Native Speaker

by Chang-rae Lee
Mitt was Henry and Lelia’s son, who died in a tragic accident at a birthday party when he was seven years old. His death puts an enormous strain on Henry and Lelia’s relationship, and it isn’t until Henry finally opens up about his own grief that they’re able to mend the tension between them.

Mitt Quotes in Native Speaker

The Native Speaker quotes below are all either spoken by Mitt or refer to Mitt . For each quote, you can also see the other characters and themes related to it (each theme is indicated by its own dot and icon, like this one:
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Chapter 7 Quotes

“Just think about it. You haven’t said his name more than four or five times since it happened. You haven’t said his name tonight. Maybe you’ve talked all this time with Jack about him, maybe you say his name in your sleep, but we’ve never really talked about it, we haven’t really come right out together and said it, really named what happened for what it was.”

[…]

“It was a terrible accident.”

“An accident?” she cried, nearly hollering. She covered her mouth. Her voice was breaking. “How can you say it was an accident? We haven’t treated it like one. Not for a second. Look at us. Sweetie, can’t you see, when your baby dies it’s never an accident. […]”

Related Characters: Lelia (speaker), Henry Park (speaker), Mitt
Page Number: 129
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Chapter 15 Quotes

“If I had heard that one redheaded kid say even one funny word to Mitt! God! I would have punched his fucking lights out! I would have made him scream!” Her chest bucks, and she almost starts to cry, strangely, as if she’s frightened herself with a memory that isn’t true.

Related Characters: Lelia (speaker), Mitt
Page Number: 243
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Chapter 16 Quotes

And I think she’s saying it perfectly, just like she should. When you’re too careful you can’t say anything. You can’t imagine the play of the words in your head. You can’t hear them, and they all sound like they belong to somebody else.

Related Characters: Henry Park (speaker), Eduardo, Mitt
Page Number: 257
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Mitt Character Timeline in Native Speaker

The timeline below shows where the character Mitt appears in Native Speaker. The colored dots and icons indicate which themes are associated with that appearance.
Chapter 3
Identity and Multiculturalism Theme Icon
Silence, Language, and Communication Theme Icon
Love, Loss, and Moving On Theme Icon
...not to think about how he used to live there with Lelia and their son, Mitt. (full context)
Silence, Language, and Communication Theme Icon
Love, Loss, and Moving On Theme Icon
...thinks about what it was like to live in his and Lelia’s large apartment when Mitt was still alive. Mitt used to run around and yell, and they would often bathe... (full context)
Chapter 4
Identity and Multiculturalism Theme Icon
Silence, Language, and Communication Theme Icon
Love, Loss, and Moving On Theme Icon
Henry’s father died a year and a half after Mitt’s death. He was a serious man who wouldn’t have understood the kind of vacation Lelia... (full context)
Identity and Multiculturalism Theme Icon
...foreign country, become a successful businessman, and would even have had enough money to help Mitt have a good life. In short, he made it possible for Henry to avoid the... (full context)
Chapter 5
Identity and Multiculturalism Theme Icon
Silence, Language, and Communication Theme Icon
Years later, Henry and Lelia start spending the summers in Ardsley with Mitt, staying in a large room above Henry’s father’s garage. Lelia takes an interest in the... (full context)
Chapter 7
Identity and Multiculturalism Theme Icon
Racism and Xenophobia Theme Icon
Henry and Lelia’s son, Mitt, died at the age of seven. He had a close relationship with Henry’s father, who... (full context)
Identity and Multiculturalism Theme Icon
Silence, Language, and Communication Theme Icon
Racism and Xenophobia Theme Icon
Love, Loss, and Moving On Theme Icon
...he acquiesced to their parents and quickly accepted their apologies. When the same happened to Mitt, though, Henry’s father lost his temper and started yelling on the doorstep of one boy’s... (full context)
Identity and Multiculturalism Theme Icon
Despite the initial problems with the other children in Ardsley, Mitt soon became friends with everyone in the neighborhood. The accident happened at a birthday party—Henry... (full context)
Silence, Language, and Communication Theme Icon
Love, Loss, and Moving On Theme Icon
After Mitt’s death, Henry would stay up late. When he’d finally go to bed, he would pull... (full context)
Silence, Language, and Communication Theme Icon
Love, Loss, and Moving On Theme Icon
Mitt used to play with a tape recorder from Henry’s work. He liked saying things and... (full context)
Silence, Language, and Communication Theme Icon
Love, Loss, and Moving On Theme Icon
Henry tells Lelia that he has listened to the tapes of Mitt. She herself hasn’t listened to them for a while, since doing so always means she... (full context)
Silence, Language, and Communication Theme Icon
Love, Loss, and Moving On Theme Icon
Lelia and Henry start drinking. They’re still talking about Mitt, but in roundabout ways. Lelia feels bad about how she treated the people in her... (full context)
Silence, Language, and Communication Theme Icon
Love, Loss, and Moving On Theme Icon
...life. But she isn’t so sure. She’s disoriented by the fact that Henry never says Mitt’s name and never talks about what happened. He says that what happened to Mitt was... (full context)
Chapter 15
Silence, Language, and Communication Theme Icon
Love, Loss, and Moving On Theme Icon
...lost her mind with anger if any of the neighborhood kids in Ardsley had called Mitt a “gook.” She erupts into fury, but then she chokes back a cry, suddenly unable... (full context)
Chapter 18
Love, Loss, and Moving On Theme Icon
...to do exactly that when they first had a child, but the end result was Mitt, and he was so wonderful that Henry could never regret his initial reasons for having... (full context)