Throughout Tell Me Everything, Bob Burgess’s covert cigarette-smoking represents how impossible it is to truly know another person. Though Bob and his friend Lucy Barton have built an entire ritual around Bob’s weekly smoke, Bob keeps this secret from his wife Margaret, going to elaborate lengths to prevent her from detecting the smell on his clothes. And despite living so closely with Bob, Margaret does indeed fail to pick up on his new habit, even though Bob’s new friend Matt Beach thinks the smell of smoke is unmissable. Moreover, as Bob’s feelings for Lucy grow increasingly amorous, their shared knowledge of Bob’s cigarette use stands in for the romantic feelings they can never bring themselves to voice. By the end of the narrative, while Bob decides that he will not act on his feelings for Lucy, he never gives up smoking entirely, a sign that even after he recommits to his life with Margaret, there remain pieces of his interior world that his wife will never have access to.
Bob’s Cigarettes Quotes in Tell Me Everything
Book 1, Chapter 8 Quotes
“Years ago, when I was small, I have a memory of reading a book, and it had those black-and-white drawings in it, so it was some kind of book of fables, I think. And all I remember is that there was a picture of a man, he was older, and every time you turned the page, he was a little more slumped. Because it was his job in the world to eat people’s sins, and I have—my whole life—remembered that. That’s what the story Olive told me yesterday was about, about a sin eater.” Lucy looked over at Bob thoughtfully. “And that’s what you are.”
[…] They sat quietly while Bob finished his cigarette, and then he stuck the butt back into its pack. Bob said, “Thank you, Lucy.”
“Of course,” she said.
Book 3, Chapter 5 Quotes
“Oh no, that would be great!” Matt said. “You are the only person in the world who cares where I am.” But he said it cheerfully. Then he said, “Can I see where you are too?”
“Sure,” Bob said. So he set that up for Matt as well. “Now you’re the only person who can track me,” Bob said. “I don’t even let my wife track me.”
“Why not?” Matt asked, and Bob said it was because he sometimes went off to have a cigarette.
She doesn’t know you smoke?” Matt asked. “Even I know you smoke.”
“How?” Bob asked, and Matt said, “Because I can smell it.”
“Oy,” said Bob, and Matt said, “I like how you say oy.”
Bob could not wait to tell Lucy all about it.
He took a drag of his cigarette and said, “Lucy, I’m so sorry about seeing you in the store and—” But she was already shaking her head, and she touched his arm lightly and said, “Bob, please don’t give it another thought, I was just being a jerk.”
They sat there looking at the river. There was enough of a wind to make small white caps appear in the middle of it, and also the wind blew the smoke over Bob as he sat. But he did not get up, as he would have in the past.
Lucy was restored to him.
On the shifting sand they stood on.
“Thanks, Lucy,” he said, as he put the cigarette butt back into the pack.
“Of course,” she said.
Book 4, Chapter 12 Quotes
“So Bob, here’s the thing. Olive and I have been telling each other stories of unrecorded lives, but what do they mean? At least Diana Beach got to be a good guidance counselor. And yet still—I don’t know. I keep thinking these days about all these people, and people we don't even know, and their lives are unrecorded. But what does anyone’s life mean?” She added, “Please don’t laugh.”
The smoke [Bob] inhaled got stuck and he coughed—hard. He turned toward her as he coughed and coughed. When he was done coughing, he asked, “Did you just ask me what anyone’s life means?”



