Plus, the desire to help someone can be narcissistic.
Peterson quotes Dostoevsky’s
Notes from Underground as an example, where the protagonist doesn’t have the strength of character to see through his promises to the downtrodden Liza. Problematic, low-achieving people also tend to bring down the groups or teams around them instead of being influenced by their more stable peers. When it comes to helping other people, Peterson suggests assuming that you’re doing the easiest thing, not the most difficult. It’s easy to assume that you’re making progress with a troubled person, but it’s likely you’re just enabling their bad behavior.