The Thing About Jellyfish
by Ali Benjamin
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Communication and Being Understood Theme Icon
Puberty and Coming of Age Theme Icon
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At the center of Ali Benjamin’s The Thing about Jellyfish is the friendship between Suzy and Franny. Franny dies by drowning soon before the novel starts, but she appears prominently in flashbacks throughout the book. Initially, Suzy and Franny are best friends who have a lot in common and seem to always have fun together. As the two of them get older and approach middle school, however, their relationship becomes more complicated. Franny starts caring more about things like appearances and starts hanging out with girls that Suzy thinks are mean, like Aubrey. Suzy wants to fit in with this new group to maintain her friendship with Franny, but she also wishes that things with Franny could go back to the way they were. Suzy and Franny’s relationship deteriorates from there: Franny spits on Suzy’s face during a camping trip, and Suzy puts frozen urine in Franny’s locker as a way of asserting herself. Before the girls have a chance to make up, Franny drowns. Following Franny’s death, Suzy feels unable to make other friends, as she spent much of her childhood insisting that she’d only ever need Franny’s friendship.

The novel positions supportive friendships—old ones and new ones—as essential to both happiness and healing. Suzy begins to feel more comfortable at school as she befriends Justin and her science teacher, Mrs. Turton. They accept Suzy as she is, while also pushing her out of her comfort zone—and, importantly, they show her that she isn’t doomed to be lonely forever after Franny’s death. Additionally, Suzy calls Franny’s mom and learns from her how much Franny admired Suzy—and that some of Franny’s cruel behavior occurred because she was jealous of Suzy. Knowing this about her deceased friend, Suzy is finally able to make peace with the past and accept her new friendships in the novel’s present, which is important to her healing process. The Thing About Jellyfish shows that friendships don’t always last forever, whether due to friends growing apart or a tragedy like death. But it nevertheless highlights the importance of being open to making new friends who can offer much-needed support.

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Friendship Quotes in The Thing About Jellyfish

Below you will find the important quotes in The Thing About Jellyfish related to the theme of Friendship.

Chapter 2 Quotes

“Not everything makes sense, Zu. Sometimes things just happen.”

Related Characters: Suzy’s Mom (speaker), Franny Jackson, Suzy Swanson
Page Number and Citation: 17
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Chapter 13 Quotes

“But you’d never be like Aubrey,” I say.

“Yeah, but just in case. Send me a signal. Like a secret message.”

Related Characters: Suzy Swanson (speaker), Franny Jackson (speaker), Aubrey
Related Symbols: Hair
Page Number and Citation: 86
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Chapter 23 Quotes

A few weeks go by like that: I sit down and watch the rest of you talk. Then one day, I sit back down at our old table. You don’t join me, and when you sit with those other girls, your back is to me.

Related Characters: Suzy Swanson (speaker), Franny Jackson
Page Number and Citation: 143
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Chapter 25 Quotes

The tree is right in front of him. There is a smile on his face. He winds his arm back.

He is about to kill something for no reason whatsoever.

The other kids scream and laugh at the same time.

Related Characters: Suzy Swanson (speaker), Dylan, Franny Jackson
Page Number and Citation: 157
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Chapter 34 Quotes

Then you disappear.

I do not wonder if this is the last image I will ever have of you on this Earth. Why would I wonder such a thing?

What I am thinking now is simply this: You did not look.

Related Characters: Suzy Swanson (speaker), Franny Jackson, Aubrey
Page Number and Citation: 197
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Chapter 39 Quotes

Everything was supposedly over and we were supposed to start getting on with life.

But I was sure: I wasn’t going to accept this thing that had happened, the way all those others were doing.

Related Characters: Suzy Swanson (speaker), Aubrey, Franny Jackson, Molly
Page Number and Citation: 216
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Chapter 46 Quotes

“Don’t worry, Belle,” he said. He patted my arm. “I got this one.”

He picked up the dead earthworm with tweezers and laid it out on the table in front of us. It looked just like every other earthworm I’d ever seen, except that it lay there like a limp piece of string.

Related Characters: Justin (speaker), Suzy Swanson, Mrs. Turton, Dylan, Franny Jackson
Related Symbols: Jellyfish
Page Number and Citation: 239
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Chapter 52 Quotes

Before I had a chance to begin, Franny’s mom said, “You know she always admired you so much, Suzy.”

Related Characters: Suzy Swanson (speaker), Franny’s Mom (speaker), Franny Jackson
Page Number and Citation: 276
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Chapter 57 Quotes

I am sorry I am just a dumb creature on a rock hurtling through space. I’m sorry I made your time on this rock, this stupid little mote of dust, harder and not easier.

Related Characters: Suzy Swanson (speaker), Franny Jackson
Related Symbols: Jellyfish
Page Number and Citation: 297
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Chapter 62 Quotes

But I stopped squinting. I placed my mom’s phone in my shirt pocket, next to the photo of Aaron. I took a deep breath.

“Yeah,” I said to Sarah. “Let’s go.”

Related Characters: Suzy Swanson (speaker), Sarah Johnston, Suzy’s Mom, Mrs. Turton, Justin, Franny Jackson
Page Number and Citation: 334
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