Ernie Diaz Quotes in The Seven Husbands of Evelyn Hugo
Chapter 8 Quotes
I blame pheromones, ultimately.
That and the fact that, at least at first, Don Adler treated me like a person. There are people who see a beautiful flower and rush over to pick it. They want to hold it in their hands, they want to own it. They want the flower’s beauty to be theirs, to be within their possession, their control. Don wasn’t like that. At least, not at first. Don was happy to be near the flower, to look at the flower, to appreciate the flower simply being.
Evelyn describes her attraction to Don, which doesn’t spring from her admiration of his good looks or her desire to share in his fame, but from the pleasure of being treated like a person rather than a possession. It’s clear from this passage that, even early on in her career, Evelyn has already grown accustomed to men objectifying her and wanting to possess her. The metaphor of the flower implies not only that Evelyn felt other men wanted her just for her looks, but also that they saw Evelyn as something delicate and innocent. Though Evelyn resists this, she came up with the flower metaphor herself, which is a sign of her ability to hold contrasting ideas in balance: she knows she is beautiful, but she’s frustrated by how her beauty allows men to treat her.
The flower metaphor also extends to underline how Evelyn felt around Don, versus by other men. When someone picks a flower, they cut off that flower’s access to nutrients, essentially ending its life. For Evelyn, the threat of a man possessing her makes her fear for her life, or at least the life she desires. This is perhaps because, when she was with Ernie, her first husband, she knew he’d eventually expect her to give up her career in order to start a family. In contrast, the idea of a life with Don doesn’t present this threat—at least not when Evelyn first falls in love with him—which suggests that she can envision being with Don while remaining connected to the other things that fuel her, like her growing career.