Our Mutual Friend

Our Mutual Friend

by Charles Dickens
Bella Wilfer (later Harmon) is the daughter of Mr. Wilfer and Mrs. Wilfer, and the sister of Lavinia. When she’s a girl, old Mr. Harmon notices her and later puts it in his will that John Harmon will only receive his inheritance if he marries Bella. But when John Harmon seemingly dies, Bella and her family start making other marriage plans. Initially, Bella can be childish, flipping the board when she’s losing at draughts against her sister, Lavinia. She tells her father that the thing she wants most from a husband is money, even though this isn’t why her own parents married. For this reason, Bella initially rejects the advances of her family’s lodger, John Rokesmith (who is secretly John Harmon). But when Bella gets a taste of upper-class life after being taken in by the newly wealthy Noddy Boffin and Henerietty Boffin, Bella sees the consequences of greed, based on the effects it (seemingly) has on Mr. Boffin. By the end of the novel, Bella has grown as a character, and she accepts the love of John Rokesmith, even though he doesn’t seem to have much money. She lives happily in a modest home for a while until John Harmon’s real identity comes out, allowing him and Bella to finally claim his inheritance. Bella’s story is a coming-of-age story that shows the capacity of people to change, grow, and become less selfish.

Bella Quotes in Our Mutual Friend

The Our Mutual Friend quotes below are all either spoken by Bella or refer to Bella. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
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Book 2, Chapter 8 Quotes

“And now, Pa,” pursued Bella, “I’ll make a confession to you. I am the most mercenary little wretch that ever lived in the world.”

“I should hardly have thought it of you, my dear,” returned her father, first glancing at himself; and then at the dessert.

“I understand what you mean, Pa, but it’s not that. It’s not that I care for money to keep as money, but I do care so much for what it will buy!”

Related Characters: Bella (speaker), Mr. Reginald Wilfer (speaker), John Harmon/Julius Handford/John Rokesmith
Page Number and Citation: 316
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Book 2, Chapter 9 Quotes

The doctor was quick to understand children, and, taking the horse, the ark, the yellow bird, and the man in the Guards, from Johnny’s bed, softly placed them on that of his next neighbour, the mite with the broken leg.

With a weary and yet a pleased smile, and with an action as if he stretched his little figure out to rest, the child heaved his body on the sustaining arm, and seeking Rokesmith’s face with his lips, said:

“A kiss for the boofer lady.”

Having now bequeathed all he had to dispose of, and arranged his affairs in this world, Johnny, thus speaking, left it.

Related Characters: Johnny (speaker), Nicodemus “Noddy” Boffin, Henerietty Boffin, Bella, Old Mr. Harmon, Betty Higden
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Page Number and Citation: 327
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Book 3, Chapter 4 Quotes

“I have hoped and trusted not too, Pa; but every day he changes for the worse, and for the worse. Not to me—he is always much the same to me—but to others about him. Before my eyes he grows suspicious, capricious, hard, tyrannical, unjust. If ever a good man were ruined by good fortune, it is my benefactor. And yet, Pa, think how terrible the fascination of money is! I see this, and hate this, and dread this, and don’t know but that money might make a much worse change in me. And yet I have money always in my thoughts and my desires; and the whole life I place before myself is money, money, money, and what money can make of life!”

Related Characters: Bella (speaker), Nicodemus “Noddy” Boffin, Henerietty Boffin, Fascination Fledgeby, Mr. Reginald Wilfer
Page Number and Citation: 455
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Book 3, Chapter 6 Quotes

“Do you like what Wegg’s been a-reading?”

Mr Venus answered that he found it extremely interesting.

“Then come again,” said Mr Boffin, “and hear some more. Come when you like; come the day after to-morrow, half an hour sooner. There’s plenty more; there’s no end to it.”

Mr Venus expressed his acknowledgments and accepted the invitation.

“It’s wonderful what’s been hid, at one time and another,” said Mr Boffin, ruminating; “truly wonderful.”

Related Characters: Nicodemus “Noddy” Boffin (speaker), Silas Wegg, Bella, Mr. Venus
Related Symbols: Dust
Page Number and Citation: 478
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Book 3, Chapter 16 Quotes

“I never was so surprised, my dear!” said her father. “I couldn’t believe my eyes. Upon my life, I thought they had taken to lying! The idea of your coming down the Lane yourself! Why didn’t you send the footman down the Lane, my dear?”

“I have brought no footman with me, Pa.”

“Oh indeed! But you have brought the elegant turn-out, my love?”

“No, Pa.”

“You never can have walked, my dear?”

“Yes, I have, Pa.”

He looked so very much astonished, that Bella could not make up her mind to break it to him just yet.

Related Characters: Bella (speaker), Mr. Reginald Wilfer (speaker), Nicodemus “Noddy” Boffin, Henerietty Boffin, John Harmon/Julius Handford/John Rokesmith
Page Number and Citation: 590
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Book 4, Chapter 4 Quotes

So, she leaning on her husband’s arm, they turned homeward by a rosy path which the gracious sun struck out for them in its setting. And O there are days in this life, worth life and worth death. And O what a bright old song it is, that O ‘tis love, ‘tis love, ‘tis love that makes the world go round!

