The Marriage Portrait
by Maggie O'Farrell

Emilia Character Analysis

Emilia is a maid who works in the Florentine palace before traveling with Lucrezia to Ferrara after her marriage to Alfonso. Emilia’s mother worked in the palace’s kitchens, and nursed Lucrezia when Emilia was a toddler. As milk-sisters, the girls were very close until a pot of boiling water fell near them, scarring Emilia and resulting in Lucrezia’s return to Sofia’s nursery. A few years older than her mistress, Emilia is kind and gentle with Lucrezia, frequently comforting her when Alfonso is abusive or absent. After Elisabetta leaves Ferrara, Emilia is the only person Lucrezia trusts, and the only one who believes her claim that Alfonso is planning to kill her. Emilia’s murder highlights the novel’s grappling with ideas of coincidence and destiny.

Emilia Quotes in The Marriage Portrait

The The Marriage Portrait quotes below are all either spoken by Emilia or refer to Emilia. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
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Chapter 15: Honey Water Quotes

“A boiling pot fell. It missed you by this much.” Emilia holds up a hand, finger and thumb indicating a tiny space between them. “You screamed when it happened, as if you had been the one hurt, and you hugged me very tightly. I’ve never forgotten that.”

“Emilia, how terrible. I—”

Emilia gives a sad smile. “Better that it was me and not you.”

“Better that it had been neither of us.”

“But if it had to be one of us, it was better that it was me who was disfigured.”

Related Characters: Lucrezia (speaker), Emilia (speaker), Emilia’s Mother
Page Number and Citation: 179
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One morning in the villa, Lucrezia questions Emilia about why she never saw her in the palace before her wedding day, to which Emilia responds that she used to see Lucrezia quite often when she was very young. Emilia’s mother nursed Lucrezia while she stayed in the kitchens, and the two girls used to play together. The incident with the boiling pot that Emilia describes in this passage resulted in her disfigurement and Lucrezia’s removal from the kitchens. Despite her difference in status, Emilia has always considered Lucrezia’s empathetic reaction—even as a toddler—an indication of her compassionate spirit. As the novel goes on, Emilia’s companionship and solidarity sustain Lucrezia through the difficulties of her marriage, and this passage suggests the origins of their connection stretch back to birth.

Emilia and Lucrezia’s similarities play a large role in the novel’s discussion of fate and chance. In this dialogue, Emilia argues that it was better for her to be disfigured than Lucrezia, who is destined for greater things, having been born into nobility. This comment implies a kind of fate was at play in the incident. Significantly, Lucrezia pushes back against this idea, though she has trouble articulating why. Emilia’s remarks eerily foreshadow her own death at Alfonso’s hands, when he mistakes her for Lucrezia. To read her death as fate requires the reader to prioritize Lucrezia’s life over Emilia’s, which does not align with the novel’s portrayal of the girls as mirrors of one another. Rather, Lucrezia’s remark—“Better that it had been neither of us”—defies the patriarchal idea that female suffering is necessary, although the outcome in which neither her nor Emilia is hurt never comes to pass.

Chapter 17: Sisters of Alfonso II, Seen from a Distance Quotes

What liberty she gains by casting off her identity, by donning Emilia’s clothes, what fortuities are hers! She can go anywhere, be party to anything. These people do not see servants, do not recognise them as vessels of judgement or emotion. A maid in a brown dress might as well be a table or a sconce on the wall. She has access suddenly to the private, hidden life of the castello, the wrong side of its embroidery, with all the knots and weave and secrets on display.

Related Characters: Emilia, Lucrezia
Page Number and Citation: 264
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Chapter 20: The Underpainting and the Overpainting Quotes

It seems to her that there is another Lucrezia is in the room, one who cowers still in the bed, plaintively asking her what on earth she is doing, imploring her to stay here, where she is safe and warm.

