The Four Agreements

by

Don Miguel Ruiz

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Miguel Ruiz uses the metaphor of dreaming to represent human perception. In order to make sense of the world, Ruiz says, people need to “dream” or perceive it first—and much like a dream one has during sleep, one’s way of perceiving the world can either be lucid and actively constructed, or passive and unconsciously constructed. The most common dream (or mode of perception) is the one that children are taught by their caregivers and the authority figures in their lives (such as parents and teachers) and by society at large. Ruiz names the typical dream that children learn—or the way they are taught to perceive the world—“the dream of the planet.” Sometimes, Ruiz also calls this “the dream of human society.” The dream of the planet is a way of seeing the world that tells children what the universe contains, what they are as human beings, and how they should act. Every person has their own “dream” (or way of perceiving the world) that is derived from the dream of the planet. For Ruiz, however, the dream of the planet is actually a lie that warps human perception. In essence, the dream of the planet is a “nightmare” full of fear, judgement, conflict, and misery. Ruiz believes that he can invoke the wisdom of the early Mexican Toltec people to teach modern-day humanity how to perceive the world differently, or construct a “new dream” centered on perceiving the world as it really is: a single entity made of universal love.

Dream Quotes in The Four Agreements

The The Four Agreements quotes below all refer to the symbol of Dream. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
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Introduction: The Smokey Mirror Quotes

“That smoke is the Dream, and the mirror is you, the dreamer.”

Related Characters: The Smokey Mirror (the student of medicine) (speaker), Miguel Ruiz
Related Symbols: Dream
Page Number: xix
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Chapter 1. Domestication... Quotes

By using our attention we learned a whole reality, a whole dream.

Related Characters: Miguel Ruiz (speaker), The Smokey Mirror (the student of medicine)
Related Symbols: Dream
Page Number: 3
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I call this process the domestication of humans. And through this process we learn now to live and how to dream.

Related Characters: Miguel Ruiz (speaker)
Related Symbols: Dream
Page Number: 6
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The Judge decrees, and the Victim suffers the guilt and the punishment. But who says there is justice in this dream?

Related Characters: Miguel Ruiz (speaker), Judge, Victim
Related Symbols: Dream
Page Number: 11-12
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Chapter 3. The Second Agreement Quotes

The second agreement is don’t take anything personally.

Related Characters: Miguel Ruiz (speaker), Judge
Related Symbols: Dream
Page Number: 47
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Chapter 6. The Toltec Path to Freedom Quotes

The parasite dreams through your mind and lives its life through your body. It survives on the emotions that come from fear, and thrives on drama and suffering.

Related Characters: Miguel Ruiz (speaker), Judge, Victim
Related Symbols: Dream, Parasite
Page Number: 102
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Dream Symbol Timeline in The Four Agreements

The timeline below shows where the symbol Dream appears in The Four Agreements. The colored dots and icons indicate which themes are associated with that appearance.
Introduction: The Smokey Mirror
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...medicine man sleeps in a cave and has an out of body experience in a dream, through which he realizes “I am made of light. I am made of stars.” The... (full context)
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The student concludes that everyone is dreaming and can’t see their true nature because of the fog or smoke between them, meaning... (full context)
Chapter 1. Domestication and the Dream of the Planet
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Ruiz believes that everything humanity perceives is a dream. The mind perpetually dreams. The dreams are framed in a linear way when we are... (full context)
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...this that we no longer need our parents to domesticate us or teach us to “dream” in a certain way. We learn to domesticate ourselves by punishing ourselves when we don’t... (full context)
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Furthermore, people’s individual dreams may differ, but the “dream of the planet”—on a global level—is characterized by fear, injustice,... (full context)
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...we can’t see them because the agreements and beliefs we have stored within us—or the dream that we have been taught—obscures our vision and we live in a “fog.” Ruiz thinks... (full context)
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...on keeping the agreements we have made, so we feel powerless and trapped in “the dream of the planet.” But if we don’t like our lives, we need to change the... (full context)
Chapter 2. The First Agreement: Be Impeccable with Your Word
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...your creative power through “your word.” Everything you believe about what you are, what you dream, and what you feel is conjured by your word. Your word is a magical  “force”... (full context)
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...between people, families, races, and nations. These misuses of words create fear and reinforce the “dream of hell.”  (full context)
Chapter 3. The Second Agreement: Don’t Take Anything Personally
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...however, you’re agreeing with the person—or, taking it personally—and you start becoming trapped in “the dream of hell.” You get trapped because of “personal importance”: you think everything is about you.   (full context)
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...that “nothing other people do is because of you.” They do things because of their dream in their own mind, which is completely different from your dream in your mind. Even... (full context)
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...to be wrong. But everything you believe just reflects your own agreements (or your own “dream”).   Instead, Ruiz says you could do as he does, and believe that what somebody else... (full context)
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...take personally—what we tell ourselves. Similarly, we can choose whether or not to believe “the dream of the planet.” (full context)
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Practicing the second agreement makes you immune to the triggers that “trap you in the dream of hell.” It doesn’t matter what anyone (or everyone) says about you—you’ll be immune because... (full context)
Chapter 4. The Third Agreement: Don’t Make Assumptions
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...to misinterpret everything: we only see and hear what we want to believe and we dream things up all the time that have no basis in reality. For example, imagine you... (full context)
Chapter 5. The Fourth Agreement: Always Do Your Best
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...action. Ruiz equates taking action with being alive and taking the risk to express your dream. (full context)
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...past and of what you’ve lost allows you to be alive now and enjoy the dream that’s happening in this moment. If you dwell on missing someone or something, you’re not... (full context)
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Ruiz means that you can’t just daydream or meditate on the agreements to reap their benefits—you have to act by feeding, cleaning,... (full context)
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...enable to you to master transformation: to “transform hell into heaven,” and to transform the “dream of the planet” into your “personal dream.” You can do your best to honor the... (full context)
Chapter 6. The Toltec Path to Freedom: Breaking Old Agreements
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Being a Toltec, essentially, is taking control of your own dream, having the power to change your life if you don’t enjoy your dream, and following... (full context)
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...alive. When we realize this, we have a choice: surrender to the parasite and “the dream of the planet,” or to rebel. Shamans of the Americas call themselves “warriors” because they... (full context)
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Ruiz names the first way of killing the parasite “the art of transformation: the dream of the second attention.” Domestication is the “dream of the first attention” because the first... (full context)
Chapter 7. The New Dream: Heaven on Earth
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Ruiz instructs you to forget everything you’ve ever learned. Your new dream starts here. You have the power to change right now. Use your imagination and see... (full context)
Chapter 8. Prayers
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Ruiz recites a second prayer “for love.” He says you are going to share a dream with him, in which you’re walking on a warm, sunny day. You see a kind... (full context)