The Treatment of Bibi Haldar

by Jhumpa Lahiri
Bibi’s cousin, Haldar, owns the cosmetics shop that Bibi works in. He is the head of the household and supposedly responsible for Bibi, though he does little beyond the bare minimum. Out of familial obligation, he feeds and clothes her but resents her all the while. He is frustrated by her frequent attacks and often leaves her alone in the street to suffer fits. The townswomen are disgusted by his unfeeling attitude and stingy behavior, taking Bibi’s side against him. When a doctor suggests Bibi get married, he ignores her pleas, claiming that she “has caused enough worry, added enough to expenses, sullied enough the family name.” Throughout the story, Haldar thinks entirely in his own self-interest and seeks to maintain order as the head of the household. When the women eventually drive him out of town through a collective boycott in solidarity with Bibi, he disappears without a trace or care for who he left behind.

Haldar Quotes in The Treatment of Bibi Haldar

The The Treatment of Bibi Haldar quotes below are all either spoken by Haldar or refer to Haldar. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
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The Treatment of Bibi Haldar Quotes

“We have little time for indecent suggestions,” replied Haldar to those who broached the subject of Bibi’s health. “What won’t be cured must be endured. Bibi has caused enough worry, added enough to expenses, sullied enough the family name.”

Related Characters: Haldar (speaker), Bibi Haldar
Page Number and Citation: 159
Explanation and Analysis:

They had a point. Bibi had never been taught to be a woman; the illness had left her naïve in most practical matters.

Related Characters: The Townswomen (speaker), Bibi Haldar, Haldar, Haldar’s Wife
Page Number and Citation: 159
Explanation and Analysis:

To express our indignation we began to take our shopping elsewhere; this provided us with our only revenge.

Related Characters: The Townswomen (speaker), Haldar, Bibi Haldar
Related Symbols: The Cosmetics Shop
Page Number and Citation: 163
Explanation and Analysis:

“Don’t worry, it’s not as if they’ve locked me in here,” she said in order to set us at ease. “The world begins at the bottom of the stairs. Now I am free to discover life as I please.”

Related Characters: Bibi Haldar (speaker), Haldar, Haldar’s Wife
Related Symbols: The Storage Room
Page Number and Citation: 166
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For the majority of her life, 29-year-old Bibi Haldar has suffered from an unknown “ailment” that seemingly cannot be cured. Her illness confuses and... (full context)
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...make matters worse, Bibi’s only local family resents her illness. She lives with her cousin Haldar and his wife, spending most of her days in a rooftop storage room recording inventory... (full context)
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However, Haldar and his wife pretend this is not happening. They work tirelessly in the cosmetics shop... (full context)
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Although the women argue in Bibi’s favor, Haldar and his wife are uncompromising. They claim she is only pretending to be ill for... (full context)
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Bibi refuses to work and instead tells the women unsavory intimate details about Haldar and his wife. She shouts these from the rooftops, telling the neighbors about their hygiene... (full context)
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Bibi is further isolated after Haldar’s wife gets pregnant. Haldar’s wife treats Bibi as if she is infectious, separating her dishes,... (full context)
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Haldar’s wife eventually has a baby, and the family avoids Bibi. Bibi works alone on the... (full context)
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In protest, the women begin to boycott the cosmetic shop. They watch Haldar’s shelves grow dusty as his wife disappears to her bed, having undergone a complicated labor.... (full context)
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After this, Haldar forces Bibi to move up to the storage room permanently. Even when the baby recuperates,... (full context)
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Haldar and his wife are eventually run out of business by the women’s refusal to buy... (full context)
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Bibi whitewashes the storage room with the money Haldar left her and fortifies her home with padlocks on the windows and doors. She sells... (full context)