The Joy Luck Club

Lindo is the narrator of “The Red Candle” and “Double Face.” She is a Horse in the Chinese Zodiac, which predetermines a strong and hardworking nature. At only two years old, Lindo is arranged to be married to a spoiled boy named Tyan-yu, based on their compatible zodiac signs. When she goes to live with Tyan-yu’s family at the age of twelve, Tyan-yu’s mother, Huang Taitai, abuses Lindo like an indentured servant. The marriage is short-lived, as Lindo ingeniously plans a way to get out of her marital contract. Lindo sees this ingenuity inherited in her daughter Waverly, but fears her daughter is too Americanized to ever appreciate her Chinese heritage.

Lindo Jong Quotes in The Joy Luck Club

The The Joy Luck Club quotes below are all either spoken by Lindo Jong or refer to Lindo Jong. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
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Part 1, Chapter 3 Quotes

I once sacrificed my life to keep my parents’ promise. This means nothing to you, because to you promises mean nothing. A daughter can promise to come to dinner, but if she has a headache, if she has a traffic jam, if she wants to watch a favorite movie on TV, she no longer has a promise.

Related Characters: Lindo Jong (speaker), Waverly Jong
Page Number: 49
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I had no choice, now or later. That was how backward families in the country were. We were always the last to give up stupid old-fashioned customs. In other cities already, a man could choose his own wife, with his parents’ permission of course. But we were cut off from this new type of thought. You never heard if ideas were better in another city, only if they were worse.

Related Characters: Lindo Jong (speaker)
Page Number: 51
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Part 2, Chapter 1 Quotes

I was six when my mother taught me the art of invisible strength. It was a strategy for winning arguments, respect from others, and eventually, though neither of us knew it at the time, chess games.

Related Characters: Waverly Jong (speaker), Lindo Jong
Page Number: 89
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Part 3, Chapter 2 Quotes

That’s what she is. A Horse, born in 1918, destined to be obstinate and frank to the point of tactlessness. She and I make a bad combination, because I’m a Rabbit, born in 1951, supposedly sensitive, with tendencies toward being thin-skinned and skittery at the first sign of criticism.

Related Characters: Waverly Jong (speaker), Lindo Jong
Page Number: 167
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And my mother loved to show me off, like one of the many trophies she polished. She used to discuss my games as if she had devised the strategies… and a hundred other useless things that had nothing to do with my winning.

Related Characters: Waverly Jong (speaker), Lindo Jong
Page Number: 170
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Part 4, Chapter 4 Quotes

"You don’t understand," I protested.
"What I don’t understand?" she said.
And then I whispered, "They’ll think I’m responsible, that she died because I didn’t appreciate her."
And Auntie Lindo looked satisfied and sad at the same time, as if this were true and I had finally realized it.

Related Characters: Jing-mei “June” Woo (speaker), Lindo Jong (speaker), Suyuan Woo
Page Number: 271
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Lindo Jong Character Timeline in The Joy Luck Club

The timeline below shows where the character Lindo Jong appears in The Joy Luck Club. The colored dots and icons indicate which themes are associated with that appearance.
Part 1, Chapter 1: The Joy Luck Club
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...in America in 1949 with new participants, after immigrating to California and meeting An-mei Hsu, Lindo Jong, and Ying-ying St. Clair at the San Francisco Refugee Welcome Center. In the eyes... (full context)
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...however, she died before having the chance to contact them. The three women – An-mei, Lindo, and Ying-ying – ask June to fulfill her mother’s greatest wish of reconnecting with her... (full context)
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...after a lifetime of being raised by her. June recognizes that behind the anger, An-mei, Lindo, and Ying-ying are actually afraid that their own daughters would have the same reaction as... (full context)
Part 1, Chapter 3: The Red Candle
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Lindo opens the chapter by saying she “sacrificed [her] life to keep [her] parents’ promise,” but... (full context)
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Lindo expands on her previously sacrifice, describing her arranged marriage in China when she was two... (full context)
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After the initial arrangement, Lindo’s mother refers to Lindo as Huang Taitai’s daughter instead of her own, and treats her... (full context)
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When Lindo is twelve, her family’s farm is destroyed by floods, and her parents decide that, rather... (full context)
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Over the next four years, Lindo becomes such a good servant that Huang Taitai jokingly complains that she can’t make a... (full context)
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By Lindo’s sixteenth birthday, Huang Taitai is anxious for a grandson, and plans a lavish wedding for... (full context)
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On her wedding night, Lindo sees her red marriage candle on display. According to tradition, a candle is decorated with... (full context)
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...night, but the servant gets scared by thunder and leaves her post. In that moment, Lindo rushes over without hesitation and blows Tyan-yu’s candle end out. The next morning however, Huang... (full context)
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After the wedding, Lindo falls into a comfortable, platonic relationship with Tyan-yu, caring for him like a sister and... (full context)
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Huang Taitai, with her old-fashioned thinking, straps Lindo to her bed to increase her chance at pregnancy, as well as strips her of... (full context)
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Not long after, in a frenzied performance, Lindo tells an elaborate story to Huang Taitai, saying that Tyan-yu’s ancestors came to her in... (full context)
Part 2, Chapter 1: Rules of the Game
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Waverly Jong narrates her experience as a child chess prodigy, saying that her mother Lindo was the one who taught her the art of “invisible strength.” As a child, Waverly... (full context)
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...receives a used chess set with missing pieces as a holiday gift from their church. Lindo wants to throw the chessboard out because it’s clearly been worn down and discarded by... (full context)
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Lindo notices Waverly’s talent and signs her up for neighborhood chess tournaments. At the first tournament,... (full context)
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...own bedroom. Waverly enjoys the benefits, but grows increasingly irritated by her mother’s overbearing presence. Lindo takes Waverly on walks through Chinatown’s markets to show her off, inflating Lindo’s own ego. (full context)
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On one trip, Waverly loses her temper and tells Lindo that the bragging is embarrassing. Lindo angrily asks if Waverly is embarrassed to be her... (full context)
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...later, she returns home to her brothers telling her that she’s in deep trouble. However, Lindo doesn’t acknowledge her, saying the family has no concern for Waverly if Waverly has no... (full context)
Part 2, Chapter 4: Two Kinds
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...always end up deeply disappointed. At the same time, Waverly becomes a chess prodigy, and Lindo brags about her daughter’s victories. June can see Suyuan’s envy, even though Suyuan says Waverly... (full context)
Part 3, Chapter 2: Four Directions
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Waverly takes Lindo out to lunch to tell her about her recent engagement to Rich Schields, but it... (full context)
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Whenever Waverly tries to bring Rich up, Lindo changes the subject, so Waverly decides to bring her to Rich and Waverly’s apartment, where... (full context)
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Waverly angrily recalls her childhood again, after her fight with Lindo in “Rules of the Game.” Thinking she can spite Lindo by no longer being a... (full context)
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...to erode self-confidence haunts Waverly into adult life, coloring Waverly’s opinion of her romantic partners. Lindo openly disliked and criticized Waverly’s first husband who was also Shoshana’s father; by the time... (full context)
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Waverly finally gets Lindo to acknowledge Rich through a sneaky plan: she first takes him to Suyuan and Canning’s... (full context)
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...as Rich breaks a number of Chinese etiquette rules, such as adding soy sauce to Lindo’s cooking and calling Waverly’s parents by their first names. Waverly is horrified by his behavior... (full context)
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Waverly stays up all night stewing, then drives straight to Lindo’s in the morning to yell at her. When she arrives, Lindo is asleep, looking “innocent…... (full context)
Part 4, Chapter 3: Double Face
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...her trip to China, and airport officials won’t let her back into the United States; Lindo scoffs and says that Waverly doesn’t even need to open her mouth to reveal that... (full context)
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Before Waverly’s wedding, Waverly forces Lindo to get her hair cut at a fancy San Francisco salon. The stylist doesn’t even... (full context)
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When left alone, Lindo thinks about the similarities between she and Waverly, as mother and daughter; then, she thinks... (full context)
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When first traveling to America, Lindo pays an American-raised Chinese girl to teach her the rules of survival. She’s told to... (full context)
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Back in the parlor, Lindo complains about Waverly’s crooked nose, inherited from Lindo, but Waverly likes it, saying it makes... (full context)
Part 4, Chapter 4: A Pair of Tickets
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...about her half-sisters and their impending meeting. Suyuan died before replying to their letter, so Lindo was asked to reply with the bad news. All of the Joy Luck Club members... (full context)
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...sisters she doesn’t even know. The worry seeps into her sleep, causing nightmares. June begs Lindo to write another letter in Chinese that says Suyuan is dead. June confesses that her... (full context)