Edith Thompson (Ditte) Quotes in The Dictionary of Lost Words
Part 3, Chapter 4: December 1906 Quotes
“Every woman wants to be married, Essymay.”
“If that’s true, then why isn’t Ditte married, or her sister? Why not Elsie or Rosfrith or Eleanor Bradley? Why not you?”
“Not all women get the chance. And some…well, some are just brought up with too many books and too many ideas, and they can’t settle to it.”
“I don’t think I could settle to it, Lizzie.”
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“What do you want?”
“I want things to stay as they are. I want to keep sorting words and understanding what they mean. I want to get better at it and be given more responsibility, and I want to keep earning my own money. I feel as though I’ve only begun to understand who I am. Being a wife or a mother just doesn’t fit.”
Part 4, Chapter 4: May 1909 Quotes
You are not a coward, Esme. It pains me to think that any young woman would think such a thing because she is not being brutalised for her convictions. […] If you want to be useful, keep doing what you have always done. You once made the observation that some words were considered more important than others because they were written down. You were arguing that by default the words of educated men were more important than the words of uneducated classes, women among them. Do what you are good at, my dear Esme: keep considering the words we use and record. […] Without realising it, you are already working for this cause.
Part 5, Chapter 2: May 1915 Quotes
I remembered lily. Back then, I had thought that if I saved the word something of my mother would be remembered. It was not my place to erase what war meant to Phyllis Campbell; what it was to those Belgian women. Among the propaganda of glory, and the men’s experiences of the trenches and death, something needed to be known of what happened to women. I returned to my desk, opened Back of the Front and began again. Once more, I forced each terrible sentence from my trembling pen.
If war could change the nature of men, it would surely change the nature of words, I thought.



