Blood Wedding

by Federico García Lorca
The Bridegroom’s mother. Because members of the Felix family murdered her husband and her other son, the Bridegroom’s mother is perpetually anxious about the possibility of her only remaining son—the Bridegroom—succumbing to the same fate. As a result, she frequently curses knives and the person who invented them, in addition to all other weapons. These thoughts are never far from the old woman’s mind, since she vehemently defends her right to talk about such matters until the day she dies, telling anyone who will listen that she’ll never forget the past. At the same time, she appears willing to look toward the future, as she agrees to go along with her son’s marriage even though she finds out that the Bride was once romantically involved with Leonardo, the last free member of the Felix family. Admirably, she decides not to tell her son this, ultimately wanting to preserve his happiness, though this unfortunately makes it even easier for him to overlook the fact that the Bride is still in love with Leonardo. When the Bridegroom’s mother meets the Bride’s father, both parents are delighted by the transactional nature of the wedding, seeing it first and foremost as a union that will bring children and riches. This, perhaps, is why none of them recognize the Bride’s discontent. And although the mother is supposedly so averse to violence, she’s quick to encourage violent revenge when Leonardo elopes with the Bride. Later, when the Bridegroom dies, the old woman feels oddly liberated, mourning the loss of her son while simultaneously realizing that she no longer has to worry about anyone attacking her loved ones.

Mother Quotes in Blood Wedding

The Blood Wedding quotes below are all either spoken by Mother or refer to Mother. For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
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Act One, Scene One Quotes

MOTHER (muttering and looking for [the knife]). The knife, the knife…Damn all of them and the scoundrel who invented them.

BRIDEGROOM. Let’s change the subject.

MOTHER. And shotguns…and pistols…even the tiniest knife…and mattocks and pitchforks…

BRIDEGROOM. Alright.

MOTHER. Everything that can cut a man’s body. A beautiful man, tasting the fullness of life, who goes out to the vineyards or tends to his olives, because they are his, inherited…

Related Characters: Mother (speaker), The Bridegroom (speaker)
Related Symbols: Knives
Page Number and Citation: 3
Explanation and Analysis:

If I lived to be a hundred, I wouldn’t speak of anything else. First your father. He had the scent of carnation for me, and I enjoyed him for three short years. Then your brother. Is it fair? Is it possible that a thing as small as a pistol or a knife can put an end to a man who’s a bull? I’ll never be quiet.

Related Characters: Mother (speaker), The Bridegroom
Page Number and Citation: 4
Explanation and Analysis:

MOTHER. I won’t stop. Can someone bring your father back to me? And your brother? And then there’s the gaol. What is the gaol? They eat there, they smoke there, they play instruments there. My dead ones full of weeds, silent, turned to dust; two men who were two geraniums…The murderers, in gaol, as large as life, looking at the mountains…

BRIDEGROOM. Do you want me to kill them?

MOTHER. No…If I speak it’s because…How am I not going to speak seeing you go out that door? I don’t like you carrying a knife. It’s just that…I wish you wouldn’t go out to the fields.

Related Characters: Mother (speaker), The Bridegroom (speaker)
Related Symbols: Knives
Page Number and Citation: 4
Explanation and Analysis:

No. I can’t leave your father and your brother here. I have to go to them every morning, and if I leave, one of the Felixes could die, one of the family of murderers, and they’d bury him next to mine. I won’t stand for that. Never that! Because I’ll dig them up with my nails and all on my own I’ll smash them to bits against the wall.

Related Characters: Mother (speaker), The Bride, The Bridegroom
Page Number and Citation: 5
Explanation and Analysis:

NEIGHBOUR. […] I often think your son and mine are better off where they are, sleeping, resting, no chance of being crippled.

MOTHER. Be quiet. It’s all talk that, but there’s no comfort in it.

Related Characters: The Neighbor (speaker), Mother (speaker)
Page Number and Citation: 7
Explanation and Analysis:

NEIGHBOUR. Calm down. What good does it do you?

MOTHER. None. But you understand.

NEIGHBOUR. Don’t stand in the way of your son’s happiness. Don’t tell him anything. You’re an old woman. Me too. You and me, we have to keep quiet.

MOTHER. I won’t say anything.

NEIGHBOUR (kissing her). Nothing.

MOTHER (calmly). Things!...

NEIGHBOUR. I’m going.

Related Characters: The Neighbor (speaker), Mother (speaker), Leonardo Felix, The Bridegroom, The Bride
Page Number and Citation: 9
Explanation and Analysis:

Act One, Scene Three Quotes

BRIDEGROOM. These are the dry lands.

MOTHER. Your father would have covered them with trees.

BRIDEGROOM. Without water?

MOTHER. He’d have looked for it. The three years he was married to me, he planted ten cherry trees. (Recalling.)

Related Characters: Mother (speaker), The Bridegroom (speaker), Father, The Bride
Page Number and Citation: 16
Explanation and Analysis:

FATHER. In my day this land didn’t even produce esparto. I’ve had to punish it, even make it suffer, so it gives us something useful.

