My Brilliant Friend
My Brilliant Friend
by Elena Ferrante
Nino is Donato and Lidia Sarratore’s son and Marisa Sarratore’s brother. He is the aloof, unattainable object of Lenù’s affection from her elementary school days onward. From the time Lenù is small, she pines for Nino—yet when they are in primary school and Nino approaches Lenù one day to ask if they can get married when they grow up, Lenù panics and rejects him. When Nino and his family move out of the neighborhood after Donato and Melina Cappuccio’s affair becomes a public spectacle, Lenù fears that she’ll never see Nino again. Years later, she is surprised and delighted when she begins high school in Naples and realizes that the two of them are classmates once again. Nino, however, has grown skinny, shabby, and disaffected, while Lenù is too afraid of pursuing him to break through the walls between them. Nino and Lenù continue to orbit each other as the years go by—when Lenù goes to the island of Ischia for the summer and realizes that Nino and his family are staying at the same inn, she and Nino have their first real conversations and exchanging a brief but meaningful kiss. But Lenù’s feelings for Nino are complicated even further when Nino’s father gropes her and kisses her one evening; repulsed by Donato and yet full of love for Nino, Lenù flees the island and begins avoiding Nino at school. When Lenù gets in trouble with her religion teacher for speaking out against the church’s tenets, Nino urges Lenù to harness her discontent and contribute an article to a journal he writes for. Lenù is full of hope, believing that perhaps if Nino sees her as an intellectual equal, he might at last fall in love with her—but her hopes are dashed when Nino cruelly reports that the journal didn’t have “room” to publish Lenù’s essay. Lenù and Nino’s burgeoning relationship is complicated and tinged with resentment, competitiveness, and cruelty, foreshadowing the ways in which they will continue to seek to best one another throughout the remainder of the Neapolitan Novels.

Nino Sarratore Quotes in My Brilliant Friend

The My Brilliant Friend quotes below are all either spoken by Nino Sarratore or refer to Nino Sarratore. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
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Adolescence: Chapter 53 Quotes

When she gave me back the notebook, she said, "You're very clever, of course they always give you ten."

I felt that there was no irony, it was a real compliment. Then she added with sudden harshness:

"I don't want to read anything else that you write."

"Why?"

She thought about it.

"Because it hurts me," and she struck her forehead with her hand and burst out laughing.

Related Characters: Elena “Lenù” Greco (speaker), Rafaella “Lila” Cerullo, Nino Sarratore
Related Symbols: Language, Literature, and Writing
Page Number and Citation: 300-301
Explanation and Analysis:
In this passage, Lenù, hoping to publish an article in a journal run by her longtime crush Nino Sarratore, shows a draft of her piece to Lila. Lila adroitly proofreads and edits the article, moving words and sentences around to help Lenù’s arguments shine through more brightly. After editing the essay, however, Lila stoically declares that she doesn’t want to read anything else Lenù writes—now or ever—because it hurts too much, before striking herself and making herself laugh. This passage is significant because, for the entirety of the novel, readers have been following Lenù as she agonizes about being smart Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperiores. Ut aliquam officiis. Unde enim nesciunt. Commodi necessitatibus voluptas. Accusamus eaque omnis. Velit eaque error. Possimus corrupti soluta. Qui aut a. Rerum voluptas debitis. Voluptatem accusantium est. Mollitia eaque ipsa. Perferendis consectetur et. Dicta impedit ut. Ducimus possimus quo.

Adolescence: Chapter 62 Quotes

Nothing diminished the disappointment. […] I had considered the publication of those few lines […] as a sign that I really had a destiny, that the hard work of school would surely lead upward, somewhere, that Maestra Oliviero had been right to push me forward and to abandon Lila. "Do you know what the plebs are?" "Yes, Maestra." At that moment I knew what the plebs were… […] The plebs were us. The plebs were that fight for food and wine, that quarrel over who should be served first and better, that dirty floor on which the waiters clattered back and forth, those increasingly vulgar toasts.