Related Characters: Emilia, Lucrezia
Page Number and Citation: 322
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Emilia Character Timeline in The Marriage Portrait

The timeline below shows where the character Emilia appears in The Marriage Portrait. The colored dots and icons indicate which themes are associated with that appearance.
Chapter 2: The Unfortunate Circumstances of Lucrezia’s Conception
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...effects of Lucrezia’s restlessness on her siblings, Eleonora sends the baby to be nursed by Emilia’s mother in the kitchens, going against the wishes of her own nurse Sofia. There, Lucrezia... (full context)
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...her. Back in the nursery with her siblings, she is inconsolable, longing for her milk-mother (Emilia’s mother) and -sister (Emilia). As Lucrezia grows up, she continues to separate herself from her... (full context)
Chapter 11: The Duchess Lucrezia on Her Wedding Day
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...They plait her hair while the wedding dress lies on the bed. One scarred maid (Emilia) is gentler than the rest. Lucrezia wishes she could be alone with her thoughts and... (full context)
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...with. The servants encase her in the lavish wedding gown. The maid with the scar (Emilia) seems to feel sorry for her. Lucrezia makes her way through the palace, passing by... (full context)
Chapter 12: Scorched Earth
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In the fortress in 1561, Lucrezia wakes to find Emilia tipping water into her mouth. The maid apologizes for her late arrival, saying that Baldassare—Alfonso’s... (full context)
Chapter 13: Man Asleep, Ruler at Rest
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...the mountains. There is no sign of Alfonso, but the scarred maid from the palace, Emilia, is there. She informs Lucrezia that Alfonso received a letter and became angry before riding... (full context)
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Lucrezia, Emilia, and the Ferrarese soldiers ride through the Apennines on horseback. The journey is long and... (full context)
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...surroundings by the frescoes on the ceiling. She assumes a knock at the door is Emilia, but it is really Alfonso, startling her. He chides her for addressing him as “your... (full context)
Chapter 14: A Curving Meander of the River
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...are so dismissive of her. She addresses the letter to Isabella, pleading for help, and Emilia takes it, though there is no way to send it without letting Alfonso know. Still... (full context)
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Lucrezia hears horses coming over the fortress’s drawbridge. Emilia tells her it is the artist, Il Bastianino, bringing her marriage portrait. The maid reports... (full context)
Chapter 15: Honey Water
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...noting that she looks well-slept and lively; she wonders whether she might already be pregnant. Emilia interrupts and begins the cosmetic ritual that Eleonora imposed on all her daughters, but Lucrezia... (full context)
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Lucrezia is amazed to learn of the connection between her and Emilia. Emilia tells Lucrezia that she got her scar from the very incident that resulted in... (full context)
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Lucrezia paints for the rest of the day, lost in her work. Emilia informs her that Alfonso has returned, but he does not send for her until late... (full context)
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...returns to his normal self, no longer “a devil in collar and cuffs,” and tells Emilia to leave. He then starts undressing his wife. (full context)
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When Alfonso leaves, Lucrezia considers confiding in Emilia about how her husband seems to shift between two different people, but she decides against... (full context)
Chapter 16: With Her Head Held High
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In the fortress in 1561, Emilia helps Lucrezia get dressed, all the while protesting that she ought to remain in bed.... (full context)
Chapter 17: Sisters of Alfonso II, Seen from a Distance
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...lady-in-waiting, Clelia, to serve Lucrezia. Clelia seems judgmental of Lucrezia’s collected feathers and skulls, and Emilia is clearly irritated by her presence. Elisabetta tells Lucrezia to give the overbearing Clelia a... (full context)
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...her parents. She would like to be loved tenderly like that. One night—sometime later—Lucrezia dons Emilia’s clothing and explores the castle, disguised as a maid. She loves the freedom of casting... (full context)
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...over the drawbridge, pursued by several anguished guards. Later, the cart returns, empty. Lucrezia presses Emilia to tell her what has happened, and the maid relents. Alfonso discovered Elisabetta’s affair with... (full context)
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Lucrezia stays in her chamber until Emilia brings news that Alfonso and Baldassare have left for another city for several weeks. Free... (full context)
Chapter 19: A Presence Malign and Predatory
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...but the physician claims its heat makes her rebellious. She cuts it to shoulder-length, like Emilia’s, and demands the rest be burned. But Nunciata confiscates the hair, saying Alfonso wants it.... (full context)
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Emilia comforts Lucrezia in the night when she cries. The maid tells Lucrezia that many servants... (full context)
Chapter 20: The Underpainting and the Overpainting
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...Alfonso and Baldassare bid goodbye to Il Bastianino, Lucrezia returns to her chambers with difficulty. Emilia fusses over her, but Lucrezia is preoccupied with the sketches she began the night before.... (full context)
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Donning Emilia’s clothing, Lucrezia sneaks out of her room. At one point, Baldassare nearly walks right into... (full context)
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...At the moment she is standing at the kitchen door, he and Baldassare are suffocating Emilia, who looks so much like the duchess in the darkness. She puts up a fight,... (full context)