportunity to express their minds respectfully, and that they let the group decide the best course of action together. So, although the book tries to call America to account for the ways in which it sometimes fails to live up to its own ideals, it nevertheless holds out hope that the country can change and improve insofar as people chose to put their values into action and make the ongoing choice to participate in democracy.
Democracy ThemeTracker
Democracy Quotes in Return to Sender
Chapter 4 Quotes
[Tyler’s] parents return, long-faced from the confrontation at Grandma’s house. Grandma has told her children that if they try to move her out of her house, she’ll run away, which is kind of funny, Grandma running away from home to protest being forced to leave her home.
Except that it’s not funny, Tyler thinks, wishing he could travel to another galaxy. He’d pick a planet with lots of farms and no borders or bullies bossing you around. His grandmother has told him that’s what heaven is like. But Tyler doesn’t want to have to die to go there, although it might be nice to join his grandfather and get to eavesdrop on the rest of the family plotting and planning on the earth below—without getting in trouble with his mother.
Chapter 6 Quotes
Up in the front seat, his parents are complaining about some old guy who always writes letters to the editor. This time his letter was about how a church group shouldn’t be allowed to peddle their refreshments at town meeting, as this country believes in separation of church and state “Grandma sure found her way around that one!” Mom is saying.
Tyler’s grandma and her friends agreed not to put up any sign that they were from the church. But in the icing of her sheet cake, Grandma traced a church, then stuck a little American flag atop the steeple.
Mr. Rossetti’s motion is voted down almost unanimously. For the first time ever, Tyler feels he has been part of the making of history. Not because he carried the flag and led everyone in saying the Pledge of Allegiance, but because he has seen democracy in action. People speaking up and reminding each other of the most noble and generous principles that are the foundation of being an American as well as a good person. Mr. Bicknell summed it up best: “We’re all born human beings. But we have to earn that e at the end of human with our action so we can truly call ourselves humane beings.”
Chapter 7 Quotes
Cargo?! Tyler can’t believe a human being would think of another human being that way! But he knows what Mari means about the demonstrations. It’s all over the news. In cities around the country, there have been big marches by people in favor of changing the laws to help immigrants. Just in Los Angelos, thousands upon thousands of people took to the street. Then, a week before Tyler’s 4-H club is supposed to go on its trip, there’s a national strike. People who support immigrants are asked to stay home from work. In D.C. there’s a huge protest march. The camera sweeps over the crowd waving American and Mexican flags and chanting “¡Sí, se puede!” which Tyler proudly translates for his family. Yes, we can! Yes, we can!
We spent the rest of the time walking around the city. Even Sara didn’t complain or ask to go shopping. But we didn’t see any demonstrators like we had seen on television. The streets were calm and full of people enjoying the beautiful spring weather. Everywhere there were so many flowers, like Nature was celebrating its quinceañera.
At first, Mamá clung to my hand, afraid she’d be picked up. But soon, she, too, relaxed as if she realized this was not just the capital of one country, but the home of everyone who loves freedom.
One of the places we visited was this stone wall engraved with the names of thousands upon thousands of soldiers who fought and died in a war not long ago. The stone was black and shiny, so you could see your reflection as well as the blooming trees and the clouds in the sky.