MOTHER. And now it does. Don’t worry. I’m not going to ask you for anything.

FATHER (smiling). You are better off than me. Your vineyards are worth a fortune. Each vine-shoot a silver coin. What I’m sorry about is that the estates are…you know…separate. I like everything together. There’s just one thorn in my heart, and that’s that little orchard stuck between my fields, and they won’t sell it to me for all the gold in the world.

[…]

If we could use twenty teams of oxen to bring your vineyards here and put them on the hillside. What a joy it would be!

MOTHER. But why?

FATHER. Mine is hers and yours his. That’s why. To see it all together. Together, that would be a thing of beauty!

Related Characters: Father (speaker), Mother (speaker), The Bridegroom, The Bride
Page Number and Citation: 17
Explanation and Analysis:

MOTHER. My son’s handsome. He’s never known a woman. His name’s cleaner than a sheet spread in the sun.

FATHER. What can I tell you about my girl? She’s breaking up bread at three when the morning star’s shining. She never talks too much; she’s as soft as wool; she does all kinds of embroidery, and she can cut a piece of string with her teeth.

Related Characters: Father (speaker), Mother (speaker), The Bride, The Bridegroom
Page Number and Citation: 18
Explanation and Analysis:

MOTHER. Come! Are you happy?

BRIDE. Yes, señora.

FATHER. You mustn’t be so serious. After all, she’s going to be your mother.

BRIDE. I’m happy. When I say ‘yes’ it’s because I want to.

[…]

MOTHER. […] You know what getting married is, child?

BRIDE (solemnly). I do.

MOTHER. A man, children, and as for the rest a wall that’s two feet thick.

BRIDEGROOM. Who needs anything else?

MOTHER. Only that they should live. That’s all…that they should live!

BRIDE. I know my duty.

Related Characters: Father (speaker), The Bride (speaker), Mother (speaker), The Bridegroom (speaker)
Page Number and Citation: 19
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Act Two, Scene One Quotes

SERVANT (combing). Such a lucky girl…to be able to put your arms around a man, to kiss him, to feel his weight!

BRIDE. Be quiet!

SERVANT. But it’s best of all when you wake up and you feel him alongside you, and he strokes your shoulders with his breath, like a nightingale’s feather.

BRIDE (forcefully). Will you be quiet!

SERVANT. But child! What is marriage? That’s what marriage is. Nothing more! Is it the sweetmeats? Is it the bunches of flowers? Of course it’s not! It’s a shining bed and a man and a woman.

Related Characters: The Servant (speaker), The Bride (speaker), The Bridegroom, Mother, Father
Page Number and Citation: 23
Explanation and Analysis:

Act Two, Scene Two Quotes

It hurts to the ends of my veins. On the face of every one of them I can only see the hand that killed what was mine. Do you see me? Do I seem mad to you? Well I am mad from not being able to shout what my heart demands. There’s a scream here in my heart that’s always rising up, and I have to force it down again and hide it in these shawls. They’ve taken my dead ones from me and I have to be silent. And because of that people criticize.

Related Characters: Mother (speaker), Father, Leonardo Felix, The Servant
Page Number and Citation: 34
Explanation and Analysis:

I want them to have many [children]. This land needs arms that are not paid for. You have to wage a constant battle with the weeds, with the thistles, with the stones that come up from who knows where. And these arms must belong to the owners, so that they can punish and master, so that they can make the seed flourish. Many sons are needed.

Related Characters: Father (speaker), Mother, The Bridegroom, The Bride
Page Number and Citation: 35
Explanation and Analysis:

FATHER. It can’t be her. Perhaps she’s thrown herself into the water-tank.

MOTHER. Only decent and clean girls throw themselves into the water. Not that one! But now she’s my son’s wife. Two sides. Now there are two sides here. […] My family and yours. All of you must go. Shake the dust from your shoes. Let’s go and help my son. (The people split into two groups.) He’s got plenty of family: his cousins from the coast and all those from inland. Go out from here! Search all the roads. The hour of blood has come again. Two sides. You on yours, me on mine. After them! Get after them!

Related Characters: Father (speaker), Mother (speaker), Leonardo Felix, The Bride, The Bridegroom
Page Number and Citation: 43
Explanation and Analysis:

Act Three, Scene Two Quotes

Won’t you be quiet? I don’t want weeping in this house. Your tears are tears that come from your eyes, that’s all. But mine will come, when I’m all alone, from the soles of my feet, from my roots, and they’ll burn hotter than blood.

Related Characters: Mother (speaker), The Bridegroom, Leonardo Felix, The Neighbor
Page Number and Citation: 58
Explanation and Analysis:

Here. Here’s where I want to be. At peace. All of them are dead now. At midnight I’ll sleep, I’ll sleep and not be afraid of a gun or a knife. Other mothers will go to their windows, lashed by the rain, to see the face of their sons. Not me.

