The Country Wife

by

William Wycherley

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Lady Fidget is Sir Jasper Fidget’s wife and, ironically, a woman known in the town for being extremely virtuous and “honorable.” She spends most of her time with her sister in law, Mrs. Dainty Fidget, and her friend Mrs. Squeamish, and the trio are known as the “virtuous gang.” Their reputation as women who are honorable is extremely ironic as, underneath this public image, Lady Fidget and her friends are highly promiscuous. Although they pretend to be disgusted by “lewd” men, like Horner, they exaggerate their disdain for men and for sex to hide their appetite for these things. Lady Fidget even pretends to dislike the word “naked” in front of her husband, because of its bodily connotations, but in private she is just as much of a “false rogue” as Horner. Lady Fidget brazenly lies to and “cuckolds” Sir Jasper, even going so far as to have sex with Horner while her husband is in the next room during the famous “china scene.” While Lady Fidget is decidedly not a virtuous character, she is not punished at the play’s conclusion and is, in some regards, a sympathetic figure. She is witty and cunning in her ability to outsmart society and, as these were regarded as admirable traits in Restoration society, she is rewarded rather than ruined for them and gets away with all her escapades. She is the female counterpart of Horner in everything except what society expects from her, because she is a woman and he is a man. While Restoration society encouraged vigor, promiscuity, and sensuality in men, it condemned these traits in women. Lady Fidget complains bitterly about this double standard during her drinking song, which laments the plight of “virtuous” women like herself, whose husbands ignore them and whose lovers pass them over for “common women.”

Lady Fidget Quotes in The Country Wife

The The Country Wife quotes below are all either spoken by Lady Fidget or refer to Lady Fidget. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
Reputation, Appearance, and Hypocrisy  Theme Icon
).
Act 2 Quotes

Mrs. Squeamish: ’Tis true, nobody takes notice of a private man, and therefore with him ’tis more secret, and the crime’s the less when ’tis not known.

Lady Fidget: You say true; i’faith, I think you are in the right on’t. ’Tis not an injury to a husband till it be an injury to our honors; so that a woman of honor loses no honor with a private person; and to say truth.

Related Characters: Lady Fidget (speaker), Mrs. Squeamish (speaker), Mrs. Dainty Fidget
Page Number: 43
Explanation and Analysis:

Lady Fidget: Well, that’s spoken again like a man of honor; all men of honor desire to come to the test. But, indeed, generally you men report such things of yourselves, one does not know how or whom to believe; and it is come to that pass we dare not take your words, no more than your tailor's, without some staid servant of yours be bound with you. But I have so strong a faith in your honor, dear, dear, noble sir, that I’d forfeit mine for yours at any time, dear sir.

Horner: No, madam, you should not need to forfeit it for me; I have given you security already to save you harmless, my late reputation being so well known in the world, madam.

Related Characters: Harry Horner (speaker), Lady Fidget (speaker)
Page Number: 50
Explanation and Analysis:
Act 4, Scene 3 Quotes

If you talk a word more of your honor, you’ll make me incapable to wrong it. To talk of honor in the mysteries of love is like talking of heaven or the deity in an operation of witchcraft, just when you are employing the devil; it makes the charm impotent … I tell you, madam, the word ‘money’ in a mistress’s mouth, at such a nick of time, is not a more disheartening sound to a younger brother than that of ‘honor’ to an eager lover like myself.

Related Characters: Harry Horner (speaker), Lady Fidget
Page Number: 102
Explanation and Analysis:
Act 5, Scene 4 Quotes

Why should our damned tyrants oblige us to live
On the pittance of pleasure which they only give?
We must not rejoice
With wine and with noise.
In vain we must wake in a dull bed alone.
Whilst to our warm rival, the bottle, they’re gone.
Then lay aside charms
And take up these arms.
Tis wine only gives ’em their courage and wit,
Because we live sober, to men we submit.

