In The Outsiders, Ponyboy tells Cherry that his family is made up of his two older brothers, Sodapop and Darry, and he presents that family as loving but strained, especially because he believes Darry is too hard on him.
When Cherry talks with Ponyboy at the drive-in, she asks about Sodapop after saying he is good-looking. Ponyboy feels ashamed as he admits that Soda has dropped out of school and now works at a gas station. This detail shows Cherry that Ponyboy’s family does not have the easy security he associates with the Socs, since his brother has had to leave school and work.
Later, when Cherry asks about Darry, Ponyboy says that Darry does not like him. Johnny and Two-Bit are surprised by this, which suggests that Ponyboy’s view is shaped by hurt and misunderstanding. Darry is actually Ponyboy’s guardian after their parents’ death, and he has given up a college scholarship to support the Curtis brothers. Ponyboy experiences Darry’s strictness as criticism, even though Darry’s harshness actually comes from worry and responsibility.
Ponyboy tells Cherry the truth as he feels it: Soda is warm and caring, while Darry seems cold and disapproving. The conversation exposes one of Ponyboy’s struggles in The Outsiders: he can begin to understand Cherry and the Socs as complicated people, but he still has trouble understanding the brother who is trying to hold his own family together.