Related Characters: Mother (speaker), The Bridegroom, Leonardo Felix, The Neighbor
Page Number and Citation: 59
Explanation and Analysis:

You would have gone too. I was a woman burning, full of pain inside and out, and your son was a tiny drop of water that I hoped would give me children, land, health; but the other one was a dark river, full of branches, that brought to me the sound of its reeds and its soft song. And I was going with your son, who was like a child of cold water, and the other one sent hundreds of birds that blocked my path and left frost on the wounds of this poor, withered woman, this girl caressed by fire. I didn’t want to, listen to me! I didn’t want to! Your son was my ambition and I haven’t deceived him, but the other one’s arm dragged me like a wave from the sea, like the butt of a mule, and would always have dragged me, always, always, even if I’d been an old woman and all the sons of your son had tried to hold me down by my hair!

Related Characters: The Bride (speaker), Mother, The Bridegroom, Leonardo Felix
Page Number and Citation: 60
Explanation and Analysis:
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Mother Character Timeline in Blood Wedding

The timeline below shows where the character Mother appears in Blood Wedding. The colored dots and icons indicate which themes are associated with that appearance.
Act One, Scene One
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The Bridegroom enters his home and tells his mother he’s going out to the vineyard, declining her offer of food because he plans to... (full context)
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Tired of his mother’s morbid attitude, the Bridegroom asks if she’s finished talking about such bleak matters, but she... (full context)
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Fed up, the Bridegroom asks his mother if she wants him to murder their enemies, who are living out their remaining days... (full context)
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Changing the subject, the Bridegroom reminds his mother that he is soon to be married. Although the old woman knows his future wife—whom... (full context)
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Moving on, the Bridegroom’s mother asks her son about his future wife, saying, “She had another young man, didn’t she?”... (full context)
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When the Bridegroom goes out to the vineyard, his mother’s neighbor enters and falls into conversation with the old woman. “I often think your son... (full context)
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The Bridegroom’s mother is distraught to learn that her son is about to marry a woman who was... (full context)
Act One, Scene Two
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Leonardo’s mother-in-law cradles his baby and sings a lullaby at his home. Joining in, Leonardo’s wife helps... (full context)
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...plains,” which is quite far away. In fact, he vehemently rejects this notion, though his mother-in-law—who briefly left and now reenters the house—says, “Who’s racing the horse like that? He’s down... (full context)
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A young girl enters Leonardo’s house and tells his mother-in-law that the Bridegroom came to her family’s store and “bought all the best things” for... (full context)
Act One, Scene Three
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A servant welcomes the Bridegroom and his mother into the domesticated cave in which the Bride lives with her father. As they sit... (full context)
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...it gives us something useful.” Hearing how much he cares for his property, the Bridegroom’s mother assures him that they will not be asking for a dowry, which the Bride’s father... (full context)
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When the Bridegroom’s mother asks why the Bride’s father would want their land to be conjoined, he says, “Mine... (full context)
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...birthday. “That’s what my son would have been if he were still alive,” the Bridegroom’s mother says, but the Bride’s father tells her not to “dwell” on such matters, though she... (full context)
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Taking the Bride’s chin in hand, the Bridegroom’s mother says, “You know what getting married is, child?”  When the girl says, “I do,” the... (full context)
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The mother gives the Bride the wedding gifts before departing with the Bridegroom, leaving the Bride with... (full context)
Act Two, Scene One
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...wedding gown and the crown of orange blossoms. As the excitement sets in, the Bridegroom’s mother asks the Bride’s father why members of the Felix family are in attendance, and he... (full context)
Act Two, Scene Two
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The Bridegroom’s mother and the Bride’s father return after the wedding ceremony and ask the servant if they’re... (full context)
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Finally, the rest of the wedding party returns, and the Bridegroom’s mother talks to the Bride, noting that her “blessings weigh heavily” even though she should be... (full context)
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The Bridegroom’s mother walks over to him and asks him where the Bride has gone. “A bad day... (full context)
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...father dumbfoundedly expresses his disbelief that his daughter would elope with another man, the Bridegroom’s mother entreats him to rally his side of the family to chase down the runaway lovers.... (full context)
Act Three, Scene Two
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Leonardo’s wife and mother-in-law enter and worry aloud about what might have happened in the woods. When they leave... (full context)
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The Bridegroom’s mother arrives with her neighbor, who is crying. “Be quiet,” the mother says. She then thinks... (full context)
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The Bride enters wearing all black and weeping. Upon seeing her, the Bridegroom’s mother calls her a “serpent” and slaps her to the ground, at which point the neighbor... (full context)
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...of water,” Leonardo was like “a dark river.” Trying to explain herself to the Bridegroom’s mother, she says that the Bridegroom was her “ambition” but that Leonardo “dragged” her down “like... (full context)
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Once it becomes clear that the Bridegroom’s mother will not do anything to harm the Bride, the Bride asks if she can “weep”... (full context)