The Cocktail Dress Symbol Analysis

The Cocktail Dress Symbol Icon
The Cocktail Dress Symbol Icon

The cocktail dress comes to symbolize Miranda’s awareness of herself as an object of sexual desire for Dev and, eventually, of the fact that her relationship with him is quite limited. Miranda purchases the dress after a whirlwind two-week affair in which Dev flatters her by praising her body and calling her “sexy”—a compliment she has never received before. Rather than end the affair when Dev’s wife returns from a trip to India, Miranda accepts her status as Dev’s mistress and purchases the cocktail dress as part of this role. If the idea of mistress already suggests a kind of limitation, the fact that Miranda never has the opportunity to wear the cocktail dress for Dev suggests just how limited her relationship with him is. That the cocktail dress ends up on the floor of Miranda’s closet powerfully illustrates the fact that their relationship is strictly confined to Miranda’s apartment. The cocktail dress takes on a darker shade of meaning toward the end of the story when seven-year-old Rohin tells Miranda she’s sexy when she wears the dress at his urging. Rohin also tells Miranda that the word “sexy” means “loving someone you don’t know.” Miranda is devasted by the awareness that the boy and his mother have been harmed by an adulterous affair, one Miranda imagines was driven by a married man’s pursuit of a “sexy” younger woman—a situation that closely parallels her relationship with Dev. In turn, the story associates the cocktail dress not just with Miranda’s realization that her relationship with Dev is superficial, but also with her burgeoning sense of guilt about their affair.

The Cocktail Dress Quotes in Sexy

The Sexy quotes below all refer to the symbol of The Cocktail Dress. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
Cultural Difference and Attraction Theme Icon
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Sexy Quotes

She kept the lingerie at the back of a drawer, behind her socks and everyday underwear. The silver cocktail dress hung in her closet, the tag dangling from the seam. Often, in the morning, the dress would be in a heap on the floor; the chain straps always slipped off the metal hanger.

Related Characters: Dev, Miranda
Related Symbols: The Cocktail Dress
Page Number and Citation: 92
Explanation and Analysis:

Rohin looked at her, his eyes like slits. He struggled to kick the mattress again, but Miranda pressed against him. He fell back on the bed, his back straight as a board. He cupped his hands around his mouth, and then he whispered, “It means loving someone you don’t know.”

Related Characters: Rohin (speaker), Miranda, Dev
Related Symbols: The Cocktail Dress
Page Number and Citation: 105
Explanation and Analysis:
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The Cocktail Dress Symbol Timeline in Sexy

The timeline below shows where the symbol The Cocktail Dress appears in Sexy. The colored dots and icons indicate which themes are associated with that appearance.
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Marital Infidelity and Male Power Theme Icon
Self-Deception and Honesty  Theme Icon
Social Isolation, Passivity, and Loneliness Theme Icon
...goes shopping for clothing that she imagines a mistress might wear; when she tries a cocktail dress on in the dressing room, an older woman admiringly tells her that “He’ll want to... (full context)
Self-Deception and Honesty  Theme Icon
Social Isolation, Passivity, and Loneliness Theme Icon
...through the items on her bathroom shelf. He then explores her bedroom and, finding the cocktail dress on the floor of her closet, urges her to put it on. When she does... (full context)