The Four Agreements

by

Don Miguel Ruiz

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Ruiz compares people’s tendency to internally judge and shame themselves to a parasite that feeds off of fear. He visualizes the parasite as a “monster with a thousand heads” whose body is comprised of one’s inner Judge persona, one’s inner Victim persona, and society’s “Book of Law” (belief system) that’s internalized at a young age. The parasite’s heads thus represent each of a person’s fears, which are all grounded in and perpetuated by society’s standards as well as by a person’s inner monologue. Ruiz’s aim is to help readers silence the inner voices that judge, shame, and agree to their internalized belief system, and he says that a person needs to “kill” the parasite in order to do so. One way to do this is by facing each fear one by one, which would be like cutting off each of the monster’s heads. Another way is by controlling one’s emotions and preventing fear from rising up, which would be like starving the monster of its food. The final way involves recognizing one’s own mortality, which Ruiz describes as killing the parasite while keeping its host (the person) alive. As such, Ruiz portrays self-judgment as a dangerous, infectious presence—but one that can ultimately be killed if an individual is willing to face their fears and challenge themselves.

Parasite Quotes in The Four Agreements

The The Four Agreements quotes below all refer to the symbol of Parasite. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
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Chapter 6. The Toltec Path to Freedom Quotes

The parasite dreams through your mind and lives its life through your body. It survives on the emotions that come from fear, and thrives on drama and suffering.

Related Characters: Miguel Ruiz (speaker), Judge, Victim
Related Symbols: Dream, Parasite
Page Number: 102
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Parasite Symbol Timeline in The Four Agreements

The timeline below shows where the symbol Parasite appears in The Four Agreements. The colored dots and icons indicate which themes are associated with that appearance.
Chapter 6. The Toltec Path to Freedom: Breaking Old Agreements
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...compares the Judge, the Victim, and the belief system you are domesticated with to a parasite: it sucks your energy in order to keep itself alive. When we realize this, we... (full context)
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Beliefs, Agreements, and Transformative Happiness Theme Icon
Ruiz names the first way of killing the parasite “the art of transformation: the dream of the second attention.” Domestication is the “dream of... (full context)
Beliefs, Agreements, and Transformative Happiness Theme Icon
Ruiz names the second way of killing the parasite “the discipline of the warrior: controlling your own behavior.” Imagine you wake up in a... (full context)
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Childhood, Adulthood, and Freedom Theme Icon
The third way of killing the parasite, Ruiz says, is known as “the initiation of the dead: embracing the angel of death.”... (full context)
Chapter 7. The New Dream: Heaven on Earth
Human Perception, Reality, and Universal Love Theme Icon
Childhood, Adulthood, and Freedom Theme Icon
...right now. Living like this is “a state of bliss.” Even if you feel the parasite inside you, you can still choose to live in heaven or hell. Ruiz chooses heaven... (full context)