The Secret Life of Bees

Deborah Fontanel Owens Character Analysis

Deborah Owens is T. Ray Owens’s wife and Lily Owens’s mother. She’s arguably the most complex character in the novel: because she died years before the time when the novel is set, she’s available to the other characters only through memories and old possessions. For most of the book, Lily regards her mother as a kind, loving woman. Toward the end, however, we learn that the truth is more complicated: while Deborah loved Lily dearly, she abandoned Lily for three months to live with August in Tiburon, South Carolina. When Deborah returned to her family, intending to take Lily with her and away from T. Ray, there was a horrible accident, resulting in Lily accidentally shooting her mother. Overall, Deborah is a woman of contradictions: loving yet shockingly neglectful. As such, she’s a perfect example of August’s wise statement, “We all have flaws.”

Deborah Fontanel Owens Quotes in The Secret Life of Bees

The The Secret Life of Bees quotes below are all either spoken by Deborah Fontanel Owens or refer to Deborah Fontanel Owens. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
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Chapter 1 Quotes

Time folded in on itself then. What is left lies in clear yet disjointed pieces in my head. The gun shining like a toy in her hand, how he snatched it away and waved it around, The gun on the floor. Bending to pick it up. The noise that exploded around us. This is what I know about myself. She was all I wanted. And I took her away.

Related Characters: Lily Owens (speaker), Deborah Fontanel Owens
Page Number: 7
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Chapter 12 Quotes

“Every person on the face of the earth makes mistakes, Lily. Every last one. We’re all so human. Your mother made a terrible mistake, but she tried to fix it.”

Related Characters: August Boatwright (speaker), Deborah Fontanel Owens
Page Number: 256
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Chapter 14 Quotes

In a weird way I must have loved my little collection of hurts and wounds. They provided me with some real nice sympathy, with the feeling I was exceptional. I was the girl abandoned by her mother. I was the girl who kneeled on grits. What a special case I was.

Related Characters: Lily Owens (speaker), Deborah Fontanel Owens, T. Ray Owens
Page Number: 278
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Drifting off to sleep, I thought about her. How nobody is perfect. How you just have to close your eyes and breathe out and let the puzzle of the human heart be what it is.

Related Characters: Lily Owens (speaker), Deborah Fontanel Owens
Page Number: 285
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He stood over me. “Deborah,” I heard him mumble. “You’re not leaving me again.” His eyes looked frantic, scared. I wondered if I’d heard him right.

Related Characters: Lily Owens (speaker), T. Ray Owens (speaker), Deborah Fontanel Owens
Page Number: 294
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Deborah Fontanel Owens Character Timeline in The Secret Life of Bees