Related Characters: Lady Fidget (speaker)
Page Number: 139
Explanation and Analysis:

Lady Fidget: Our reputation! Lord, why should you not think that we women make use of our reputation, as you men of yours only to deceive the world with less suspicion? Our virtue is like the statesman’s religion, the Quaker’s word, the gamester’s oath, and the great man’s honor – but to cheat those that trust us.

Squeamish: And that demureness, coyness, and modesty that you see in our faces in the boxes at plays is as much a sign of a kind woman as a vizard-mask in the pit.

Dainty: For, I assure you, women are least masked when they have the velvet vizard on.

Related Characters: Lady Fidget (speaker), Mrs. Dainty Fidget (speaker), Mrs. Squeamish (speaker)
Page Number: 141-142
Explanation and Analysis:
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Lady Fidget Quotes in The Country Wife

The The Country Wife quotes below are all either spoken by Lady Fidget or refer to Lady Fidget. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
Reputation, Appearance, and Hypocrisy  Theme Icon
).
Act 2 Quotes

Mrs. Squeamish: ’Tis true, nobody takes notice of a private man, and therefore with him ’tis more secret, and the crime’s the less when ’tis not known.

Lady Fidget: You say true; i’faith, I think you are in the right on’t. ’Tis not an injury to a husband till it be an injury to our honors; so that a woman of honor loses no honor with a private person; and to say truth.

Related Characters: Lady Fidget (speaker), Mrs. Squeamish (speaker), Mrs. Dainty Fidget
Page Number: 43
Explanation and Analysis:

Lady Fidget: Well, that’s spoken again like a man of honor; all men of honor desire to come to the test. But, indeed, generally you men report such things of yourselves, one does not know how or whom to believe; and it is come to that pass we dare not take your words, no more than your tailor's, without some staid servant of yours be bound with you. But I have so strong a faith in your honor, dear, dear, noble sir, that I’d forfeit mine for yours at any time, dear sir.

Horner: No, madam, you should not need to forfeit it for me; I have given you security already to save you harmless, my late reputation being so well known in the world, madam.

Related Characters: Harry Horner (speaker), Lady Fidget (speaker)
Page Number: 50
Explanation and Analysis:
Act 4, Scene 3 Quotes

If you talk a word more of your honor, you’ll make me incapable to wrong it. To talk of honor in the mysteries of love is like talking of heaven or the deity in an operation of witchcraft, just when you are employing the devil; it makes the charm impotent … I tell you, madam, the word ‘money’ in a mistress’s mouth, at such a nick of time, is not a more disheartening sound to a younger brother than that of ‘honor’ to an eager lover like myself.

Related Characters: Harry Horner (speaker), Lady Fidget
Page Number: 102
Explanation and Analysis:
Act 5, Scene 4 Quotes

Why should our damned tyrants oblige us to live
On the pittance of pleasure which they only give?
We must not rejoice
With wine and with noise.
In vain we must wake in a dull bed alone.
Whilst to our warm rival, the bottle, they’re gone.
Then lay aside charms
And take up these arms.
Tis wine only gives ’em their courage and wit,
Because we live sober, to men we submit.

Related Characters: Lady Fidget (speaker)
Page Number: 139
Explanation and Analysis:

Lady Fidget: Our reputation! Lord, why should you not think that we women make use of our reputation, as you men of yours only to deceive the world with less suspicion? Our virtue is like the statesman’s religion, the Quaker’s word, the gamester’s oath, and the great man’s honor – but to cheat those that trust us.

Squeamish: And that demureness, coyness, and modesty that you see in our faces in the boxes at plays is as much a sign of a kind woman as a vizard-mask in the pit.

Dainty: For, I assure you, women are least masked when they have the velvet vizard on.

Related Characters: Lady Fidget (speaker), Mrs. Dainty Fidget (speaker), Mrs. Squeamish (speaker)
Page Number: 141-142
Explanation and Analysis: