The statement of purpose that Kay and Peter force Daniel to write for admission to Carlough College represents the rigid expectations they place upon him. Although Daniel doesn’t want to pursue his academic career any further after failing out of SUNY Potsdam, his adoptive parents insist that he return to Ridgeborough and attend summer classes. “I would write the statement of purpose for you myself if it wasn’t ethically wrong,” Peter says. “Don’t think I haven’t considered it. But do not mistake this for a choice.” This is a perfect illustration of Peter and Kay’s belief that Daniel must do exactly what they tell him. Ignoring what he wants for his life, they make decisions for him and act like he has to live up to their expectations in order to deserve their love and support. Of course, this is a common parenting style, but the Wilkinsons’ focus on the statement of purpose comes to symbolize the ways in which they’re overly fixated on controlling Daniel’s life. That Peter would like to write the statement himself suggests that he not only wants to have control over his adoptive son, but also that he doesn’t think Daniel is capable of doing it himself. In turn, the statement itself stands for both his domineering nature and his lack of faith in Daniel.