A Complicated Kindness

by

Miriam Toews

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A Complicated Kindness Characters

Nomi Nickel

The novel’s narrator and protagonist, a 17-year-old girl chafing at the restrictions of Mennonite life in the small town of East Village, Canada. Nomi is intelligent and precocious but doesn’t like to play by her… read analysis of Nomi Nickel

Ray Nickel

Nomi’s father, a mild-mannered teacher and devout Mennonite. Unlike many members of the community, Ray is highly educated, encouraging Nomi to read widely and develop opinions on scientific and philosophical topics, and he’s a fairly… read analysis of Ray Nickel

Trudie Nickel

Nomi’s mother, absent for most of the novel but characterized through her daughter’s abundant memories. Trudie is intelligent, warm, and spontaneous, making up exciting games and activities for her young daughters and enlivening the duller… read analysis of Trudie Nickel

Tash Nickel

Nomi’s wild and fiercely independent older sister. Like their mother, Trudie, Tash is absent during the novel’s present action, having left town with her boyfriend, Ian. As a child, Nomi is appalled by… read analysis of Tash Nickel

Travis

Nomi’s boyfriend, a disaffected and rebellious Mennonite teenager. Like Nomi, Travis is intelligent, curious about life outside of their closed community, and given to disobeying the rules: together they cruise around the countryside at night… read analysis of Travis
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The Mouth

Trudie’s brother, Nomi’s uncle, and the strict priest who governs life within the Mennonite town of East Village. In his younger days The Mouth was as rebellious as his nieces, even leaving town in hopes… read analysis of The Mouth

Mr. Quiring

Nomi’s cantankerous English teacher. Nomi is constantly at odds with Mr. Quiring, who insists that she write formulaic essays that parrot Mennonite dogma while she wants to create inventive and intellectually complex stories. Mr. Quiring’s… read analysis of Mr. Quiring

Lids

Nomi’s closest friend, a former classmate who is now hospitalized for a mysterious chronic illness. Lids is mild-mannered, obedient, and devoutly religious. In other words, she’s everything Nomi isn’t, but the two girls respect their… read analysis of Lids

Mrs. Peters

An elderly woman in the Mennonite community. Mrs. Peters’ son, Clayton, was in Nomi’s class before drowning in a tragic accident. Mrs. Peters becomes fond of Nomi, who reminds her of her dead son… read analysis of Mrs. Peters

The Comb

A drug dealer on whom Nomi and Travis rely for their supply of marijuana. The Comb is the only resident of East Village who manages to stay in the Mennonite community while flouting all its… read analysis of The Comb

Nicodemus

Trudie’s father and Nomi’s grandfather. Trudie remembers Nicodemus as a loving parent, even though he has so many children he sometimes forgets their names. When Nicodemus dies, Nomi tries to write him a letter in… read analysis of Nicodemus

Adeline

A Mennonite girl who works with Travis at the museum village. Travis and Adeline pretend to be a traditional Mennonite husband and wife, caring for a fake baby together. While Travis assures Nomi that he’s… read analysis of Adeline
Minor Characters
Aunt Gonad
The Mouth’s wife and Nomi’s aunt, whose real name is unknown. Aunt Gonad supports her husband in whatever he says or does and never speaks for herself. She’s an example of the marginalization of women’s voices in conservative Mennonite culture.
Carson Enns
One of Nomi’s neighbors. As a young girl, Nomi spends a memorable afternoon watching Carson slaughter chickens with his father, Mr. Enns.
Mr. Enns
Carson Enns’ father and Nomi’s neighbor, a gruff man who slaughters chickens in his backyard.
Neighbor Girl
Nomi’s neighbor, a young unnamed child. The neighbor girl is plucky and inventive, often demanding that Nomi play charades or pretend with her. Nomi’s patient and loving behavior towards the girl reveals her compassionate nature, which she tries to hide behind a tough exterior.
Clayton Peters
Nomi’s preschool classmate, who dies in a tragic childhood accident. Nomi later becomes close with Clayton’s mother, Mrs. Peters.
Ian
Tash’s boyfriend who shares Tash’s rebellious attitude and desire for knowledge outside the strict limits of their conservative, insular Mennonite community. He and Tash ultimately leave East Village together.
Eldon
The Comb’s cousin and sidekick, a Mennonite misfit who lives in a trailer outside of the town.
Mrs. Klippenstein
An elderly woman whom Trudie cares for as part of her Mennonite community service. After Mrs. Klippenstein moves to a Mennonite nursing home, Trudie uses her empty house to have secret trysts with Mr. Quiring.
Sheridan Klippenstein
Mrs. Klippenstein’s grandson and Nomi’s classmate, with whom Nomi reminisces about the comparatively simple days of childhood.
Gloria
A classmate of Nomi’s, who now works at the general store. Nomi often feels that she could develop a genuine friendship with Gloria, but the two girls never move beyond stilted small talk.
Mean Nurse
One of the nurses who cares for Lids at the hospital. The mean nurse thinks that Lids is faking her mysterious illness and consistently demeans and ignores her. This angers Nomi, who eventually throws a can of orange juice at her in fit of frustration.
Nice Nurse
One of the nurses who cares for Lids at the hospital. She is much more attentive to Lids than the mean nurse, and allows Nomi to visit the hospital even after her explosive argument with the mean nurse.
Bert
A community member who has been excommunicated for alcoholism. Bert still lives in East Village, even though everyone there is obligated to shun him. Bert shows how harsh policies like shunning affect people who suffer from addiction or mental illness.
Grandmother
Trudie’s and The Mouth’s mother, and Nomi and Tash’s grandmother. Grandmother is somewhat senile and addicted to vanilla extract, which she drinks instead of alcohol. Tash attributes her mental decline to worry and regret over The Mouth’s development into a harsh and dogmatic preacher.
Mason
A counselor at a Christian summer camp, with whom Tash has a brief romance.
Jakie
One of Nomi’s cousins, who is mentally handicapped.
Edwina
A government education inspector whom Ray befriends when she visits his school.
Travis’s mother
A conventional Mennonite woman, who allows Travis to rebel against his community but seems to dislike Nomi.
Menno Simons
The founder of the Mennonite sect, a 16th century radical theologian. Nomi imagines Menno Simons as a mean-spirited, socially-awkward man who forces his followers to retreat from the world because he’s scared of confronting it. Nomi’s imagined Menno epitomizes everything she dislikes about Mennonite life.