The timeline below shows where the character Deborah Fontanel Owens appears in The Secret Life of Bees. The colored dots and icons indicate which themes are associated with that appearance.
Chapter 1
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Lily’s only memory of her mother (Deborah, as we learn later) concerns the day of her death, December 3, 1954. Her mother... (full context)
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Lily’s mother was named Deborah, she recalls. Deborah—whose name T. Ray refuses to say anymore—was born in Virginia. Growing up... (full context)
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...surprise, T. Ray didn’t punish her. Instead, he sat her down and told her about Deborah. Lily vividly remembers the day her mother died—she even blames herself for the death, since... (full context)
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...it up. As he told the police, it was a horrible accident that led to Deborah’s death: Lily accidently aimed the gun at her mother. With this, T. Ray leaves Lily... (full context)
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...the tin box that contains her mother’s possessions. She looks at the photograph and strokes Deborah’s gloves. Suddenly Lily hears T. Ray running toward her with a flashlight, and she quickly... (full context)
Chapter 2
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...“You think that goddamn woman gave a shit about you?” T. Ray tells Lily that Deborah was planning to leave both of them on the day she died—she’d come back to... (full context)
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...for her father, in which she tells him to “rot in hell” for lying about Deborah. (full context)
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...Rosaleen, and then go to Tiburon, South Carolina, the town scribbled on the back of Deborah’s picture of the Virgin Mary. As she reaches this decision, Brother Gerald drives by. When... (full context)
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Lily tells Rosaleen what T. Ray told her about Deborah. Rosaleen agrees with Lily that it’s possible that T. Ray lied. Nevertheless, she’s disappointed that... (full context)
Chapter 3
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...life. Because Rosaleen is still sleeping, Lily passes the time by imagining a reason why Deborah owned a picture of a black Virgin Mary. Lily remembers that only Catholics carry pictures... (full context)
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...tells Rosaleen that they have to go to August’s house. Rosaleen is skeptical—it’s possible that Deborah never met August, she says—but she agrees to walk to the house, anyway. (full context)
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...well, asks Lily if she’s all right. When Lily doesn’t reply, Rosaleen tells her that Deborah is dead, and is never coming back. She adds that she doesn’t want to see... (full context)
Chapter 6
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...will lose its mystery. Later that night, Lily decides to show August the picture of Deborah soon. (full context)
Chapter 8
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...card that he ignored. She ends the letter by saying that she doesn’t believe that Deborah was going to leave her. After writing the letter, Lily rips it to pieces. She... (full context)
Chapter 9
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...the trick from her mother. Lily asks May if she ever knew a woman named Deborah Fontanel (Deborah’s maiden name). May immediately replies, “She stayed out there in the honey house.”... (full context)
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...off with Lily, but Lily refuses to explain herself. She wants to ask August about Deborah and demand to know why August didn’t tell Lily she knew Deborah. In the end,... (full context)
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...afternoon, Lily takes the photograph of her mother and goes to talk to August about Deborah. As she’s about to walk into the house, Zach calls her—apparently, August is in the... (full context)
Chapter 10
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...really is to August, but keeps this secret hidden for now. She imagines May greeting Deborah in Heaven, and prays that May will convince Deborah to send Lily a sign that... (full context)
Chapter 12
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Lily sits in August’s room, waiting to ask her about Deborah. She’s only been here once before: this time, she notices that everything is blue. She... (full context)
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...remembers. Lily shows August the photograph of her mother, and August replies, “Your mother was Deborah Fontanel Owens.” August explains that she knew that Lily was Deborah’s daughter as soon as... (full context)
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...tries to tell Lily everything. Years ago, she says, she worked as a maid in Deborah’s house in Richmond. Deborah was a lively child, though a bad student. Before August says... (full context)
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August comforts Lily, telling her that everyone loves her—even June, who resented Deborah. Confused, Lily asks August what she means. August explains that June, who also worked as... (full context)
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...gives August the “missing piece” of the story: the picture of the Virgin Mary that Deborah carried around. August explains that she gave Deborah the picture shortly before her death—Deborah must... (full context)
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August explains her relationship with Deborah. She worked for Deborah’s mother beginning in 1931. Deborah had an active imagination, and even... (full context)
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When August moved to South Carolina to work as a teacher, August explains, Deborah cried like a child, even though she was 19 years old: she loved August dearly.... (full context)
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August tells Lily that Deborah visited her in Tiburon shortly before her death. Deborah told August that she was planning... (full context)
Chapter 13
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...herself not to be angry, but of course this doesn’t work: she’s still angry with Deborah for leaving her as a small child. Furious, Lily throws a tin bucket against the... (full context)
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...Band-Aid. As Rosaleen treats the wound, Lily tells her what she’s learned about August and Deborah. Rosaleen nods—she didn’t know for sure that Deborah was leaving the family on the day... (full context)
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...of the Assumption celebration. At the Daughters’ potluck, Lily asks August to tell Zach about Deborah as soon as she can—August agrees. For the rest of the afternoon, everyone celebrates the... (full context)
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...the blue hat she’s promised Lily. She also gives Lily a box containing some of Deborah’s old things. There’s a mirror, along with an old whale pin and a brush that... (full context)
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The final item August gives Lily is a photograph of Lily—as a baby—with Deborah. Lily is awestruck by this image, because it lets her know that her mother loved... (full context)
Chapter 14
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...mother, forget her mother, etc.—but nothing works: she keeps coming back to the fact that Deborah abandoned her to go to Tiburon. (full context)
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...story of the runaway nun. The point of the story, August claims, was that in Deborah’s absence, the Lady of Chains could be a mother for Lily. She adds that Mary... (full context)
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...T. Ray notices the whale pin Lily is wearing. Lily, seeing his surprise, explains that Deborah used to stay in this house. T. Ray is furious, and he hits Lily. She... (full context)
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T. Ray starts to drag Lily toward the door, calling her Deborah, much to Lily’s confusion. Instead of fighting back, Lily calls T. Ray, “Daddy,” and says... (full context)
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...happened the day her mother died. T. Ray replies that it was Lily who shot Deborah. It was an accident, he knows, but Lily shot her. With these words, T. Ray... (full context)