Related Characters: Bella, Mrs. Wilfer, John Harmon/Julius Handford/John Rokesmith, Mr. Reginald Wilfer
Page Number and Citation: 656
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Bella Character Timeline in Our Mutual Friend

The timeline below shows where the character Bella appears in Our Mutual Friend. The colored dots and icons indicate which themes are associated with that appearance.
Book 1, Chapter 4
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...Mrs. Wilfer is tall and sharp. In the parlor, a pretty girl of about 19, Bella Wilfer, plays draughts with her younger sister, Lavinia. When Bella starts to lose, she flips... (full context)
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...of Cecilia’s husband’s aunts has fallen on hard times and come to live with Cecilia. Bella herself was once supposed to marry a man named George Sampson, though she rejected his... (full context)
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...advance. Mr. Wilfer draws up a contract for the man, whose name is Mr. Rokesmith. Bella and Lavinia fear the new tenant with a mysterious background may be a robber or... (full context)
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That evening at dinner, Bella asks Mr. Wilfer why the old Mr. Harmon had a condition about John marrying her... (full context)
Book 1, Chapter 9
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...hire someone else to watch it. Henerietty also gets the idea of doing something for Bella, who has lost so much after her intended husband John died. The couple decide that... (full context)
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...and takes them to Mrs. Wilfer. Boffin and Henerietty announce that they’ve come to change Bella’s life. Mrs. Wilfer calls Bella into the room to speak for herself. The Boffins tell... (full context)
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While Boffin, Henerietty, Bella, and Mrs. Wilfer are having this discussion, George Sampson, a friend of the family (whom... (full context)
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...both know him. Mr. Rokesmith himself appears and greets the Boffins. After the Boffins leave, Bella asks Rokesmith about the Boffins, and he says they’re “worthy” but admits that he doesn’t... (full context)
Book 1, Chapter 11
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...calling him The Golden Dustman. Mrs. Veneering talks about what a beautiful but pitiful person Bella is. (full context)
Book 1, Chapter 16
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...to the Wilfers, at a time in the evening when he’s hoping to run into Bella, and he does. He tells Bella that he has a message from Henerietty: The Boffins... (full context)
Book 1, Chapter 17
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...Henerietty’s new house, including the Veneerings, Lady Tippins, Mr. Podsnap and Mrs. Podsnap, and others. Bella comes to live with the Boffins for an indefinite period of time. All the local... (full context)
Book 2, Chapter 8
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...used to life in his new mansion, at least to the extent that he can. Bella would look pretty anywhere, but she begins to become even more attractive with the Boffins’... (full context)
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Bella believes that Rokesmith likes her, and while this used to excite her, she now acts... (full context)
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One day, Bella leaves her new home to go back and visit her family, including Mrs. Wilfer and... (full context)
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Mr. Wilfer asks Bella if she thinks she’ll stay with Boffin for good. Bella admits that she cares more... (full context)
Book 2, Chapter 9
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...Henerietty decides to take some gifts for the orphan right to Betty Higden’s house, and Bella accompanies her. She sees that Johnny is in a very bad condition. Johnny, in a... (full context)
Book 2, Chapter 10
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...Boffins’ orphan. Rokesmith tries to comfort a grieving Henerietty as if she was his mother. Bella walks in, and Henerietty says she has an announcement for everyone. (full context)
Book 2, Chapter 13
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...old Mr. Harmon’s wealth and the provision in his will stipulating that John must marry Bella. (full context)
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...made a deal with Radfoot about temporarily switching identities so that John could spy on Bella and assess her before being forced to marry her. (full context)
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...the Boffins to inherit the wealth he would’ve received, particularly with how well they’ve treated Bella. John decides he’ll never bring “John Harmon” back to life. (full context)
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...Rokesmith to the rest of the world) goes back to the Boffin house and sees Bella alone in the drawing room. Bella says she’s been meaning to have a conversation with... (full context)
Book 2, Chapter 14
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...knows that if he becomes John Harmon again, the Boffins will lose their property and Bella will be forced to marry him. Still, he regrets that an innocent man (Gaffer) was... (full context)
Book 3, Chapter 4
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...years, and their anniversaries aren’t a big occasion. They’re often awkward and joyless, especially for Bella (who has come over from the Boffins’ for the day) and Lavinia. Mrs. Wilfer speaks... (full context)
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Bella tells Mr. Wilfer she has some secrets to tell him. She mentions how Mr. Rokesmith... (full context)
Book 3, Chapter 5
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Rumors have been spreading that Boffin is involved in shady business. Bella gets back from the anniversary party and finds Boffin and Henerietty in the sitting room,... (full context)
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When Rokesmith is gone and Boffin and Henerietty are alone with Bella, Boffin compliments Bella on how she is showing good judgement by holding out for a... (full context)
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Meanwhile, Sophronia has learned about how much influence Bella has with the Boffins. Bella, however, is less trusting than Georgiana and harder to manipulate,... (full context)
