Unaccustomed Earth
by Jhumpa Lahiri
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Unaccustomed Earth: 1. Unaccustomed Earth Summary & Analysis

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After Ruma’s mother suddenly passes away from heart failure during a routine surgery, Ruma’s father begins taking long trips to Europe, often for weeks at a time. He sends postcards to Ruma in Seattle, where she recently moved with her husband, Adam, and their young son, Akash, from Brooklyn. Overwhelmed and bereaved, Ruma left her work as a paralegal after her son’s birth and her mother’s passing. Now, her father is planning his first visit to her home before continuing to Prague, while Adam is away on a work trip. Ruma, newly pregnant, is mildly anxious about her father’s stay, as they never formed a close relationship independent of her mother. Still, she feels a duty as his daughter to host him.
A lot changes for Ruma and her father after her mother’s sudden, tragic death. Ruma’s father begins traveling the world on his own, exploring a latent wanderlust, while Ruma relocates to a new city and falls pregnant with her second child. In the absence of Ruma’s mother—their former familial “anchor”—Ruma and her father are forced to redefine their relationship, beginning anew in unfamiliar territory.
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Ruma’s father enjoys traveling alone, liberated from the stress and anxiety of managing his family and their belongings during trips. Before Ruma’s mother passed, their family often traveled to Calcutta—largely at her insistence, as Ruma’s father never much cared for these vacations to their homeland. On a recent solo trip to Italy, he met Mrs. Meenakshi Bagchi, a widow and fellow Bengali in his tour group, and they quickly formed a friendship. He intends to share a hotel room with Mrs. Bagchi during his upcoming trip to Prague—a significant step in their romantic relationship.
Following his wife’s passing, Ruma’s father begins to broaden his horizons through travel. Unlike past family trips, which were dominated by his wife’s preferences, these solo journeys allow him to engage with the world on his terms. Meeting Mrs. Bagchi reveals his readiness to move forward and find companionship once again. His grief, while still present, has pushed him to embrace new experiences and people.
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Ruma finds herself less patient with Akash during her second pregnancy and wonders how Ruma’s mother so effortlessly managed her own household, husband, and multiple children. She reflects on the differences between her parents, acknowledging that Ruma’s father doesn’t embrace his Bengali heritage as loudly as her mother did. As Ruma shows her father around her house, he, an avid gardener, insists on watering the delphiniums in her garden. She watches him tend to the flowers, noticing his old age and privately lamenting that her children will never know their grandmother.
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Ruma’s father distributes gifts from his Italian vacation. He doesn’t share that  Mrs. Bagchi selected all the gifts. He doesn’t intend to tell either Ruma or her brother, Romi, about his new relationship. Before Ruma’s mother passed, she and Ruma had planned a girls’ trip to Paris, but after her death, Ruma chose not to go. Instead, her father asked for the tickets and went alone. Now, as Ruma and her father eat the Indian meal she prepared, she worries her cooking doesn’t measure up to her mother’s. Akash refuses anything but macaroni and cheese, and Ruma is ashamed that her child is seemingly rejecting the culture she was raised in—one she’s felt distanced from for much of her adult life.
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After dinner, Adam calls, and Ruma muses whether she should invite Ruma’s father to live with them in Seattle. Though he’s supportive, Ruma senses an underlying hesitation her husband refuses to voice. Since Ruma’s mother passed away, she and Adam have been disconnected—mostly because Ruma doesn’t think Adam understands her grief. Though her mother initially disapproved of their marriage, she eventually came to see Adam as a son. When Ruma had Akash, her relationship with her mother improved greatly, as she finally felt she’d done something right, something her mother could be proud of.
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Privately, Ruma’s father notes that the older Ruma gets, the more she resembles Ruma’s mother, and the thought pains him. He remembers the early days of parenthood, when he worked exceptionally hard to provide for his family while his wife cared for their children. His friends have begun asking if he’ll move in with Ruma, as is customary in their Indian culture, but he doubts she’ll extend him the invitation—she’s become too independent and westernized. In any case, he’s enjoying his newfound freedom, learning to appreciate life more in the wake of his wife’s death.
