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Key
LitCharts assigns a color and icon to each theme in Talking to Strangers, which you can use to track the themes throughout the work.
Default to Truth
Limitations of Transparency
Coupling Theory and Context
Self vs. Stranger
Summary
Analysis
1. Gladwell begins by recounting the 2015 arrest of Sandra Bland, a young African American woman who was apprehended by the police outside Houston, Texas. She was on her way home from a successful job interview at Prairie View A&M University, the school from which she’d graduated a few years prior. She posted regular inspirational videos to her YouTube channel, Sandy Speaks.
Bland’s altercation with a police officer establishes the stranger encounter at the heart of Gladwell’s book about how humans approach the daunting task of talking to strangers. The ways Bland’s traffic stop goes awry will outline the core flaws in people’s methods for interacting with people they don’t know.
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The officer, Brian Encinia, a 30-year-old white man, told Bland she had failed to signal a lane change. He was initially polite with Bland but became hostile after she refused his order to put out her cigarette. From there, Encinia and Bland engaged in an increasingly heated altercation that was recorded on Encinia’s bodycam and subsequently viewed on YouTube millions of times. Tensions escalated, with Encinia repeatedly attempting to reach inside Bland’s car to forcibly remove Bland from the vehicle and threatening bodily harm. Ultimately, Bland was arrested and jailed, and she committed suicide in her cell three days later.
Gladwell frames Bland’s cigarette as the turning point in the encounter between Bland and Encinia. In lighting a cigarette, Bland seems to ignite some anger in Encinia. The hostility about the cigarette isn’t about the cigarette at all—it’s about some unspoken misunderstanding about power dynamics, body language, and respect that has occurred between Bland and the officer. Because they don’t know how to make sense of each other, they fail to deescalate tension, which indirectly leads to Bland’s death.
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2. Gladwell explains Bland’s controversial arrest and suicide within the context of the birth of Black Lives Matter, a civil rights movement that was formed in response to the death of a Black teenager, Michael Brown, who was shot to death by a police officer in Ferguson, Missouri, for allegedly stealing a pack of cigars from a convenience store. Gladwell also references the cases of Freddie Gray, Philando Castile, Eric Garner, and Walter Scott. Bland even gave Scott his own episode of “Sandy Speaks.” In the episode she talked about her upbringing in a predominantly white community and stated that learning to work with white people was essential to being “successful in this world” as a Black person.
Bland’s tragic and senseless death made waves nationally. People expressed outrage at what they saw as yet another instance of police abusing their power and acting on racist assumptions at the expense of Black people. Gladwell references other officer-involved deaths many consider to be unjust and racially motivated to illustrate one common way the public has made sense of Bland’s death. Bland herself publicly expressed outrage at the unequal treatment of Black people in the U.S., emphasizing the need for Black people to conform to white social norms and expectations to be “successful in this world.”
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Next, Gladwell explains the purpose of his book within the context of Bland’s arrest: to discover why what should have been a routine traffic stop escalated the way it did. In the debates that arose in response to these cases of officer-involved deaths, there have emerged two predominant sides. The first side identifies racism as the cause of these deaths. The other side attacks the individual officer’s incompetence, considering how their personality and training might have contributed to the altercation going awry. While both sides have their merits, Gladwell argues, they also fall short of diagnosing a way to prevent future instances of social dysfunction.
Gladwell takes a different approach to understanding Bland’s case, suggesting that what went wrong in Bland’s encounter with Encina had more to do with the broader issue of making sense of strangers—people whose backgrounds, body language, and perspectives are unfamiliar—than with race specifically. However, it’s worth noting that issues of systemic racism and the dissemination of racial stereotypes creates and perpetuates a sense of unfamiliarity and otherness between people of different races.
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According to Gladwell, one characteristic of the many wars waged in Europe over the course of the 16th century is that they were fought between neighboring countries: between people who shared similar beliefs and customs. However, one major conflict departed from this trend. The conflict between Spanish conquistador Hernán Cortés and Aztec ruler Montezuma II in 1519 was between two peoples who knew nothing of each other’s cultures. When Cortés and his people approached the Aztec city of Tenochtitlan, they were awestruck by the city built atop water. Until then, no European had set foot in Mexico. The city would have seemed miraculously clean to a man coming from plague-ridden Europe.
Encountering people of different ethnicities, backgrounds, and cultures creates a new source of conflict. It makes wars between nations a matter of ideology and perspective in addition to geography and borders.
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Gladwell explains how a series of poor translations between Spanish and the Aztec language of Nahuatl led Cortés to misinterpret Montezuma’s coded language, believing that the Aztec ruler had deemed Cortés a god and gifted him the city, when in reality, Montezuma had intended to say no such things. Nevertheless, the misunderstanding led Cortés and his men to capture and kill Montezuma, leading to a bloody war that killed 20 million Aztecs through battle or the transmission of deadly diseases.
Cortés is said to have believed that Montezuma believed Cortés was a messenger of the feathered serpent god Quetzalcoatl or the god himself. A number of historians have challenged this claim, however, including Camilla Townsend, whose research Gladwell cites in his endnotes. Gladwell proposes that Cortés’s failure to understand Montezuma’s coded, figurative language shows how an overconfidence in one’s ability to understand different languages and cultures leads to grave consequences.
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Gladwell sees human history as a series of people being thrown into social interactions with people whose differing beliefs, customs, and mannerisms make it difficult to understand each other. Gladwell’s book, therefore, explores what he refers to as “the stranger problem,” in which a simple misinterpreting of words and actions can elicit devastating, unintended consequences.
Gladwell believes that Montezuma and Cortés’s misunderstanding happens to varying degrees of intensity in every stranger interaction. The “stranger problem,” the way interacting with strangers forces us to confront unfamiliar cultures, perspectives, and behaviors, unites all stranger encounters across geography and time. As such, Gladwell sees Sandra Bland’s tragic death as yet another devastating consequence of not understanding or addressing the stranger problem and letting unchecked misunderstanding lead to conflict.
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