Haley has a complicated relationship with her curly red hair, which marks her as different but also brings her together with Kira, Holly’s mother. By the end of the novel, it comes to symbolize community and memory, especially with Black women like Kira and Haley’s own mother. Haley’s white uncle found Haley’s hair a challenge to manage and relate to while Haley was growing up. Being able to connect with Kira through her hair is a major step in Haley’s life, because it normalizes that aspect of herself and links it to her mother, whom Kira had known before she died. After Amari draws Haley’s hair with electricity superpowers, Haley sees herself with new eyes, realizing that her hair contains elements of both of her parents: its color comes from her Irish father, and its texture comes from her Black mother. The result of their love is striking and, Haley comes to see, beautiful.
Haley’s Hair Quotes in Harbor Me
Chapter 37 Quotes
But until I saw Amari’s drawing, I hadn’t really thought about my hair. The power is both my mom and dad running through it, through me. And their moms and dads. And theirs. The a and b of me. The c and d, as Holly said. I smiled. My mother was gone, but she was continuing too. Inside of me. And that was its own superpower.

