The mother of the ghostwriter in “Black-Eyed Women.” Following the ghostwriter’s father’s death, the ghostwriter’s mother moved in with the ghostwriter. Like the ghostwriter, she has been heavily traumatized by her experience as a refugee. She loves gossip and ghost stories, but she refuses to speak about her own experience fleeing Vietnam, having lost her son (the ghostwriter’s brother) and having watched the ghostwriter get raped on the deck of their refugee boat. In the end, like the ghostwriter, she must confront these losses and help her daughter to move forward by creating a nightly ritual in which the ghostwriter’s mother tells her “ghost stories” about the refugees and the pieces of their lives that were lost as a result of the war.
The Ghostwriter’s Mother Quotes in The Refugees
The The Refugees quotes below are all either spoken by The Ghostwriter’s Mother or refer to The Ghostwriter’s Mother. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
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Black-Eyed Women
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My American adolescence was filled with tales of woe like this, all of them proof of what my mother said, that we did not belong here. In a country where possessions counted for everything, we had no belongings except our stories.
Related Characters:The Ghostwriter (speaker), The Ghostwriter’s Mother, The Ghostwriter’s Brother
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Page Number and Citation:
7
Explanation and Analysis:
After the ghostwriter’s brother visits for the first time, the ghostwriter spends the next day in bed, remembering the years when she and her family had first arrived in America. Growing up, her mother had counselled her not to open the door for any strangers, because robbers would come in and commit all kinds of atrocities against families like theirs. Looking back, the ghostwriter sees the truth in what her mother said. Even though they had escaped the war that made them into refugees, they are still forced to face all kinds of discrimination and victimization in a new country Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperiores. Ut aliquam officiis. Unde enim nesciunt. Commodi necessitatibus voluptas. Accusamus eaque omnis. Velit eaque error. Possimus corrupti soluta. Qui aut a. Rerum voluptas debitis. Voluptatem accusantium est. Mollitia eaque ipsa. Perferendis consectetur et. Dicta impedit ut. Ducimus
Stories are just things we fabricate, nothing more. We search for them in a world besides our own, then leave them here to be found, garments shed by ghosts.
Related Characters:The Ghostwriter (speaker), The Ghostwriter’s Mother, The Ghostwriter’s Brother
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Page Number and Citation:
21
Explanation and Analysis:
At the end of this short story, the ghostwriter describes how she and her mother have a nightly ritual in which her mother will tell her a “ghost story”—often a refugee tale in which people have lost a sense of their past selves. The ghostwriter goes on to say that some of her stories come this way, but that sometimes she goes hunting for the ghosts herself. In this quote, she views the stories as fabrications because she can only glean the barest scraps from a story, or a ghost that she may encounter—that it is difficult to capture the Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperiores. Ut aliquam officiis. Unde enim nesciunt. Commodi necessitatibus voluptas. Accusamus eaq
The Ghostwriter’s Mother Character Timeline in The Refugees
The timeline below shows where the character The Ghostwriter’s Mother appears in The Refugees. The colored dots and icons indicate which themes are associated with that appearance.
Black-Eyed Women
The ghostwriter’s mother says that the ghostwriter should be glad that her name isn’t on her work. She...
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...the ghostwriter begins to work on Victor’s story, her own story haunts her. One day the ghostwriter’s mother wakes her before dawn and tells her not to be afraid: the ghostwriter’s dead brother...
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The ghostwriter explains that ever since the ghostwriter’s father had died, she and the ghostwriter’s mother had lived together. While she liked to write, her mother liked to talk. She constantly...
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The ghostwriter’s mother recounts this story the morning after she had seen the ghostwriter’s brother. She says that...
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When the ghostwriter, the ghostwriter’s mother , and the ghostwriter’s brother had used the bunker in earnest during the war, her...
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The ghostwriter flashes back, describing how terrified she, the ghostwriter’s mother , and the ghostwriter’s father were those first few years in America. They peeked through...
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...ghostwriter hears her mother returning and tells the ghostwriter’s brother to wait there so that the ghostwriter’s mother can also see him. When they return, they find only the clothes and the towel....
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The ghostwriter thinks about how no one she knew believed in ghosts, except for the ghostwriter’s mother and Victor. Victor had had a difficult time moving on from the crash. Nothing had...
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One day, on the brink of finishing Victor’s memoir, the ghostwriter and the ghostwriter’s mother watch a Korean soap opera together. Her mother comments that if the Vietnamese War had...
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That night, the ghostwriter returns to the basement to write. Plagued by the ghostwriter’s mother ’s words, she wonders why she lived and the ghostwriter’s brother died. As she starts...
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...She says yes. The pirate had thrown her to the deck, ripping off her shirt. The ghostwriter’s mother and the ghostwriter’s father were screaming; she knew that she was screaming, even though she...
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...the years they didn’t have together, for all of the words the ghostwriter’s father and the ghostwriter’s mother didn’t say to each other, and for the girls who vanished that day and did...
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The ghostwriter’s mother tells the ghostwriter that the ghostwriter’s brother would not be coming back: he had said...
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Instead, the ghostwriter asks for a story. The ghostwriter’s mother tells a story of a woman whose husband was a soldier. He was reported dead...
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