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The next morning, Ruma presents Ruma’s father with a list of activities they could do together during his stay, but he says he’d prefer to take it slow and rest before his trip to Prague. As they drive Akash to his swimming lesson, Ruma’s father asks about her employment, stressing the importance of maintaining a job despite her parental responsibilities. She quietly seethes, knowing Ruma’s mother would have been more supportive of her extended hiatus from work. When her brother moved abroad and distanced himself from the family, Ruma effectively assumed his role of the eldest son, but she has never felt that she met her parents’ heightened expectations.
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While showing Ruma and Akash the videos he took in Italy, Ruma’s father panics when Mrs. Bagchi briefly appears on screen, and Ruma asks who the strange woman is. He evades the question, quickly changing the subject. He always felt that Ruma and Ruma’s mother were “allies,” whereas he was resented and condemned as both a husband and father, never fully appreciated for his sacrifices. Fearing that Ruma will one day regret prioritizing motherhood over her career, as her mother did, he urges her to return to work. He wants his daughter to have the successful life she deserves.
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The following morning, Akash wakes Ruma, scared that Ruma’s father is nowhere to be found. But, before Ruma can panic, she sees her father pulling into the driveway. He’d gone to a nearby plant nursery and then purchased a treat from the bakery next door. Later, he returns to the nursery with Akash, and they come home with flowers, topsoil, and shovels. Together, the two of them get to work planting flowers in the garden, with Ruma’s father teaching his grandson the names of colors in Bengali.
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At dusk, Ruma and Ruma’s father sit on the front porch, drinking tea. He compliments her home, remarking how much he would’ve enjoyed having a similar porch at the house where Ruma grew up. Thinking of her childhood home makes Ruma emotional, and she recalls one of the last conversations she had with Ruma’s mother, saddened that loved ones can be present one moment and simply gone the next. Watching her father and Akash bond so quickly, Ruma is struck by how her father has “fallen in love” with his grandson in a way he never seemed to with his own children. For a fleeting moment, she feels envious of her son.
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Though he’s proud of the garden he and Akash planted, Ruma’s father knows that neither Ruma nor Adam are likely to maintain it. He hopes for the best, privately recognizing that gardening reminds him most of Ruma’s mother. Before she passed, he would grow all the vegetables she wanted, and she would incorporate them into their meals. As he prepares to leave Seattle, he discreetly tucks a postcard for Mrs. Bagchi into a book, ensuring Ruma won’t find it. While explaining to Ruma how to care for the new garden, Ruma asks her father to move in with them. Initially hesitant, he declines, but Ruma makes him promise to think it over.
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As Ruma’s father reflects on Ruma’s offer, he realizes that she only asked him to stay because she needs him. Though he’s tempted by his love for his daughter and the kindred spirit he recognizes in Akash, he decides he’d rather be a little selfish and embrace this new chapter of his life on his own terms. Ruma has her own life and marriage, and he does not wish to live “in the margins” of that world. The morning he leaves Seattle, he tells Ruma he can’t move in. Though she understands, she’s saddened by his firm resolve. He promises to visit again, when Ruma’s new baby is born.
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As Ruma and Akash examine the garden after Ruma’s father leaves, Ruma notices a stray postcard buried in the dirt. Akash explains the card is his and that he planted it there, and he cries when Ruma exhumes it. Though she cannot read Bengali, she recognizes her father’s handwriting instantly, understanding that this postcard is meant for his new love—the same woman, she presumes, she saw in his Italy video (Mrs. Bagchi). Meanwhile, at the airport, Ruma’s father regrets losing the postcard. Ruma, however, affixes a stamp to the letter, planning to give it to the mailman later that day.
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