Sir Robert’s wife, an icy, fastidious woman who takes pride in her finely tuned moral sense. She always categorizes people into “bad” and “good”, and recognizes no middle ground. Her idea of the good, like her husband’s, is determined more by social conventions than by ethical considerations. But when she finds that she has categorized her own husband as “bad,” she begins to reconsider her system. With Lord Goring’s help, she sees that it’s important to forgive people’s flaws - that it’s more important to see people fully than to sort them according to abstractions.
Lady Gertrude Chiltern Quotes in An Ideal Husband
The An Ideal Husband quotes below are all either spoken by Lady Gertrude Chiltern or refer to Lady Gertrude Chiltern. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
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Note: all page numbers and citation info for the quotes below refer to the Dover Publications edition of An Ideal Husband published in 2000.
Act 1, Part 3
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Robert, that is all very well for other men, for men who treat life simply as a sordid speculation; but not for you, Robert, not for you. You are different. All your life you have stood apart from others. You have never let the world soil you. To the world, as to myself, you have been an ideal always. Oh! be that ideal still.
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Lady Gertrude Chiltern Character Timeline in An Ideal Husband
The timeline below shows where the character Lady Gertrude Chiltern appears in An Ideal Husband. The colored dots and icons indicate which themes are associated with that appearance.
Act 1, Part 1
...party at the Chilterns’ house, a lovely, opulent home in a fashionable part of London. Lady Chiltern , a beautiful woman in her late twenties, is receiving her guests in stiff, formal...
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...Markby, and a striking red-haired woman named Mrs. Cheveley, who has recently come from Vienna. Lady Chiltern realizes, with visible displeasure, that she went to school with the woman now named Mrs....
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Act 1, Part 2
...new friend, Mrs. Cheveley. They talk pleasantly, though Mrs. Cheveley alludes a little condescendingly to Lady Chiltern ’s schoolgirl past, which was distinguished only by “good conduct.” They exchange witticisms, mostly about...
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Act 1, Part 3
...Cheveley about the noble, upstanding character of the Chilterns, then leaves with Lord Caversham. Meanwhile, Lady Chiltern approaches Mrs. Cheveley and asks her what business she had with her husband. Mrs. Cheveley...
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...it – he recognizes it, having given it to someone as a present years before. Lady Chiltern reenters the room. Mabel says her goodbyes and leaves; Lady Chiltern complains to Lord Goring...
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Lady Chiltern asks Robert, with some distress, why he has agreed to support the Argentine Canal scheme....
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Lady Chiltern insists that they are not complicated – one must simply be honest and upstanding in...
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Act 2, Part 1
...would end their marriage, since she herself is perfect. Lord Goring decides to talk to Lady Chiltern , to try to alter her views on life and perfection.
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Lady Chiltern joins them; she has just come home from a meeting of the Women’s Liberal Association,...
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Act 2, Part 2
Lady Chiltern reenters and sits down to talk to Lord Goring about her husband’s mysterious dealings with...
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...They make plans to go riding the following morning. As an afterthought, Lord Goring asks Lady Chiltern for a list of the guests from the previous night, and she tells him that...
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...Markby explains that they have come to inquire about Mrs. Cheveley’s missing diamond brooch, but Lady Chiltern does not know anything about it. Lady Markby uses the occasion to ramble about the...
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...times.” Soon Lady Markby says her goodbyes and leaves to make another social call, and Lady Chiltern invites Mrs. Cheveley to stay and talk.
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As soon as Lady Markby leaves, Lady Chiltern drops all pretense of pleasantness. She tells Mrs. Cheveley that she does not wish to...
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...with satisfaction, she leaves the house. Robert admits that Mrs. Cheveley spoke the truth, and Lady Chiltern cries out that all their life together has been a lie. She loved him because...
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Act 3, Part 1
...leaves the room. One letter is written on pink paper; it is a message from Lady Chiltern that reads: “I want you. I trust you. I am coming to you.” She intends...
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...expecting another woman – a secret lover, perhaps. She glances at the table and recognizes Lady Chiltern ’s handwriting; she reads the letter and takes it as proof that Lady Chiltern and...
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...advice. He has realized, he says, that “love is the great thing” – not ambition. Lady Chiltern , Robert says, has never done anything dishonorable, and Robert is afraid that she will...
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Act 3, Part 2
...drawing room, he sees Mrs. Cheveley; Goring, however, thinks that the woman waiting there is Lady Chiltern . In the conversation that follows, they are referring to two different people. Robert attacks...
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...dislike and contempt for her almost involuntarily. She speaks dismissively about Robert and spitefully about Lady Chiltern , whom she claims to hate deeply. Lord Goring says that Robert’s youthful mistake does...
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Lord Goring tells her that her malice toward Lady Chiltern is unforgivable. Mrs. Cheveley replies that her goal is not to torment Lady Chiltern; she...
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...him Robert’s incriminating letter. Anguished and terrified, Mrs. Cheveley hands it over. Then she remembers Lady Chiltern ’s letter – the one she considers proof of Lady Chiltern’s infidelity. She asks Goring...
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Act 4, Part 1
...his news. A servant comes in to tell him that Sir Robert is at work, Lady Chiltern is still in her room, and Mabel Chiltern has just come home from a morning...
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Lady Chiltern walks into the room, and Mabel leaves them to speak in private. Lord Goring tells...
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Act 4, Part 2
...and she decides not to correct him. Lord Goring discreetly leaves the room. Robert tells Lady Chiltern that he no longer fears public disgrace, because he has her love. She happily informs...
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Goring sends his father to speak to Mabel in the conservatory. Meanwhile, Lady Chiltern reenters the room. Goring scolds her for encouraging Robert to decline the seat. She should...
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Robert comes in, carrying his letter of resignation. Lady Chiltern reads it and rips it up. Using Lord Goring’s own words, she tells Robert that...
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...Everyone but Robert happily leaves the room to go to lunch. A few minutes later Lady Chiltern comes looking for him. They promise to love one another, and to hold love above...
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