Related Characters: Elena “Lenù” Greco (speaker), Maestra Oliviero, Rafaella “Lila” Cerullo, Nino Sarratore
Related Symbols: Language, Literature, and Writing
Page Number and Citation: 329
Explanation and Analysis:
In this passage, Lenù has just received the devastating news that her article will not be published in Nino’s journal after all—smack in the middle of Lila’s chaotic and increasingly violent wedding reception. She is deeply disappointed by the news, and as she attempts to process it in such a chaotic setting, she finds words Maestra Oliviero spoke to her years earlier echoing in her ears. During an elementary-school lesson about the “plebs”—the lower classes of Ancient Rome who attempted to unite and better their station, only to fail—Lenù struggled to comprehend the relevance of the history lesson. Now, though, Dolorem et quae. Exercitationem non aut. Eveniet dolor non. Incidunt dolores sunt. Ad dolor at. Quia aperiam eligendi. Ut veniam voluptatem. Aperiam consequuntur mollitia. Provident expedita delectus. Occaecati ea suscipit. Optio ut iste. Voluptas aut occaecati. Accusantium recusandae voluptates. Explicabo minus tempore. Nostrum dolor asperiores. Ut aliquam officiis. Unde enim nesciunt. Commodi necessitatibus voluptas. Accusamus eaque omnis. Velit eaque error. Possimus corrupti soluta. Qui aut a. Rerum voluptas debitis. Voluptatem accusantium est.
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Nino Sarratore Character Timeline in My Brilliant Friend

The timeline below shows where the character Nino Sarratore appears in My Brilliant Friend. The colored dots and icons indicate which themes are associated with that appearance.
Childhood: The Story of Don Achille, Chapter 5
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Though Lenù sides with Lidia, the mother of her crush Nino Sarratore, Lila sides with her relative Melina. Lenù attributes Lila’s fealty to Melina not just... (full context)
Childhood: The Story of Don Achille, Chapter 8
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...Lenù to Maestro Ferraro’s class of fourth-grade boys so that the girls can compete against Nino Sarratore and Alfonso Carracci (the third son of Don Achille) in a little competition. Nino... (full context)
Childhood: The Story of Don Achille, Chapter 9
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Lenù feels terrible that even her beloved Nino Sarratore must show the same deference to Alfonso. Flashing back to the moment of the... (full context)
Childhood: The Story of Don Achille, Chapter 11
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...first declaration of love. One afternoon, while returning home from buying bread, Lenù realizes that Nino and his brother are behind her. Nino catches up with Lenù and declares, in proper... (full context)
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Lenù flashes forward in time. The Sarratore family is moving out of the neighborhood: Donato, Nino, and Lidia load a wagon with their household items, drawing the attention of their neighbors.... (full context)
Adolescence: The Story of the Shoes, Chapter 18
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...is something familiar about him. As Lenù observes him, she realizes the young man is Nino Sarratore. Nino, however, does not appear to recognize Lenù. On the way home that day,... (full context)
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Lenù decides to tell Lila about Nino and Lila urges Lenù to tell Nino what’s happening with Melina so that he will... (full context)
Adolescence: The Story of the Shoes, Chapter 25
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...becomes distressed when her new reputation and good standing with the teachers doesn’t even get Nino Sarratore to notice her. She feels there is no “energy” in her learning anymore. Lenù... (full context)
Adolescence: The Story of the Shoes, Chapter 31
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Lenù writes to Lila about her feelings surrounding the prospect of seeing her beloved Nino. She imagines all they’ll do together on Ischia and believes they’ll finally become a couple.... (full context)
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Marisa reveals that Nino won’t come to the island until his father leaves—he cannot stand Donato. Nino, she says,... (full context)
Adolescence: The Story of the Shoes, Chapter 32
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Nino arrives in the evening but shows “not the least emotion” upon seeing Lenù—Lenù believes Marisa... (full context)
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One evening, Nino confesses to Lenù that when they were young, he envied her relationship with Lila—he was... (full context)
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One evening in August, Nino joins Lenù down by the beach after dropping Marisa off with her friends in town.... (full context)
Adolescence: The Story of the Shoes, Chapter 33
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...fall asleep until dawn. When she wakes, she realizes she has missed saying goodbye to Nino. The days that follow are sad and difficult. Lenù finds a paper bookmark Nino has... (full context)
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...Donato plays guitar for his family and Marisa’s friends. Lenù is struck by how different Nino is from his father: Donato is outgoing and warm whereas Nino is cold and withdrawn.... (full context)
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...“high-flown sentences” and great feeling as a writer. Lenù has an increasingly difficult time reconciling Nino’s words about his father’s cruelty and betrayals of Lidia with the man she has come... (full context)
Adolescence: The Story of the Shoes, Chapter 35
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...pots on the wall and thinks of Lila. She rereads her friend’s letter and clutches Nino’s bookmark. After a while, she hears footsteps. Donato enters the kitchen. Lenù pulls up the... (full context)
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Lenù lies in bed, distressed over her failure to heed Nino’s warnings about his father. Full of disgust for both Donato and herself, Lenù lies awake... (full context)
Adolescence: The Story of the Shoes, Chapter 41
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...but just being around him is nice. She begins to use him to “escape” from Nino, who has, since the start of the school year, been attempting to talk to Lenù.... (full context)
Adolescence: The Story of the Shoes, Chapter 43
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...taught to her in religion class—and she wishes she could discuss and debate it with Nino or Lila. (full context)
Adolescence: The Story of the Shoes, Chapter 50
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...to stay with him a little while longer in spite of her burning love for Nino. She tells herself that by the end of the month, she’ll break up with Antonio.... (full context)
Adolescence: The Story of the Shoes, Chapter 53
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Nino appears in the hall and, seeing Lenù in distress, walks toward her. Lenù realizes there... (full context)
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A few weeks later, Nino asks Lenù if she will write a short paper recounting her conflict with the religion... (full context)
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...she trusts to proofread it is Lila. Lenù brings the pages to Lila and explains Nino’s proposal. Lila is hesitant and explains she’s not capable of telling Lenù if it’s good... (full context)
Adolescence: The Story of the Shoes, Chapter 54
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The next morning at school, Lenù shows the paper to Nino. He praises her writing and walks away, seeming hurt, without saying goodbye. Lenù parts form... (full context)
Adolescence: The Story of the Shoes, Chapter 55
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...with preparations. All she is looking forward to is seeing her name in print in Nino’s journal. (full context)
Adolescence: The Story of the Shoes, Chapter 58
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...realizing that she hasn’t yet seen Alfonso—he is standing at the back with Marisa and Nino Sarratore. (full context)
Adolescence: The Story of the Shoes, Chapter 59
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...are together, and she wonders if they have made their relationship official. As Lenù spots Nino looking shabby and uncomfortable in the church courtyard, she feels that his presence adds to... (full context)
Adolescence: The Story of the Shoes, Chapter 60
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...escape—and she becomes firm in her own resolve to escape no matter the cost. When Nino, Alfonso, and Marisa enter the room, Lenù jumps up from the table and, struggling against... (full context)
Adolescence: The Story of the Shoes, Chapter 61
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As Lenù makes conversation with Alfonso and Marisa—hoping that Nino will talk to her too—Antonio comes up behind Lenù and asks her to come sit... (full context)
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Trying to ignore the shouts and growing discord, Lenù engages Nino in a discussion of poverty in Naples. Lenù is struck by Nino’s articulateness and his... (full context)
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Antonio catches Lenù staring at Nino and expresses his sadness and discontent. He is angry that Lenù used him to confront... (full context)
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Lenù tries to get Nino’s attention back by asking him about the magazine and when it will come out. He... (full context)
Adolescence: The Story of the Shoes, Chapter 62
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Lenù is deeply saddened by Nino’s news about her article, but she tries to maintain a front of indifference. She looks... (full context)
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Nino gets up to leave. Lenù tries to get him to stay a little longer by... (full context)