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As days go by, it continues to be awkward whenever Bella and Rokesmith are around each other. Bella looks down on Rokesmith for “selling his very... (full context)
Book 3, Chapter 9
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Meanwhile, Bella and Rokesmith observe Lizzie from afar. They agree that Lizzie seems beautiful but sad. Rokesmith... (full context)
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Bella and Rokesmith agree that Henerietty remains virtuous, and they feel bad about how Boffin’s transformation... (full context)
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Lizzie and Bella talk about their admirers and how Lizzie is constantly afraid of seeing Headstone again. Lizzie... (full context)
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Bella leaves Lizzie to go back to Rokesmith. She talks about how she feels a lot... (full context)
Book 3, Chapter 12
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...perhaps Alfred could become the new secretary. Alfred wonders if it’s also possible to oust Bella, but Sophronia feels that Bella has too strong a hold on the Boffins. (full context)
Book 3, Chapter 15
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...he wants to confront Rokesmith—he has learned from Alfred and Sophronia that Rokesmith proposed to Bella. Bella herself tries to intervene, saying Boffin is going too far in his anger. (full context)
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...to try to get money. Henerietty also tries unsuccessfully to intervene on Rokesmith’s behalf. Eventually, Bella gets so angry at Boffin that she threatens to go back to her family, the... (full context)
Book 3, Chapter 16
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Bella comes home, and Mr. Wilfer is surprised that she doesn’t have a footman with her.... (full context)
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Mr. Wilfer warns Bella that if she accepts Rokesmith’s proposal, she should be ready to live more simply, unlike... (full context)
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As the conversation goes on, Mrs. Wilfer starts to get angry about Bella’s decision to reject the nice life she had at the Boffins’. Lavinia takes Bella’s side,... (full context)
Book 4, Chapter 2
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...other. Boffin pays Alfred a reward for letting him know that Rokesmith was interested in Bella. Sophronia pushes her luck, asking if perhaps she could replace Bella in the Boffins’ affections,... (full context)
Book 4, Chapter 4
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Bella wakes up early to make breakfast for Mr. Wilfer, who gets out of bed without... (full context)
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Bella, Mr. Wilfer, and Rokesmith head back home. Bella asks questions about what she was like... (full context)
Book 4, Chapter 5
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Mrs. Wilfer is very gloomy when Mr. Wilfer comes back to her after Bella’s wedding. Bella’s letter didn’t mention that Mr. Wilfer was with her, so Mr. Wilfer pretends... (full context)
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Within a few weeks, Bella and Rokesmith come to the Wilfer house for tea. Bella acts like nothing’s wrong, and... (full context)
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After Rokesmith and Bella leave, Bella senses that something is bothering Rokesmith and asks him about it. Rokesmith asks... (full context)
Book 4, Chapter 11
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Bella is doing needlework at her new home when all of a sudden, Mortimer comes rushing... (full context)
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Mortimer and Bella go to find Reverend Milvey, who is busy dealing with a parishioner who always wants... (full context)
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Bella arrives at Eugene’s bed and greets Lizzie. Mortimer, Reverend Milvey, and Mrs. Milvey have also... (full context)
Book 4, Chapter 12
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Some time has passed, and Bella has given birth to a child (who is also called Bella). Rokesmith asks adult Bella... (full context)
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...Julius Handford. Mortimer says he wasn’t going to bring this matter up in front of Bella, but that he recognized him as Julius. Mortimer gets Rokesmith to admit that he has... (full context)
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When they’re alone again, Rokesmith reassures Bella that regardless of his identity, he would never hurt her. He admits that Mortimer believed... (full context)
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Rokesmith and Bella receive a visit from the Inspector, who recognizes Rokesmith as Julius. Rokesmith agrees to go... (full context)
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The Inspector, Rokesmith, and Bella go to Miss Abbey’s tavern, where Jacob Kibble and Job Potterson (who were on the... (full context)
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Rokesmith has a carriage take him and Bella to their new home right away. When they arrive, Bella can’t believe it—they’re at the... (full context)
Book 4, Chapter 13
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Bella is surprised to see Boffin in such a jovial mood. Boffin tells Henerietty to explain... (full context)
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After hearing the story, there’s one part that doesn’t make sense to Bella: She doesn’t understand how Boffin seemed to become such a miser but isn’t anymore. Boffin... (full context)
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John Harmon, who now leaves his Rokesmith identity behind forever, leads Bella to a nursery that Boffin and Henerietty have built in the house. (full context)
Book 4, Chapter 14
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John Harmon and Bella move in to their new home. Meanwhile, the last of the dust gets cleared from... (full context)
Book 4, Chapter 16
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With the help of Mortimer Lightwood, John and Bella set the record straight about what really happened to John Harmon. Mrs. Wilfer finally puts... (full context)
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...of his visit: He’s come to pick up a doll that Jenny has made for Bella’s daughter. (full context)
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One of the biggest events of John and Bella’s new married life is when Eugene and Lizzie come to visit. Eugene is weak and... (full context)