In Pride and Prejudice, Mr. Darcy separates Jane and Bingley because he honestly believes that Jane does not truly love Bingley. He also thinks the Bennet family’s improper behavior and social position would make the marriage unwise. Elizabeth eventually realizes that Jane’s reserved nature helped create this misunderstanding.
Darcy’s decision is partly motivated by pride and class prejudice. He looks down on the Bennets after seeing Mrs. Bennet, Lydia, and the others behave foolishly in public. Elizabeth herself is embarrassed by her family’s conduct at the Netherfield ball, especially when Mrs. Bennet loudly talks about Jane and Bingley as if they are already engaged. Darcy thinks he is protecting his friend Bingley from an “imprudent marriage,” and Colonel Fitzwilliam later reveals that Darcy was proud of having stopped a friend from making such a match.
Darcy’s intentions are not completely selfish or malicious, as he truly cares about Bingley and believes he is helping him. Bingley trusts Darcy’s judgment, which makes him easy to influence. Darcy and Caroline Bingley also deliberately keep Bingley from learning that Jane is staying in London, because they want the relationship to fade. Caroline hopes instead that Bingley will marry Darcy’s sister Georgiana.
Elizabeth is furious when she first learns the truth. She thinks Darcy’s “pride and caprice” have “ruined for a while every hope of happiness” for Jane. But after reading Darcy’s letter, she begins to recognize that Jane’s quietness really may have misled him. Darcy later admits he was wrong to hide Jane’s presence in London from Bingley, and he eventually repairs the damage by telling Bingley the truth and encouraging him to return to Netherfield and propose to Jane.
The separation of Jane and Bingley shows how pride and prejudice distort characters’ judgments throughout the novel. Darcy’s class consciousness blinds him to Jane’s feelings, while Elizabeth’s prejudice prevents her from seeing that Darcy’s motives are more complicated than simple cruelty. By the end, both characters learn to question their assumptions about other people.